| How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A
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| | too). So to begin with, start
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| Big Way, And Get Her To Do
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| | then stop. Start then stop. Do something
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| The Things You've Always Wanted To begin
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| | that's arousing, then cool it
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| with, I want to remind you of
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| | and do something else. Did someone say
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| the differences between how men and
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| | "Anticipation"? I thought so.
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| women approach and experience sex.
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| | The way to get her to want to have sex
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| To set the stage, I first want to talk
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| | is to create this anticipation
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| about "experience." As humans,
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| | while at the same time stimulating her
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| we use our five primary senses to take
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| | senses. Combine this with a
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| in information about the world.
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| | casual attitude of "I'm enjoying this,
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| This is called "Perception." Most of
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| | but I don't NEED it" and you're
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| this happens on an UNCONSCIOUS
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| | off to the races.But you have to keep it
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| level. We then take what we get from our
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| | up. It might take you an extra 20 or 30
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| senses and we process this
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| | minutes of this teasing and whatnot, but
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| information. We compare it to what we've
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| | if you'll just be patient, my
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| experienced before, we
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| | son, you'll reap the great rewards.If
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| classify it, we imagine it in different
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| | you keep it up for long enough, one of
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| ways, and we have UNCONSCIOUS
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| | these will usually happen.
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| reactions to it.Most people have asked
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| | that's your cue that it's time to take
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| these questions once or twice in life,
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| | things to the next level. When
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| but they
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| | you get the signal, it's time for you to
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| usually stop asking once they decide
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| | act like a man and do
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| that most people have the same
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| | something (isn't it a bitch being a guy
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| experiences as they do when they drink
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| | sometimes?).I recommend this sequence:1.
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| coffee, etc.
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| | Run your hands over her breasts (through
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| Here's the deal: When it comes to most
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| | her clothes).2. Run your hands over her
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| `gross' experiences (meaning
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| | ass (through her clothes).3. Pull her
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| common level) like getting hit with a
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| | shirt up just enough to expose her
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| baseball, tasting salt, or
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| | stomach a tiny bit,
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| seeing a color, we as humans usually
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| | and then start touching it very gently
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| have pretty similar experiences.
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| | and slowly... also touch her
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| But when it comes to `subtle'
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| | back where it's exposed. Remember what I
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| experiences (meaning less extreme, and
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| | said about slow, gentle touching.4. Stop
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| in this context, also more complex)
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| | once in awhile. Create anticipation.5.
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| people, and especially different
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| | Next, take off her shirt. Don't
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| genders,have vastly different
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| | immediately go for the breasts!
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| experiences.For instance, if you show a
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| | Don't do it! Gently touch every part of
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| man and a woman a picture of a Victoria's
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| | her that's exposed (I'm
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| | assuming that she still has her bra on).
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| Secret catalogue, the man will usually
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| | Kiss her shoulders... and her
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| notice all of the women, while
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| | back. Add generous portions of light
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| the woman will notice the clothing,
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| | slow touching and mini-tasting.6. If the
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| including the colors and the
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| | "I'm getting really hot" signals keep
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| details. Finally, the order or sequence
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| | coming from her, now
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| of experiences and thoughts
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| | touch and kiss her breasts gently
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| have a major role in the responses that
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| | through her bra. If this goes over
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| men and women demonstrate.
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| | well, then take it off and kiss some
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| In the area of sex, men are usually
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| | more. Remember, slow, gentle...
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| pretty simple: See hot woman, get
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| | and stop for anticipation breaks.7. Next
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| turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3
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| | comes the pants. You may have to take
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| seconds. A man can be outside
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| | shoes and/or socks off
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| working on his car and see a beautiful
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| | first. Slow and deliberate. Don't act
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| woman out of the corner of his
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| | like you've been in prison for
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| eye, and instantly be in the mood. On
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| | the last five years and this is your
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| the other hand, women are a bit
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| | first time with a woman.
