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How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A too). So to begin with, start
Big Way, And Get Her To Do then stop. Start then stop. Do something
The Things You've Always Wanted To begin that's arousing, then cool it
with, I want to remind you of and do something else. Did someone say
the differences between how men and "Anticipation"? I thought so.
women approach and experience sex. The way to get her to want to have sex
To set the stage, I first want to talk is to create this anticipation
about "experience." As humans, while at the same time stimulating her
we use our five primary senses to take senses. Combine this with a
in information about the world. casual attitude of "I'm enjoying this,
This is called "Perception." Most of but I don't NEED it" and you're
this happens on an UNCONSCIOUS off to the races.But you have to keep it
level. We then take what we get from our up. It might take you an extra 20 or 30
senses and we process this minutes of this teasing and whatnot, but
information. We compare it to what we've if you'll just be patient, my
experienced before, we son, you'll reap the great rewards.If
classify it, we imagine it in different you keep it up for long enough, one of
ways, and we have UNCONSCIOUS these will usually happen.
reactions to it.Most people have asked that's your cue that it's time to take
these questions once or twice in life, things to the next level. When
but they you get the signal, it's time for you to
usually stop asking once they decide act like a man and do
that most people have the same something (isn't it a bitch being a guy
experiences as they do when they drink sometimes?).I recommend this sequence:1.
coffee, etc. Run your hands over her breasts (through
Here's the deal: When it comes to most her clothes).2. Run your hands over her
`gross' experiences (meaning ass (through her clothes).3. Pull her
common level) like getting hit with a shirt up just enough to expose her
baseball, tasting salt, or stomach a tiny bit,
seeing a color, we as humans usually and then start touching it very gently
have pretty similar experiences. and slowly... also touch her
But when it comes to `subtle' back where it's exposed. Remember what I
experiences (meaning less extreme, and said about slow, gentle touching.4. Stop
in this context, also more complex) once in awhile. Create anticipation.5.
people, and especially different Next, take off her shirt. Don't
genders,have vastly different immediately go for the breasts!
experiences.For instance, if you show a Don't do it! Gently touch every part of
man and a woman a picture of a Victoria's her that's exposed (I'm
assuming that she still has her bra on).
Secret catalogue, the man will usually Kiss her shoulders... and her
notice all of the women, while back. Add generous portions of light
the woman will notice the clothing, slow touching and mini-tasting.6. If the
including the colors and the "I'm getting really hot" signals keep
details. Finally, the order or sequence coming from her, now
of experiences and thoughts touch and kiss her breasts gently
have a major role in the responses that through her bra. If this goes over
men and women demonstrate. well, then take it off and kiss some
In the area of sex, men are usually more. Remember, slow, gentle...
pretty simple: See hot woman, get and stop for anticipation breaks.7. Next
turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3 comes the pants. You may have to take
seconds. A man can be outside shoes and/or socks off
working on his car and see a beautiful first. Slow and deliberate. Don't act
woman out of the corner of his like you've been in prison for
eye, and instantly be in the mood. On the last five years and this is your
the other hand, women are a bit first time with a woman.
more complex. Even if a woman sees a 8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing,
handsome man, she will RARELY get smelling, tasting, gentle
sexually turned on. The first thing that slow touching... and add touching around
women experience when they the edges of her underwear.
SEE an attractive man is usually more of Women like to have the skin around the
a curiosity or intrigue... a edges of clothing and
wanting to know more. If a man smiles at underclothing touched (usually). Slowly
a woman, the woman usually and deliberately.9. Finally, reach down
interprets the smile as "Hi, you look and touch her gently between her legs.
nice and friendly." If a woman She
smiles at a man, the man usually might resist this (or any of the
interprets the smile as "I'm previous advances). If she does, just
interested in sex." This one difference stop and go back to building
causes many first meetings to anticipation. If you do this a few more
go the wrong way.Here's the deal: In times, she'll usually get turned on to
general, it takes women longer to get in the point where she wants you
`The to continue.
