| How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A Big | | | | then stop. Start then stop. Do something |
| Way, And Get Her To Do | | | | that's arousing, then cool it |
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| The Things You've Always Wanted To begin | | | | and do something else. Did someone say |
| with, I want to remind you of | | | | "Anticipation"? I thought so. |
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| the differences between how men and women | | | | The way to get her to want to have sex is to |
| approach and experience sex. | | | | create this anticipation |
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| To set the stage, I first want to talk about | | | | while at the same time stimulating her |
| "experience." As humans, | | | | senses. Combine this with a |
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| we use our five primary senses to take in | | | | casual attitude of "I'm enjoying this, but I |
| information about the world. | | | | don't NEED it" and you're |
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| This is called "Perception." Most of this | | | | off to the races.But you have to keep it up. |
| happens on an UNCONSCIOUS | | | | It might take you an extra 20 or 30 |
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| level. We then take what we get from our | | | | minutes of this teasing and whatnot, but if |
| senses and we process this | | | | you'll just be patient, my |
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| information. We compare it to what we've | | | | son, you'll reap the great rewards.If you |
| experienced before, we | | | | keep it up for long enough, one of these will |
| | | | usually happen. |
| classify it, we imagine it in different | | | | |
| ways, and we have UNCONSCIOUS | | | | that's your cue that it's time to take |
| | | | things to the next level. When |
| reactions to it.Most people have asked these | | | | |
| questions once or twice in life, but they | | | | you get the signal, it's time for you to act |
| | | | like a man and do |
| usually stop asking once they decide that | | | | |
| most people have the same | | | | something (isn't it a bitch being a guy |
| | | | sometimes?).I recommend this sequence:1. Run |
| experiences as they do when they drink | | | | your hands over her breasts (through her |
| coffee, etc. | | | | clothes).2. Run your hands over her ass |
| | | | (through her clothes).3. Pull her shirt up |
| Here's the deal: When it comes to most | | | | just enough to expose her stomach a tiny bit, |
| `gross' experiences (meaning | | | | |
| | | | and then start touching it very gently and |
| common level) like getting hit with a | | | | slowly... also touch her |
| baseball, tasting salt, or | | | | |
| | | | back where it's exposed. Remember what I |
| seeing a color, we as humans usually have | | | | said about slow, gentle touching.4. Stop once |
| pretty similar experiences. | | | | in awhile. Create anticipation.5. Next, take |
| | | | off her shirt. Don't immediately go for the |
| But when it comes to `subtle' experiences | | | | breasts! |
| (meaning less extreme, and | | | | |
| | | | Don't do it! Gently touch every part of her |
| in this context, also more complex) people, | | | | that's exposed (I'm |
| and especially different | | | | |
| | | | assuming that she still has her bra on). |
| genders,have vastly different | | | | Kiss her shoulders... and her |
| experiences.For instance, if you show a man | | | | |
| and a woman a picture of a Victoria's | | | | back. Add generous portions of light slow |
| | | | touching and mini-tasting.6. If the "I'm |
| Secret catalogue, the man will usually | | | | getting really hot" signals keep coming from |
| notice all of the women, while | | | | her, now |
| | | | |
| the woman will notice the clothing, | | | | touch and kiss her breasts gently through |
| including the colors and the | | | | her bra. If this goes over |
| | | | |
| details. Finally, the order or sequence of | | | | well, then take it off and kiss some more. |
| experiences and thoughts | | | | Remember, slow, gentle... |
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| have a major role in the responses that men | | | | and stop for anticipation breaks.7. Next |
| and women demonstrate. | | | | comes the pants. You may have to take shoes |
| | | | and/or socks off |
