| Parents with Teenagers…be Prepared!!
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| | my daughter and angry at the same time
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| I am writing this brief article to
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| | because I knew by her having a baby this
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| parents who have or will have teenage
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| | early it would "ruin" her life.
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| girls. I want to share this because if
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| | Now the reason I must explain my
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| necessary precautions are taken you will
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| | rollercoaster emotions and as my husband
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| save a lot of pain, heartache, and tears!
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| | had told me several years ago to get our
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| At the age of 16 my daughter became ill,
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| | daughters on birth control, I didn't
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| headache, throwing up, nausea and tired.
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| | listen, and the reason why is because as
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| Yes all the symptoms of pregnancy, as I
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| | a mother I felt I would be condoning
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| know the symptoms well as I have brought
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| | sexual relations at such a young age and
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| four girls into this world.
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| | everything I was taught growing up as a
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| My daughter's first response when I asked
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| | pastors daughter did not agree with
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| her if she had been having sex and
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| | giving my daughters birth control. So
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| thought maybe she was pregnant was "No,
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| | needless to say, I did not listen to my
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| Mom." Okay, so I thought possibly I was
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| | husband, but thought because I had such
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| jumping the gun and she had the flu, but
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| | an open relationship with my daughter and
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| being a mom I knew deep inside something
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| | we had been talking about sex since she
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| did not feel right and after another
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| | was 13 years old that she would never
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| week, she continued to be sick. One more
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| | have sex…I was very, very wrong!
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| time I asked her, "Do you think your
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| | So I stress to every parent that has
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| pregnant, have you been having sex?" and
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| | teenage daughters that are dating or even
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| this time she was quiet and said, "Yes,
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| | if their not dating on a regular basis to
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| Mom."
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| | continue your open communication with
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| Okay, as you can imagine most parents may
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| | them but PROTECT them by allowing them to
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| have flipped out, gone over the edge,
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| | be on birth control, for their own safety
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| hollered and screamed, but for some
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| | against pregnancy and disease. It is not
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| reason at that point and time, God had
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| | about us saying we don't care that you
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| given me a sense of calmness, I was so
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| | have sex but it's about saying that we
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| calm I scared myself. We talked about
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| | care and love you and don't want to see
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| when, who, and did she use protection.
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| | you hurt because even if your child isn't
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| Yes she said he used protection. I told
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| | ready or they think their not, "things"
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| her we would go and get a pregnancy test
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| | happen, the moon could be right some
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| just to double check because although I
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| | night, the music, atmosphere and before
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| was calm on the outside, my insides were
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| | you know it…it's too late! So please,
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| screaming, "Please God, don't let her be
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| | take extra precautions with your teenage
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| pregnant!"
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| | daughters and avoid the pain and
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| My daughter left the room and I shut my
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| | heartache that our family has had to
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| bedroom door and at that time I
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| | endure and the decisions we have had to
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| uncontrollably broke down crying and I
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| | make!
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| could not tell you when I stopped. I felt
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| | This article may be reprinted in your
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| anger, hurt, resentment, guilt and the
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| | website, ezine, or off-line print as long
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| emotions were endless. I felt so sad for
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| | as the authors byline stay intact.
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