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| more complex. Even if a woman sees a
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| | 8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing,
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| handsome man, she will RARELY get
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| | smelling, tasting, gentle
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| sexually turned on. The first thing that
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| | slow touching... and add touching around
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| women experience when they
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| | the edges of her underwear.
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| SEE an attractive man is usually more of
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| | Women like to have the skin around the
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| a curiosity or intrigue... a
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| | edges of clothing and
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| wanting to know more. If a man smiles at
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| | underclothing touched (usually). Slowly
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| a woman, the woman usually
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| | and deliberately.9. Finally, reach down
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| interprets the smile as "Hi, you look
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| | and touch her gently between her legs.
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| nice and friendly." If a woman
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| | She
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| smiles at a man, the man usually
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| | might resist this (or any of the
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| interprets the smile as "I'm
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| | previous advances). If she does, just
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| interested in sex." This one difference
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| | stop and go back to building
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| causes many first meetings to
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| | anticipation. If you do this a few more
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| go the wrong way.Here's the deal: In
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| | times, she'll usually get turned on to
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| general, it takes women longer to get in
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| | the point where she wants you
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| `The
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| | to continue.
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| Mood' for sex, and it happens
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| | 10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men
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| differently than it does for men. As I
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| | in the world, I have to say
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| talk about sex and how to do it better,
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| | "If she says "STOP" or pushes you away,
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| you need to keep this in mind.
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| | then stop. Never force a woman
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| Some of the things I'm going to tell you
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| | to do anything. It's dumb, wrong, and
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| might sound like just
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| | illegal."
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| `interesting' ideas, or unusual things
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| | So that's it for the `transition.' Now
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| to do. Not so.
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| | you're ready for the real deal.Oral
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| While they may be interesting and
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| | SexFor a woman, her whole body can get
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| unusual, they are all specifically
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| | turned on. So don't forget to
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| to appeal to the female mind and mating
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| | keep touching her and paying attention
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| preferences. 50,000 years ago
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| | to the rest of her body. I
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| women had to figure out some way to
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| | recommend trying a few things when you
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| determine if a man was going to be
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| | first have oral sex with her to
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| a good provider and a loyal mate. I
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| | find what she likes.Here's the list:1.
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| believe that the concept of
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| | Begin by KISSING your way down her
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| `Romance' was that way.If a man was
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| | stomach... and then her inner
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| really interested, he would go through
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| | thighs and legs... anticipation.
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| some
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| | 2. Ask "are you comfortable." Women
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| demonstrations of his devotion... and be
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| | usually like to feel clean and
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| willing to wait for sex. And
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| | `fresh'... and she might feel
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| so it goes. Women love things like
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| | self-conscious because she hasn't
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| `taking your time', `anticipation',
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| | showered in several hours, etc. If this
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| `sensory rich experiences', `romantic
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| | is the case, you might want to
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| talk' and `foreplay.' I know, I
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| | ask her if she'd like to share a shower
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| know. We all want a woman that gets
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| | with you. If she seems
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| turned on by just seeing your
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| | uncomfortable, ask if she'd like to join
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| unshaven face and dirty hair in the
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| | you in a shower.
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| morning. But these are the cards
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| | 3. Begin by kissing her gently. Kiss her
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| we were dealt, and we might as well
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| | and lick her slowly and
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| learn how to play them in this
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| | deliberately. Make some "Mmmmm" noises
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| lifetime.Onward. So I just mentioned a
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| | and let her know that you're
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| bunch of ideas. Let's tie them
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| | enjoying yourself.
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| together. As far as the senses go: In
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| | 4. You have a couple of major tools, and
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| general, women get turned on by
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| | a couple of ways to use
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| a few major categories of things:1.
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| | them. Use your tongue on her clit, and
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| Voice tone, sensual (not sexual)
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| | your fingers on the inside.
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| language, and vivid descriptions.