| In the area of sex, men are usually pretty | | | | |
| simple: See hot woman, get | | | | first. Slow and deliberate. Don't act like |
| | | | you've been in prison for |
| turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3 | | | | |
| seconds. A man can be outside | | | | the last five years and this is your first |
| | | | time with a woman. |
| working on his car and see a beautiful woman | | | | |
| out of the corner of his | | | | 8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing, |
| | | | smelling, tasting, gentle |
| eye, and instantly be in the mood. On the | | | | |
| other hand, women are a bit | | | | slow touching... and add touching around the |
| | | | edges of her underwear. |
| more complex. Even if a woman sees a | | | | |
| handsome man, she will RARELY get | | | | Women like to have the skin around the edges |
| | | | of clothing and |
| sexually turned on. The first thing that | | | | |
| women experience when they | | | | underclothing touched (usually). Slowly and |
| | | | deliberately.9. Finally, reach down and touch |
| SEE an attractive man is usually more of a | | | | her gently between her legs. She |
| curiosity or intrigue... a | | | | |
| | | | might resist this (or any of the previous |
| wanting to know more. If a man smiles at a | | | | advances). If she does, just |
| woman, the woman usually | | | | |
| | | | stop and go back to building anticipation. |
| interprets the smile as "Hi, you look nice | | | | If you do this a few more |
| and friendly." If a woman | | | | |
| | | | times, she'll usually get turned on to the |
| smiles at a man, the man usually interprets | | | | point where she wants you |
| the smile as "I'm | | | | |
| | | | to continue. |
| interested in sex." This one difference | | | | |
| causes many first meetings to | | | | 10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men in |
| | | | the world, I have to say |
| go the wrong way.Here's the deal: In | | | | |
| general, it takes women longer to get in `The | | | | "If she says "STOP" or pushes you away, then |
| | | | stop. Never force a woman |
| Mood' for sex, and it happens differently | | | | |
| than it does for men. As I | | | | to do anything. It's dumb, wrong, and |
| | | | illegal." |
| talk about sex and how to do it better, you | | | | |
| need to keep this in mind. | | | | So that's it for the `transition.' Now |
| | | | you're ready for the real deal.Oral SexFor a |
| Some of the things I'm going to tell you | | | | woman, her whole body can get turned on. So |
| might sound like just | | | | don't forget to |
| | | | |
| `interesting' ideas, or unusual things to | | | | keep touching her and paying attention to |
| do. Not so. | | | | the rest of her body. I |
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| While they may be interesting and unusual, | | | | recommend trying a few things when you first |
| they are all specifically | | | | have oral sex with her to |
| | | | |
| to appeal to the female mind and mating | | | | find what she likes.Here's the list:1. Begin |
| preferences. 50,000 years ago | | | | by KISSING your way down her stomach... and |
| | | | then her inner |
| women had to figure out some way to | | | | |
| determine if a man was going to be | | | | thighs and legs... anticipation. |
| | | | |
| a good provider and a loyal mate. I believe | | | | 2. Ask "are you comfortable." Women usually |
| that the concept of | | | | like to feel clean and |
| | | | |
| `Romance' was that way.If a man was really | | | | `fresh'... and she might feel self-conscious |
| interested, he would go through some | | | | because she hasn't |
| | | | |
| demonstrations of his devotion... and be | | | | showered in several hours, etc. If this is |
| willing to wait for sex. And | | | | the case, you might want to |
| | | | |
| so it goes. Women love things like `taking | | | | ask her if she'd like to share a shower with |
| your time', `anticipation', | | | | you. If she seems |
| | | | |
| `sensory rich experiences', `romantic talk' | | | | uncomfortable, ask if she'd like to join you |
| and `foreplay.' I know, I | | | | in a shower. |
| | | | |
| know. We all want a woman that gets turned | | | | 3. Begin by kissing her gently. Kiss her and |
| on by just seeing your | | | | lick her slowly and |
| | | | |
| unshaven face and dirty hair in the morning. | | | | deliberately. Make some "Mmmmm" noises and |
