| Stop a moment and ask yourself this: has
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| | developed between those who have
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| a new employee ever passed you up for a
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| | developed a great deal of
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| promotion? How can it be, you query
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| | rapport.Remember this overriding rule: we
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| yourself, that the new upstart was
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| | like those who are like ourselves. We
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| promoted when everyone else in the
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| | trust those who exude similarity with
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| company tells you that you deserved the
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| | ourselves. The cliche "opposite's
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| promotion? The new employee did not have
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| | attract" has never been farther than the
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| your track record for success, did not
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| | truth. Let me prove it to you. Think of
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| have the necessary credentials, and
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| | your best friend. Call to mind his many
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| wasn't even close to matching your
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| | qualities. Examine them well. Give
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| company loyalty!Frustrated with the lack
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| | yourself a minute to do this.Done? What
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| of answers, you attempt to obtain answers
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| | have you observed? Of course!!! Your best
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| from management, which only ignites more
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| | friend shares many of your habits,
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| frustration because they cannot explain
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| | mannerisms, dreams, ambitions...! Now you
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| it logically. Perturbed and discouraged
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| | have the secret of getting along with
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| you resort back to your old patterns of
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| | anybody (not just your best friend!)
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| long work hours and hard work, in the
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| | Build rapport, now, by creating an
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| hopes that one day all your hard work
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| | apparent similarity between you and the
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| will be noticed, while you watch the new
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| | other person.2.) Advanced Rapport: Want
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| employee move up the company ladder with
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| | to take that charisma the extra mile?
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| tremendous ease.What do these
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| | Let's talk about the arcane art of
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| "fast-tracking" employees have that lands
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| | ANCHORING.Anchoring involves placing a
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| them promotions, allows them to negotiate
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| | positive feeling into your supervisor's
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| obstacles with ease, and charms the boss
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| | memory about you. By definition
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| into giving them whatever they want? Do
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| | anchoring is the association of something
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| these employees hypnotize their
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| | seen, touched, heard, smelled, or tasted,
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| supervisors by waving a watch in front of
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| | with a specific memory or sensation. When
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| his or her eyes? Well, in a way...yes! A
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| | you hear an old love song you and your
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| few employees have learned subtle
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| | 1st girlfriend shared, strong emotions
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| communication methods that cause their
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| | come rushing back... even though a decade
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| supervisors to be instantly suggestible
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| | may have elapsed. This is anchoring: you
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| and receptive to covet influence.The
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| | anchored that specific melody with fond
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| subtle communication skills that
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| | old memories of love.Now let's bring this
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| fast-tracking employees use don't
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| | to the business environment.We all have
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| influence their supervisors on the
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| | people in our workplaces that cause us to
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| conscious level as much as on the
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| | cringe each time we see them or come into
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| unconscious level. Need proof that
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| | contact with them in meetings. People who
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| fast-tracking employees can influence
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| | cause us to wince have created a negative
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| their supervisors on the unconscious
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| | emotion anchored in our unconscious
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| level? Here's how to do it. When the
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| | memory. As a fast-tracking employee, you
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| opportunity arises, simply ask a
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| | cannot afford to create a negative
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| supervisor who has just given an employee
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| | emotion in your supervisor's memory. It
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| a promotion, a raise, or special role
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| | is your goal to anchor positive emotions
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| within the company his rationale for the
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| | of yourself in their minds. In other
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| decision. If the supervisor can give you
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| | words, you want your supervisor to
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| three good reasons for his decision, he
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| | associate you with favorable emotions.In
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| probably has not been influenced at the
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| | order to anchor, you simply use two very
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| unconscious level; this boss did his
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| | special gestures when you converse with
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| homework truly evaluated the various
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| | people: gesturing away from yourself, and
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| candidates for the job. However, if he
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| | gesturing towards yourself. Gesture away
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| cannot give you bona fide reasons for his
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| | from yourself whenever you mention
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| decision or if he gets mad at you for
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| | something negative. Examples would be a
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| questioning his judgment-it is likely
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| | death in the family, a salary cut, losing
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| that he had been unconsciously influenced
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| | a job. On the other hand, whenever you
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| by the charisma of the lucky person he
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| | discuss something positive, gesture
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| had just promoted.Now ask yourself: do
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| | towards your chest. For instance, you may
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| you already want to learn what these
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| | be discussing a recent golfing victory of
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| fast-tracking employees know about
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| | your supervisor, and as you praise his
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| unconscious communication? Are you
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| | achievement, you subtly gesture towards
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| desirous to learn the secrets of charm
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| | your chest. In both cases of gesturing
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| and charisma that can get you that job or
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| | away and towards yourself, ensure that
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| promotion? Then check into Neuro
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| | every movement is natural and
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| Linguistic Programming (NLP), developed
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| | spontaneous.Here's how it works. On the
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| by John Grinder and Richard Bandler. They
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| | subconscious level, the mind hears
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| combined different theories of language
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| | something positive and sees the subtle
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| and neurology to form methods that have
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| | self-pointing gestures. It then creates
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| the potential to influence people at the
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| | an association of positive emotion with
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| unconscious level. I have summarized a
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| | you. Over time the positive emotions
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| few of the many amazing techniques that
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| | associated with you will be anchored into
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| NLP has developed.1.) Weaving Rapport:
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| | your supervisor's unconscious memory.
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| Building rapport with your supervisor is
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| | Your supervisor will think you're such a
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| more than talking about the same movie
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| | swell guy to be with and won't even know
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| you saw over the weekend. Rapport
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| | why. Try this with strangers and observe
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| building includes matching all your
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| | how quickly you draw them in!The
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| supervisor's body posture, facial
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| | aforementioned methods should help you
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| expressions, energy levels, humor,
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| | to hypnotize your supervisor without
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| styles, words, and gestures. It can also
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| | using a watch on a string. If you would
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| include matching breathing, inflection
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| | like to know more about NLP and
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| voice tone, and language patterns. At the
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| | unconscious communication, I recommend
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| advanced levels it also includes matching
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| | joining our forum (it's free) and reading
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| values, beliefs, and objectives. Matching
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| | up on all the articles!Exceed Global Ltd.
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| is not mimicking your supervisor's
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| | was founded on February 1, 1998 by Joseph
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| behavior, matching involves adopting
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| | R. Plazo. Ravenous for knowledge, he
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| similar patterns into your own style so
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| | earned his MBA from UP in 2002, and his
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| that they appear natural versus
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| | Ph.D from BSU in 2005.Joseph is a busy
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| mimicked.One of NLP's theories is that
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| | man. He had been directing multiple
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| the mind and body are all part of the
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| | enterprises since he achieved financial
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| same system; therefore, if you match your
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| | independence at 22. While juggling
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| supervisor's verbal and non-verbal
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| | corporate endeavors, he writes books and
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| communication patterns, you are matching
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| | relaxes with active sports. Airsoft is
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| his or her thinking patterns-the highest
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| | his passion.Today, he connects with men
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| form of rapport that you can
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| | and women all over the world to spread
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| establish.Rapport is extremely important
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| | the revolutionary gospel of savvy
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| in business because business decisions
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| | semantics and behavioral change
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| are rarely reached on the value of
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| | technologies. His rallying cry is Make
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| technical merit alone; more often than
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| | Life Magic!
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| not, favorable business decisions are
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