| How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A Big | | | | after things are rolling, you can bang her brains out like |
| Way, And Get Her To Do | | | | it's your |
| The Things You've Always Wanted To begin with, I | | | | last chance to have sex this lifetime (interestingly, if |
| want to remind you of | | | | you set it up |
| the differences between how men and women | | | | correctly, she'll love it if you do, too). So to begin with, |
| approach and experience sex. | | | | start |
| To set the stage, I first want to talk about | | | | then stop. Start then stop. Do something that's |
| "experience." As humans, | | | | arousing, then cool it |
| we use our five primary senses to take in information | | | | and do something else. Did someone say |
| about the world. | | | | "Anticipation"? I thought so. |
| This is called "Perception." Most of this happens on an | | | | The way to get her to want to have sex is to create |
| UNCONSCIOUS | | | | this anticipation |
| level. We then take what we get from our senses | | | | while at the same time stimulating her senses. |
| and we process this | | | | Combine this with a |
| information. We compare it to what we've | | | | casual attitude of "I'm enjoying this, but I don't NEED it" |
| experienced before, we | | | | and you're |
| classify it, we imagine it in different ways, and we | | | | off to the races.But you have to keep it up. It might |
| have UNCONSCIOUS | | | | take you an extra 20 or 30 |
| reactions to it.Most people have asked these | | | | minutes of this teasing and whatnot, but if you'll just be |
| questions once or twice in life, but they | | | | patient, my |
| usually stop asking once they decide that most people | | | | son, you'll reap the great rewards.If you keep it up for |
| have the same | | | | long enough, one of these will usually happen. |
| experiences as they do when they drink coffee, etc. | | | | that's your cue that it's time to take things to the next |
| Here's the deal: When it comes to most `gross' | | | | level. When |
| experiences (meaning | | | | you get the signal, it's time for you to act like a man |
| common level) like getting hit with a baseball, tasting | | | | and do |
| salt, or | | | | something (isn't it a bitch being a guy sometimes?).I |
| seeing a color, we as humans usually have pretty | | | | recommend this sequence:1. Run your hands over her |
| similar experiences. | | | | breasts (through her clothes).2. Run your hands over |
| But when it comes to `subtle' experiences (meaning | | | | her ass (through her clothes).3. Pull her shirt up just |
| less extreme, and | | | | enough to expose her stomach a tiny bit, |
| in this context, also more complex) people, and | | | | and then start touching it very gently and slowly... also |
| especially different | | | | touch her |
| genders,have vastly different experiences.For | | | | back where it's exposed. Remember what I said |
| instance, if you show a man and a woman a picture | | | | about slow, gentle touching.4. Stop once in awhile. |
| of a Victoria's | | | | Create anticipation.5. Next, take off her shirt. Don't |
| Secret catalogue, the man will usually notice all of the | | | | immediately go for the breasts! |
| women, while | | | | Don't do it! Gently touch every part of her that's |
| the woman will notice the clothing, including the colors | | | | exposed (I'm |
| and the | | | | assuming that she still has her bra on). Kiss her |
| details. Finally, the order or sequence of experiences | | | | shoulders... and her |
| and thoughts | | | | back. Add generous portions of light slow touching |
| have a major role in the responses that men and | | | | and mini-tasting.6. If the "I'm getting really hot" signals |
| women demonstrate. | | | | keep coming from her, now |
| In the area of sex, men are usually pretty simple: See | | | | touch and kiss her breasts gently through her bra. If |
| hot woman, get | | | | this goes over |
| turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3 seconds. A | | | | well, then take it off and kiss some more. Remember, |
| man can be outside | | | | slow, gentle... |
| working on his car and see a beautiful woman out of | | | | and stop for anticipation breaks.7. Next comes the |
| the corner of his | | | | pants. You may have to take shoes and/or socks off |
| eye, and instantly be in the mood. On the other hand, | | | | first. Slow and deliberate. Don't act like you've been in |
| women are a bit | | | | prison for |
| more complex. Even if a woman sees a handsome | | | | the last five years and this is your first time with a |
| man, she will RARELY get | | | | woman. |
| sexually turned on. The first thing that women | | | | 8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing, smelling, |
| experience when they | | | | tasting, gentle |
| SEE an attractive man is usually more of a curiosity | | | | slow touching... and add touching around the edges of |
| or intrigue... a | | | | her underwear. |
| wanting to know more. If a man smiles at a woman, | | | | Women like to have the skin around the edges of |
| the woman usually | | | | clothing and |
| interprets the smile as "Hi, you look nice and friendly." If | | | | underclothing touched (usually). Slowly and |
| a woman | | | | deliberately.9. Finally, reach down and touch her gently |
| smiles at a man, the man usually interprets the smile | | | | between her legs. She |