Mood' for sex, and it happens 10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men
differently than it does for men. As I in the world, I have to say
talk about sex and how to do it better, "If she says "STOP" or pushes you away,
you need to keep this in mind. then stop. Never force a woman
Some of the things I'm going to tell you to do anything. It's dumb, wrong, and
might sound like just illegal."
`interesting' ideas, or unusual things So that's it for the `transition.' Now
to do. Not so. you're ready for the real deal.Oral
While they may be interesting and SexFor a woman, her whole body can get
unusual, they are all specifically turned on. So don't forget to
to appeal to the female mind and mating keep touching her and paying attention
preferences. 50,000 years ago to the rest of her body. I
women had to figure out some way to recommend trying a few things when you
determine if a man was going to be first have oral sex with her to
a good provider and a loyal mate. I find what she likes.Here's the list:1.
believe that the concept of Begin by KISSING your way down her
`Romance' was that way.If a man was stomach... and then her inner
really interested, he would go through thighs and legs... anticipation.
some 2. Ask "are you comfortable." Women
demonstrations of his devotion... and be usually like to feel clean and
willing to wait for sex. And `fresh'... and she might feel
so it goes. Women love things like self-conscious because she hasn't
`taking your time', `anticipation', showered in several hours, etc. If this
`sensory rich experiences', `romantic is the case, you might want to
talk' and `foreplay.' I know, I ask her if she'd like to share a shower
know. We all want a woman that gets with you. If she seems
turned on by just seeing your uncomfortable, ask if she'd like to join
unshaven face and dirty hair in the you in a shower.
morning. But these are the cards 3. Begin by kissing her gently. Kiss her
we were dealt, and we might as well and lick her slowly and
learn how to play them in this deliberately. Make some "Mmmmm" noises
lifetime.Onward. So I just mentioned a and let her know that you're
bunch of ideas. Let's tie them enjoying yourself.
together. As far as the senses go: In 4. You have a couple of major tools, and
general, women get turned on by a couple of ways to use
a few major categories of things:1. them. Use your tongue on her clit, and
Voice tone, sensual (not sexual) your fingers on the inside.
language, and vivid descriptions. 5. Start with kissing and licking, then
Women love to hear a sexy voice a few minutes later insert
describing ideas, feelings, and one finger. If she likes this, ask if
scenarios in painful detail.2. A wide she'd like two fingers. Go slow,
range of different touching, kissing, as most women need to relax and get used
stroking, caressing, to the stretching. If you
and cuddling.3. Smells and smelling. don't know where a clit and a G spot
Women love great cologne. And women love are, get a book.
to 6. Mouth options: Licking up and down,
be smelled.4. Tastes. Women love to be side to side, in circles,
fed all kinds of wonderful things like directly on her clit, around it,
Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne. sucking.
Did you notice anything 7. Finger(s) inside options: Sliding in
missing from the list?I left out SIGHT and out, staying still,
on my list. Why? rubbing top or bottom or sides, rubbing
Well, women don't get turned on as much a spot inside, slow, fast.
by sight as they do by other 8. Try each of the mouth options until
senses. Men are usually more turned on you find the one she likes best.
by visuals than by the other 9. Try each of the finger options until
four senses combined.Women are turned on you find the one she likes best.
more by the others. It's true that what 10. Combine. Once you find the magic
you look combination, keep doing it
like can PREVENT you from being EXACTLY that way, at EXACTLY that speed
attractive due to not taking care of and pressure. Men like faster
yourself, not being her `type' or and harder, women usually like the same
whatever.But I believe (and have proven way until orgasm.If you do a great job,
to myself over and over) that if you she'll usually want to reciprocate and
pave the way correctly, you can overcome use her
looks and get a woman VERY mouth to make you feel great.Do yourself
sexually stimulated by using her other a favor: Tell her what you like and how
senses and her imagination.Next I talked you like it. But
about how women notice details. Women don't make it sound like you've done
notice subtle this a thousand times and you're
things. If you rub a woman's hand, an expert at describing it.Say "Ohhh...