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| | 5. Start with kissing and licking, then
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| Women love to hear a sexy voice
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| | a few minutes later insert
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| describing ideas, feelings, and
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| | one finger. If she likes this, ask if
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| scenarios in painful detail.2. A wide
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| | she'd like two fingers. Go slow,
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| range of different touching, kissing,
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| | as most women need to relax and get used
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| stroking, caressing,
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| | to the stretching. If you
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| and cuddling.3. Smells and smelling.
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| | don't know where a clit and a G spot
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| Women love great cologne. And women love
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| | are, get a book.
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| to
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| | 6. Mouth options: Licking up and down,
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| be smelled.4. Tastes. Women love to be
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| | side to side, in circles,
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| fed all kinds of wonderful things like
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| | directly on her clit, around it,
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| Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne.
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| | sucking.
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| Did you notice anything
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| | 7. Finger(s) inside options: Sliding in
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| missing from the list?I left out SIGHT
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| | and out, staying still,
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| on my list. Why?
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| | rubbing top or bottom or sides, rubbing
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| Well, women don't get turned on as much
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| | a spot inside, slow, fast.
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| by sight as they do by other
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| | 8. Try each of the mouth options until
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| senses. Men are usually more turned on
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| | you find the one she likes best.
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| by visuals than by the other
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| | 9. Try each of the finger options until
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| four senses combined.Women are turned on
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| | you find the one she likes best.
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| more by the others. It's true that what
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| | 10. Combine. Once you find the magic
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| you look
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| | combination, keep doing it
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| like can PREVENT you from being
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| | EXACTLY that way, at EXACTLY that speed
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| attractive due to not taking care of
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| | and pressure. Men like faster
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| yourself, not being her `type' or
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| | and harder, women usually like the same
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| whatever.But I believe (and have proven
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| | way until orgasm.If you do a great job,
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| to myself over and over) that if you
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| | she'll usually want to reciprocate and
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| pave the way correctly, you can overcome
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| | use her
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| looks and get a woman VERY
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| | mouth to make you feel great.Do yourself
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| sexually stimulated by using her other
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| | a favor: Tell her what you like and how
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| senses and her imagination.Next I talked
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| | you like it. But
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| about how women notice details. Women
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| | don't make it sound like you've done
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| notice subtle
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| | this a thousand times and you're
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| things. If you rub a woman's hand,
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| | an expert at describing it.Say "Ohhh...
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| she'll feel warm and friendly
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| | I liked it when you did this..." and "It
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| toward you. If you very very gently and
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| | really feels
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| slowly run the tips of your
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| | good when you..." Women like to know
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| fingers over her hand, she will begin to
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| | that you're feeling good. So tell
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| get aroused (other conditions
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| | her as she's doing it. Tell her how
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| have to be right, of course).If you kiss
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| | you're feeling.
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| a woman on the lips and stick your tongue
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| | SexI think it's a good idea to always be
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| down her throat,
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| | paying attention to how she's
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| she'll probably be disgusted. But if you
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| | responding to your touching, kissing,
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| kiss her gently... then
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| | etc. Different women like things
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| slowly pull away and look into her
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| | differently, and sex is where this makes
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| eyes... then kiss her again slowly
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| | itself more obvious. So....
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| and gently... you'll start a fire inside
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| | if she liked it when you really sucked
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| of her that will build (if
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| | on her neck hard... and she was
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| you do everything else correctly as
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| | pulling on you with force, then there's
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| well).I also mentioned romance. To me,
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| | a good chance that she's going
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| romance is simply demonstrating to a
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| | to like to be more `physical' when it
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| woman that this whole encounter and
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| | comes to sex.So pay attention.At first,
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| `relationship' with her is
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| | you'll want to go very slowly. Only
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| meaningful. It's a way of saying "I want
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| | insert the very tip of
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| to create a great experience
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| | your throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then
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| for you" to her. If you play up the
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| | pull it out. Then the tip. Then
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| romance too much, you'll push a
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| | pull it out. Anticipation. Anticipation.