| as "I'm | | | | might resist this (or any of the previous advances). If |
| interested in sex." This one difference causes many | | | | she does, just |
| first meetings to | | | | stop and go back to building anticipation. If you do this |
| go the wrong way.Here's the deal: In general, it takes | | | | a few more |
| women longer to get in `The | | | | times, she'll usually get turned on to the point where |
| Mood' for sex, and it happens differently than it does | | | | she wants you |
| for men. As I | | | | to continue. |
| talk about sex and how to do it better, you need to | | | | 10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men in the world, I |
| keep this in mind. | | | | have to say |
| Some of the things I'm going to tell you might sound | | | | "If she says "STOP" or pushes you away, then stop. |
| like just | | | | Never force a woman |
| `interesting' ideas, or unusual things to do. Not so. | | | | to do anything. It's dumb, wrong, and illegal." |
| While they may be interesting and unusual, they are all | | | | So that's it for the `transition.' Now you're ready for |
| specifically | | | | the real deal.Oral SexFor a woman, her whole body |
| to appeal to the female mind and mating preferences. | | | | can get turned on. So don't forget to |
| 50,000 years ago | | | | keep touching her and paying attention to the rest of |
| women had to figure out some way to determine if a | | | | her body. I |
| man was going to be | | | | recommend trying a few things when you first have |
| a good provider and a loyal mate. I believe that the | | | | oral sex with her to |
| concept of | | | | find what she likes.Here's the list:1. Begin by KISSING |
| `Romance' was that way.If a man was really | | | | your way down her stomach... and then her inner |
| interested, he would go through some | | | | thighs and legs... anticipation. |
| demonstrations of his devotion... and be willing to wait | | | | 2. Ask "are you comfortable." Women usually like to |
| for sex. And | | | | feel clean and |
| so it goes. Women love things like `taking your time', | | | | `fresh'... and she might feel self-conscious because |
| `anticipation', | | | | she hasn't |
| `sensory rich experiences', `romantic talk' and | | | | showered in several hours, etc. If this is the case, you |
| `foreplay.' I know, I | | | | might want to |
| know. We all want a woman that gets turned on by | | | | ask her if she'd like to share a shower with you. If she |
| just seeing your | | | | seems |
| unshaven face and dirty hair in the morning. But these | | | | uncomfortable, ask if she'd like to join you in a shower. |
| are the cards | | | | 3. Begin by kissing her gently. Kiss her and lick her |
| we were dealt, and we might as well learn how to | | | | slowly and |
| play them in this | | | | deliberately. Make some "Mmmmm" noises and let her |
| lifetime.Onward. So I just mentioned a bunch of ideas. | | | | know that you're |
| Let's tie them | | | | enjoying yourself. |
| together. As far as the senses go: In general, women | | | | 4. You have a couple of major tools, and a couple of |
| get turned on by | | | | ways to use |
| a few major categories of things:1. Voice tone, | | | | them. Use your tongue on her clit, and your fingers on |
| sensual (not sexual) language, and vivid descriptions. | | | | the inside. |
| Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, | | | | 5. Start with kissing and licking, then a few minutes |
| feelings, and | | | | later insert |
| scenarios in painful detail.2. A wide range of different | | | | one finger. If she likes this, ask if she'd like two fingers. |
| touching, kissing, stroking, caressing, | | | | Go slow, |
| and cuddling.3. Smells and smelling. Women love great | | | | as most women need to relax and get used to the |
| cologne. And women love to | | | | stretching. If you |
| be smelled.4. Tastes. Women love to be fed all kinds | | | | don't know where a clit and a G spot are, get a book. |
| of wonderful things like | | | | 6. Mouth options: Licking up and down, side to side, in |
| Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne. Did you | | | | circles, |
| notice anything | | | | directly on her clit, around it, sucking. |
| missing from the list?I left out SIGHT on my list. Why? | | | | 7. Finger(s) inside options: Sliding in and out, staying still, |
| Well, women don't get turned on as much by sight as | | | | rubbing top or bottom or sides, rubbing a spot inside, |
| they do by other | | | | slow, fast. |
| senses. Men are usually more turned on by visuals | | | | 8. Try each of the mouth options until you find the one |
| than by the other | | | | she likes best. |
| four senses combined.Women are turned on more by | | | | 9. Try each of the finger options until you find the one |
| the others. It's true that what you look | | | | she likes best. |
| like can PREVENT you from being attractive due to | | | | 10. Combine. Once you find the magic combination, |
| not taking care of | | | | keep doing it |
| yourself, not being her `type' or whatever.But I believe | | | | EXACTLY that way, at EXACTLY that speed and |
| (and have proven to myself over and over) that if you | | | | pressure. Men like faster |
| pave the way correctly, you can overcome looks and | | | | and harder, women usually like the same way until |
| get a woman VERY | | | | orgasm.If you do a great job, she'll usually want to |