she'll feel warm and friendly I liked it when you did this..." and "It
toward you. If you very very gently and really feels
slowly run the tips of your good when you..." Women like to know
fingers over her hand, she will begin to that you're feeling good. So tell
get aroused (other conditions her as she's doing it. Tell her how
have to be right, of course).If you kiss you're feeling.
a woman on the lips and stick your tongue SexI think it's a good idea to always be
down her throat, paying attention to how she's
she'll probably be disgusted. But if you responding to your touching, kissing,
kiss her gently... then etc. Different women like things
slowly pull away and look into her differently, and sex is where this makes
eyes... then kiss her again slowly itself more obvious. So....
and gently... you'll start a fire inside if she liked it when you really sucked
of her that will build (if on her neck hard... and she was
you do everything else correctly as pulling on you with force, then there's
well).I also mentioned romance. To me, a good chance that she's going
romance is simply demonstrating to a to like to be more `physical' when it
woman that this whole encounter and comes to sex.So pay attention.At first,
`relationship' with her is you'll want to go very slowly. Only
meaningful. It's a way of saying "I want insert the very tip of
to create a great experience your throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then
for you" to her. If you play up the pull it out. Then the tip. Then
romance too much, you'll push a pull it out. Anticipation. Anticipation.
button inside of a woman called "He Anticipation. Repeat "I can
loves me and wants to marry me." wait" 1,000 times. It definitely helps
So be careful. I recommend sticking to if you've made her have a great
the kinds of romance that orgasm moments before... as she'll be
involve the senses, and not the kind wetter. In any event, notice
that involve money, gifts, and what makes her feel good, and do more of
love letters. There's nothing wrong with it during sex.Here's a list (did you
these... it's just that they notice that I like lists?) of other ideas
lead to the M word. If you want a wife, for you:1. Try variations, like 9 fast
great. If not, use care and shallow thrusts then one slow deep
stick to the senses.AnticipationI one. This will make her gasp every time
believe that anticipation, excitement, you go deep.
and tension are some of the 2. Look into her eyes while you're
biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. having sex.
Women LOVE to wonder what's 3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch
coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. her, and remember the rest of her.
They LOVE to be waiting on the 4. This is when it's OK to switch into
edge of their seats.Here are a few ways "I haven't had sex in 47 years
to do it:1. Say "I have a surprise for and I'm going to take it out on you"
you." Then say "But I'm not going to mode. At this point it's OK to be
give it to you yet... it's for later." a wild man.
The surprise can be anything 5. Find combinations of things that she
from a piece of chocolate to some likes. She might like to be
melon-scented massage oil that you kissed at the same time... or have her
bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn't nipples pinched. Try things.
matter. The key is to pique Keep what works.
her curiosity and make her want to know 6. If you need to stop because you're
what it is.2. When you're doing something going to blow like Mt.
that's turning her on, STOP. This Vesuvius, just stop. It's OK to pause if
seems counter-intuitive, but it's the you need to. It builds my
promise land. Guys like to find favorite thing: Anticipation. You don't
what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY. have to say "I'm going to
Women like to have what feels ejaculate prematurely, therefore I'm
good taken away... so they can feel some going to take a break." Just do
more anticipation! Do you get it. Leave her thinking that you're just
it? Come up with your own ways to build so in control that you like to
anticipation. Tell her a story pause to enjoy kissing her. Same goes
about someone that felt anticipation. for if you get anxiety or just
Tell her you're feeling it. turned off. Take a break and kiss her
Whatever. Just make her anticipate for awhile... then get back to it.
what's coming next.Stimulating Her 7. Another technique is to slow down
SensesSo how do you best stimulate these (which women love) and imagine
other four senses in a way that yourself somewhere else in order to
will turn her on? Now that's a GREAT prevent the premature EJ. Just
question.1. Touch her very very gently imagine that you're swimming in the
and slowly. Use the very tips of your ocean. Hear the waves, feel the
fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, water on your body, and taste the salt.