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| button inside of a woman called "He
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| | Anticipation. Repeat "I can
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| loves me and wants to marry me."
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| | wait" 1,000 times. It definitely helps
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| So be careful. I recommend sticking to
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| | if you've made her have a great
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| the kinds of romance that
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| | orgasm moments before... as she'll be
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| involve the senses, and not the kind
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| | wetter. In any event, notice
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| that involve money, gifts, and
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| | what makes her feel good, and do more of
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| love letters. There's nothing wrong with
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| | it during sex.Here's a list (did you
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| these... it's just that they
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| | notice that I like lists?) of other ideas
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| lead to the M word. If you want a wife,
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| | for you:1. Try variations, like 9 fast
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| great. If not, use care and
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| | shallow thrusts then one slow deep
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| stick to the senses.AnticipationI
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| | one. This will make her gasp every time
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| believe that anticipation, excitement,
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| | you go deep.
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| and tension are some of the
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| | 2. Look into her eyes while you're
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| biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel.
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| | having sex.
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| Women LOVE to wonder what's
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| | 3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch
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| coming next. They LOVE to be surprised.
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| | her, and remember the rest of her.
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| They LOVE to be waiting on the
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| | 4. This is when it's OK to switch into
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| edge of their seats.Here are a few ways
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| | "I haven't had sex in 47 years
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| to do it:1. Say "I have a surprise for
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| | and I'm going to take it out on you"
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| you." Then say "But I'm not going to
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| | mode. At this point it's OK to be
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| give it to you yet... it's for later."
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| | a wild man.
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| The surprise can be anything
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| | 5. Find combinations of things that she
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| from a piece of chocolate to some
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| | likes. She might like to be
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| melon-scented massage oil that you
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| | kissed at the same time... or have her
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| bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn't
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| | nipples pinched. Try things.
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| matter. The key is to pique
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| | Keep what works.
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| her curiosity and make her want to know
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| | 6. If you need to stop because you're
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| what it is.2. When you're doing something
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| | going to blow like Mt.
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| that's turning her on, STOP. This
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| | Vesuvius, just stop. It's OK to pause if
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| seems counter-intuitive, but it's the
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| | you need to. It builds my
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| promise land. Guys like to find
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| | favorite thing: Anticipation. You don't
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| what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY.
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| | have to say "I'm going to
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| Women like to have what feels
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| | ejaculate prematurely, therefore I'm
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| good taken away... so they can feel some
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| | going to take a break." Just do
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| more anticipation! Do you get
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| | it. Leave her thinking that you're just
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| it? Come up with your own ways to build
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| | so in control that you like to
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| anticipation. Tell her a story
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| | pause to enjoy kissing her. Same goes
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| about someone that felt anticipation.
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| | for if you get anxiety or just
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| Tell her you're feeling it.
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| | turned off. Take a break and kiss her
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| Whatever. Just make her anticipate
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| | for awhile... then get back to it.
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| what's coming next.Stimulating Her
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| | 7. Another technique is to slow down
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| SensesSo how do you best stimulate these
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| | (which women love) and imagine
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| other four senses in a way that
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| | yourself somewhere else in order to
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| will turn her on? Now that's a GREAT
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| | prevent the premature EJ. Just
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| question.1. Touch her very very gently
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| | imagine that you're swimming in the
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| and slowly. Use the very tips of your
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| | ocean. Hear the waves, feel the
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| fingers. Run them over her arms, neck,
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| | water on your body, and taste the salt.
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| shoulders, lips, hands, legs,
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| | This will distract your mind
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| feet... everywhere. If you avoid her
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| | enough to get control. The theme here is
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| breasts, crotch, and ass, you'll
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| | to do things that are
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| even get her more turned on for later
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| | creative, but at the same time wonderful
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| (Remember anticipation? It will
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| | to her. By paying attention,
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| drive her crazy... "When is he going to
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| | you can learn what she likes, and at the
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| touch my tits?").2. Kiss her sensually.