| sexually stimulated by using her other senses and her | | | | reciprocate and use her |
| imagination.Next I talked about how women notice | | | | mouth to make you feel great.Do yourself a favor: |
| details. Women notice subtle | | | | Tell her what you like and how you like it. But |
| things. If you rub a woman's hand, she'll feel warm and | | | | don't make it sound like you've done this a thousand |
| friendly | | | | times and you're |
| toward you. If you very very gently and slowly run | | | | an expert at describing it.Say "Ohhh... I liked it when |
| the tips of your | | | | you did this..." and "It really feels |
| fingers over her hand, she will begin to get aroused | | | | good when you..." Women like to know that you're |
| (other conditions | | | | feeling good. So tell |
| have to be right, of course).If you kiss a woman on | | | | her as she's doing it. Tell her how you're feeling. |
| the lips and stick your tongue down her throat, | | | | SexI think it's a good idea to always be paying |
| she'll probably be disgusted. But if you kiss her gently... | | | | attention to how she's |
| then | | | | responding to your touching, kissing, etc. Different |
| slowly pull away and look into her eyes... then kiss her | | | | women like things |
| again slowly | | | | differently, and sex is where this makes itself more |
| and gently... you'll start a fire inside of her that will build | | | | obvious. So.... |
| (if | | | | if she liked it when you really sucked on her neck |
| you do everything else correctly as well).I also | | | | hard... and she was |
| mentioned romance. To me, romance is simply | | | | pulling on you with force, then there's a good chance |
| demonstrating to a | | | | that she's going |
| woman that this whole encounter and `relationship' | | | | to like to be more `physical' when it comes to sex.So |
| with her is | | | | pay attention.At first, you'll want to go very slowly. Only |
| meaningful. It's a way of saying "I want to create a | | | | insert the very tip of |
| great experience | | | | your throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then pull it out. |
| for you" to her. If you play up the romance too much, | | | | Then the tip. Then |
| you'll push a | | | | pull it out. Anticipation. Anticipation. Anticipation. Repeat |
| button inside of a woman called "He loves me and | | | | "I can |
| wants to marry me." | | | | wait" 1,000 times. It definitely helps if you've made her |
| So be careful. I recommend sticking to the kinds of | | | | have a great |
| romance that | | | | orgasm moments before... as she'll be wetter. In any |
| involve the senses, and not the kind that involve | | | | event, notice |
| money, gifts, and | | | | what makes her feel good, and do more of it during |
| love letters. There's nothing wrong with these... it's just | | | | sex.Here's a list (did you notice that I like lists?) of other |
| that they | | | | ideas for you:1. Try variations, like 9 fast shallow thrusts |
| lead to the M word. If you want a wife, great. If not, | | | | then one slow deep |
| use care and | | | | one. This will make her gasp every time you go deep. |
| stick to the senses.AnticipationI believe that | | | | 2. Look into her eyes while you're having sex. |
| anticipation, excitement, and tension are some of the | | | | 3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch her, and |
| biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. Women | | | | remember the rest of her. |
| LOVE to wonder what's | | | | 4. This is when it's OK to switch into "I haven't had |
| coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. They | | | | sex in 47 years |
| LOVE to be waiting on the | | | | and I'm going to take it out on you" mode. At this point |
| edge of their seats.Here are a few ways to do it:1. | | | | it's OK to be |
| Say "I have a surprise for you." Then say "But I'm not | | | | a wild man. |
| going to | | | | 5. Find combinations of things that she likes. She might |
| give it to you yet... it's for later." The surprise can be | | | | like to be |
| anything | | | | kissed at the same time... or have her nipples pinched. |
| from a piece of chocolate to some melon-scented | | | | Try things. |
| massage oil that you | | | | Keep what works. |
| bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn't matter. The key | | | | 6. If you need to stop because you're going to blow |
| is to pique | | | | like Mt. |
| her curiosity and make her want to know what it is.2. | | | | Vesuvius, just stop. It's OK to pause if you need to. It |
| When you're doing something that's turning her on, | | | | builds my |
| STOP. This | | | | favorite thing: Anticipation. You don't have to say "I'm |
| seems counter-intuitive, but it's the promise land. Guys | | | | going to |
| like to find | | | | ejaculate prematurely, therefore I'm going to take a |
| what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY. | | | | break." Just do |
| Women like to have what feels | | | | it. Leave her thinking that you're just so in control that |
| good taken away... so they can feel some more | | | | you like to |
| anticipation! Do you get | | | | pause to enjoy kissing her. Same goes for if you get |
| it? Come up with your own ways to build anticipation. | | | | anxiety or just |
| Tell her a story | | | | turned off. Take a break and kiss her for awhile... then |
