Lost Love Online: Internet Dating Scams

Desmond Gregor was terrified. Held at ransom bySometimes the scammers put their profiles online -
armed men in Mali, Africa who beat him withwhich are usually very appealing with very attractive
machetes and threatened to 'hack off his limbs' if hephotos - and wait for potential victims to contact them.
didn't pay $90,000, he regretted ever going there in theThis is an even worse scenario.
first place. His ordeal lasted 12 days. Finally the 56 yearScammers find it very easy to target internet dating
old Australian was rescued by Australian and Malisites because they usually don't run any checks. Even
police who tricked the kidnappers into taking him to therespectable sites, such as Christian Café, have
Canadian embassy.had trouble with these schemes.
Mr.Gregor believes that he probably wouldn't haveInternet dating sites have become very popular with
survived if he had been held any longer. Luckily hisseniors. Seniors are generally regarded as easy
relatives became suspicious when they receivedtargets by 'romance scammers.' Photos of very
emails asking for money and contacted the police.attractive young women are often used to appeal to
The sheep farmer went to Mali to meet hisolder men. In some cases they even offer them sex.
prospective bride who was young and attractive. HeAs the story of the Taiwanese student shows,
was even offered a dowry of gold if he married her.however, these scams can target anyone. The
Internet dating scams like this abound. In one case aschemes which ask for shipments of goods are
young Taiwanese student lost $200,000 NT after hereasonably new, for example, and have affected
transferred his entire savings account to his internetpeople from many age groups. Apparently online
date. In other cases people have shipped goods toretailers are wary of shipping to West Africa because
their prospective dates who were using stolen creditof the danger of stolen credit cards.
cards. Some have sent airfares or other payments.The schemes have also affected people on internet
Often the scammers are from Western Africa orchat rooms.
Russia. According to they usually have a particularOnline dating is fun and a respectable way to look for
way of working. The scammer usually contacts alove today, but be wary. If potential dates begin asking
person who has placed his or her profile at an internetfor money be especially suspicious and contact the
dating site. The scammer usually uses an attractivepolice. There are many websites and forums devoted
photo and is good at getting the potential victim toto the dangers of these scams - some even list the
believe that a romance is very possible. After a whilephotos of known scammers. If a date seems too
the scammer will begin to ask for money, such as angood to be true it is a good idea to look them up. Also
airfare to travel to see the date. They apparently useit is probably safer to date locally so that you can
all kinds of excuses to request money.actually meet the person.