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| | same time, by trying new
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| Let the first kiss be very light...
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| | things, surprise her.Other IdeasHere's a
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| almost a
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| | good one for you: Most women like sex in
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| brush. Then wait (anticipation). Kiss
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| | the missionary
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| her 100 times on the neck and
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| | position or woman on top. Most men love
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| shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick
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| | doggy-style. In the surveys,
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| her just a tad on the neck,
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| | women say that they feel "less intimate"
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| shoulders, and lips. Think eating an
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| | when they do it doggy style.
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| ice-cream cone, then tone it back
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| | So how do you get a woman to enjoy sex
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| a bit. Like you're tasting her a little
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| | in the freaky positions that
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| each time.4. Smell her. Smell her neck
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| | you love and fantasize about? Another
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| and shoulders for about 5-10 minutes
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| | good question.Here's the short answer:
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| STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just
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| | Transition smoothly, and pay attention.
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| smelling for 5-10 minutes.
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| | If
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| Gently run your nose and lips over her
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| | you want to try doggy-style because you
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| shoulders and neck smelling
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| | think she's got a sexy ass and
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| her. Say "Mmmmm... you smell good. I'm
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| | you want to look at it, don't just flip
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| just going to smell you for
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| | her on her stomach...You need to
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| awhile." You're going to love how she
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| | transition smoothly.Here's the how to:1.
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| reacts to this.5. Talk sexy to her. Men
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| | Let's say that you're on top, and you
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| like to hear "I want it harder big
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| | want to switch to doggy.
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| boy"...
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| | 2. First, lift up her legs and thrust
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| women like to hear "Your lips feel so
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| | deep inside of her. This will be
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| soft and sexy. I love the way
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| | more of an `animalistic' feel for the
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| your lower lip feels when I kiss it...
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| | moment.
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| And I could just kiss you for
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| | 3. Next, push her legs over to the side
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| hours... it feels so nice." Women love
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| | so she's still on her back,
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| to hear about the DETAILS,
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| | but her legs are slightly to the side.
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| remember?6. Tell her stories, and
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| | 4. Now, lean down and kiss her, pushing
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| describe what you're going to do to her.
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| | her legs even further over to
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| If
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| | the side.
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| she's getting turned on, take a few
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| | 5. As you're kissing her, lean down and
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| minutes to whisper in her ear
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| | lay behind her in the
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| exactly what you're going to do to her.
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| | `spooning' position while you're still
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| "You know what I'm going to do
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| | inside her.
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| next? First, I'm going to slowly and
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| | 6. Hold her and kiss her neck for a bit
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| gently kiss your shoulders... and
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| | so she gets accustomed to this
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| then work my way up to your neck...
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| | position.
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| smelling your sexy perfume...
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| | 7. Start your thrusting again slowly.
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| mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I'm
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| | 8. As you're going at it, turn her onto
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| going to kiss you deeply..."
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| | her stomach and continue.
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| Get it? Also tell her what feels good in
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| | 9. Finally, stop and pull her hips up to
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| the same detailed way. Use a
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| | you and lean down to kiss her
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| soft, slow, deep tone of voice.The
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| | neck and lips... this maintains some of
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| Transition Into Sex (Also Known As
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| | the `intimacy.'
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| `Foreplay')I have a lot of guys ask me
| |
| | 10. Finally, lean back and grab on.
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| things like "How to I make my move?" and
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| | Viola! You've done it!
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| "How do I get her to actually have sex
| |
| | The key to getting into new and
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| with me?" My answer: Remember
| |
| | wonderful positions that you love it
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| the old saying... "The hungry don't get
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| | to TRANSITION smoothly. Later on, after
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| fed." I know that this sounds
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| | she's used to the new
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| paradoxical, but you have to ACT LIKE
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| | positions, you can move quicker. But
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| YOU DON'T NEED IT. You have to
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| | this is how to do it the first time!I
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| have an "I can take it or leave it"
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| | hope you've enjoyed this material.If you
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