| about someone that felt anticipation. Tell her you're | | | | get back to it. |
| feeling it. | | | | 7. Another technique is to slow down (which women |
| Whatever. Just make her anticipate what's coming | | | | love) and imagine |
| next.Stimulating Her SensesSo how do you best | | | | yourself somewhere else in order to prevent the |
| stimulate these other four senses in a way that | | | | premature EJ. Just |
| will turn her on? Now that's a GREAT question.1. | | | | imagine that you're swimming in the ocean. Hear the |
| Touch her very very gently and slowly. Use the very | | | | waves, feel the |
| tips of your | | | | water on your body, and taste the salt. This will |
| fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, shoulders, lips, | | | | distract your mind |
| hands, legs, | | | | enough to get control. The theme here is to do things |
| feet... everywhere. If you avoid her breasts, crotch, | | | | that are |
| and ass, you'll | | | | creative, but at the same time wonderful to her. By |
| even get her more turned on for later (Remember | | | | paying attention, |
| anticipation? It will | | | | you can learn what she likes, and at the same time, |
| drive her crazy... "When is he going to touch my | | | | by trying new |
| tits?").2. Kiss her sensually. Let the first kiss be very | | | | things, surprise her.Other IdeasHere's a good one for |
| light... almost a | | | | you: Most women like sex in the missionary |
| brush. Then wait (anticipation). Kiss her 100 times on | | | | position or woman on top. Most men love doggy-style. |
| the neck and | | | | In the surveys, |
| shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick her just a tad | | | | women say that they feel "less intimate" when they |
| on the neck, | | | | do it doggy style. |
| shoulders, and lips. Think eating an ice-cream cone, | | | | So how do you get a woman to enjoy sex in the |
| then tone it back | | | | freaky positions that |
| a bit. Like you're tasting her a little each time.4. Smell | | | | you love and fantasize about? Another good |
| her. Smell her neck and shoulders for about 5-10 | | | | question.Here's the short answer: Transition smoothly, |
| minutes | | | | and pay attention. If |
| STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just smelling for 5-10 | | | | you want to try doggy-style because you think she's |
| minutes. | | | | got a sexy ass and |
| Gently run your nose and lips over her shoulders and | | | | you want to look at it, don't just flip her on her |
| neck smelling | | | | stomach...You need to transition smoothly.Here's the |
| her. Say "Mmmmm... you smell good. I'm just going to | | | | how to:1. Let's say that you're on top, and you want to |
| smell you for | | | | switch to doggy. |
| awhile." You're going to love how she reacts to this.5. | | | | 2. First, lift up her legs and thrust deep inside of her. |
| Talk sexy to her. Men like to hear "I want it harder big | | | | This will be |
| boy"... | | | | more of an `animalistic' feel for the moment. |
| women like to hear "Your lips feel so soft and sexy. I | | | | 3. Next, push her legs over to the side so she's still on |
| love the way | | | | her back, |
| your lower lip feels when I kiss it... And I could just kiss | | | | but her legs are slightly to the side. |
| you for | | | | 4. Now, lean down and kiss her, pushing her legs even |
| hours... it feels so nice." Women love to hear about the | | | | further over to |
| DETAILS, | | | | the side. |
| remember?6. Tell her stories, and describe what | | | | 5. As you're kissing her, lean down and lay behind her |
| you're going to do to her. If | | | | in the |
| she's getting turned on, take a few minutes to whisper | | | | `spooning' position while you're still inside her. |
| in her ear | | | | 6. Hold her and kiss her neck for a bit so she gets |
| exactly what you're going to do to her. "You know | | | | accustomed to this |
| what I'm going to do | | | | position. |
| next? First, I'm going to slowly and gently kiss your | | | | 7. Start your thrusting again slowly. |
| shoulders... and | | | | 8. As you're going at it, turn her onto her stomach and |
| then work my way up to your neck... smelling your | | | | continue. |
| sexy perfume... | | | | 9. Finally, stop and pull her hips up to you and lean |
| mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I'm going to kiss | | | | down to kiss her |
| you deeply..." | | | | neck and lips... this maintains some of the `intimacy.' |
| Get it? Also tell her what feels good in the same | | | | 10. Finally, lean back and grab on. Viola! You've done it! |
| detailed way. Use a | | | | The key to getting into new and wonderful positions |
| soft, slow, deep tone of voice.The Transition Into Sex | | | | that you love it |
| (Also Known As `Foreplay')I have a lot of guys ask | | | | to TRANSITION smoothly. Later on, after she's used |
| me things like "How to I make my move?" and | | | | to the new |
| "How do I get her to actually have sex with me?" My | | | | positions, you can move quicker. But this is how to do |
| answer: Remember | | | | it the first time!I hope you've enjoyed this material.If you |
| the old saying... "The hungry don't get fed." I know that | | | | have any questions or |
| this sounds | | | | comments, or there's something that I need to explain |
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