shoulders, lips, hands, legs, This will distract your mind
feet... everywhere. If you avoid her enough to get control. The theme here is
breasts, crotch, and ass, you'll to do things that are
even get her more turned on for later creative, but at the same time wonderful
(Remember anticipation? It will to her. By paying attention,
drive her crazy... "When is he going to you can learn what she likes, and at the
touch my tits?").2. Kiss her sensually. same time, by trying new
Let the first kiss be very light... things, surprise her.Other IdeasHere's a
almost a good one for you: Most women like sex in
brush. Then wait (anticipation). Kiss the missionary
her 100 times on the neck and position or woman on top. Most men love
shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick doggy-style. In the surveys,
her just a tad on the neck, women say that they feel "less intimate"
shoulders, and lips. Think eating an when they do it doggy style.
ice-cream cone, then tone it back So how do you get a woman to enjoy sex
a bit. Like you're tasting her a little in the freaky positions that
each time.4. Smell her. Smell her neck you love and fantasize about? Another
and shoulders for about 5-10 minutes good question.Here's the short answer:
STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just Transition smoothly, and pay attention.
smelling for 5-10 minutes. If
Gently run your nose and lips over her you want to try doggy-style because you
shoulders and neck smelling think she's got a sexy ass and
her. Say "Mmmmm... you smell good. I'm you want to look at it, don't just flip
just going to smell you for her on her stomach...You need to
awhile." You're going to love how she transition smoothly.Here's the how to:1.
reacts to this.5. Talk sexy to her. Men Let's say that you're on top, and you
like to hear "I want it harder big want to switch to doggy.
boy"... 2. First, lift up her legs and thrust
women like to hear "Your lips feel so deep inside of her. This will be
soft and sexy. I love the way more of an `animalistic' feel for the
your lower lip feels when I kiss it... moment.
And I could just kiss you for 3. Next, push her legs over to the side
hours... it feels so nice." Women love so she's still on her back,
to hear about the DETAILS, but her legs are slightly to the side.
remember?6. Tell her stories, and 4. Now, lean down and kiss her, pushing
describe what you're going to do to her. her legs even further over to
If the side.
she's getting turned on, take a few 5. As you're kissing her, lean down and
minutes to whisper in her ear lay behind her in the
exactly what you're going to do to her. `spooning' position while you're still
"You know what I'm going to do inside her.
next? First, I'm going to slowly and 6. Hold her and kiss her neck for a bit
gently kiss your shoulders... and so she gets accustomed to this
then work my way up to your neck... position.
smelling your sexy perfume... 7. Start your thrusting again slowly.
mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I'm 8. As you're going at it, turn her onto
going to kiss you deeply..." her stomach and continue.
Get it? Also tell her what feels good in 9. Finally, stop and pull her hips up to
the same detailed way. Use a you and lean down to kiss her
soft, slow, deep tone of voice.The neck and lips... this maintains some of
Transition Into Sex (Also Known As the `intimacy.'
`Foreplay')I have a lot of guys ask me 10. Finally, lean back and grab on.
things like "How to I make my move?" and Viola! You've done it!
"How do I get her to actually have sex The key to getting into new and
with me?" My answer: Remember wonderful positions that you love it
the old saying... "The hungry don't get to TRANSITION smoothly. Later on, after
fed." I know that this sounds she's used to the new
paradoxical, but you have to ACT LIKE positions, you can move quicker. But
YOU DON'T NEED IT. You have to this is how to do it the first time!I
have an "I can take it or leave it" hope you've enjoyed this material.If you
attitude at the beginning. Later, have any questions or
after things are rolling, you can bang comments, or there's something that I
her brains out like it's your need to explain better or
last chance to have sex this lifetime correct, please email meOne more thing,I
(interestingly, if you set it up am doing internet marketing for some
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