| But these are the cards | | | | let her know that you're |
| | | | |
| we were dealt, and we might as well learn | | | | enjoying yourself. |
| how to play them in this | | | | |
| | | | 4. You have a couple of major tools, and a |
| lifetime.Onward. So I just mentioned a bunch | | | | couple of ways to use |
| of ideas. Let's tie them | | | | |
| | | | them. Use your tongue on her clit, and your |
| together. As far as the senses go: In | | | | fingers on the inside. |
| general, women get turned on by | | | | |
| | | | 5. Start with kissing and licking, then a |
| a few major categories of things:1. Voice | | | | few minutes later insert |
| tone, sensual (not sexual) language, and | | | | |
| vivid descriptions. | | | | one finger. If she likes this, ask if she'd |
| | | | like two fingers. Go slow, |
| Women love to hear a sexy voice describing | | | | |
| ideas, feelings, and | | | | as most women need to relax and get used to |
| | | | the stretching. If you |
| scenarios in painful detail.2. A wide range | | | | |
| of different touching, kissing, stroking, | | | | don't know where a clit and a G spot are, |
| caressing, | | | | get a book. |
| | | | |
| and cuddling.3. Smells and smelling. Women | | | | 6. Mouth options: Licking up and down, side |
| love great cologne. And women love to | | | | to side, in circles, |
| | | | |
| be smelled.4. Tastes. Women love to be fed | | | | directly on her clit, around it, sucking. |
| all kinds of wonderful things like | | | | |
| | | | 7. Finger(s) inside options: Sliding in and |
| Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne. Did | | | | out, staying still, |
| you notice anything | | | | |
| | | | rubbing top or bottom or sides, rubbing a |
| missing from the list?I left out SIGHT on my | | | | spot inside, slow, fast. |
| list. Why? | | | | |
| | | | 8. Try each of the mouth options until you |
| Well, women don't get turned on as much by | | | | find the one she likes best. |
| sight as they do by other | | | | |
| | | | 9. Try each of the finger options until you |
| senses. Men are usually more turned on by | | | | find the one she likes best. |
| visuals than by the other | | | | |
| | | | 10. Combine. Once you find the magic |
| four senses combined.Women are turned on | | | | combination, keep doing it |
| more by the others. It's true that what you | | | | |
| look | | | | EXACTLY that way, at EXACTLY that speed and |
| | | | pressure. Men like faster |
| like can PREVENT you from being attractive | | | | |
| due to not taking care of | | | | and harder, women usually like the same way |
| | | | until orgasm.If you do a great job, she'll |
| yourself, not being her `type' or | | | | usually want to reciprocate and use her |
| whatever.But I believe (and have proven to | | | | |
| myself over and over) that if you | | | | mouth to make you feel great.Do yourself a |
| | | | favor: Tell her what you like and how you |
| pave the way correctly, you can overcome | | | | like it. But |
| looks and get a woman VERY | | | | |
| | | | don't make it sound like you've done this a |
| sexually stimulated by using her other | | | | thousand times and you're |
| senses and her imagination.Next I talked | | | | |
| about how women notice details. Women notice | | | | an expert at describing it.Say "Ohhh... I |
| subtle | | | | liked it when you did this..." and "It really |
| | | | feels |
| things. If you rub a woman's hand, she'll | | | | |
| feel warm and friendly | | | | good when you..." Women like to know that |
| | | | you're feeling good. So tell |
| toward you. If you very very gently and | | | | |
| slowly run the tips of your | | | | her as she's doing it. Tell her how you're |
| | | | feeling. |
| fingers over her hand, she will begin to get | | | | |
| aroused (other conditions | | | | SexI think it's a good idea to always be |
| | | | paying attention to how she's |
| have to be right, of course).If you kiss a | | | | |
| woman on the lips and stick your tongue down | | | | responding to your touching, kissing, etc. |
| her throat, | | | | Different women like things |
| | | | |
| she'll probably be disgusted. But if you | | | | differently, and sex is where this makes |
| kiss her gently... then | | | | itself more obvious. So.... |
| | | | |
| slowly pull away and look into her eyes... | | | | if she liked it when you really sucked on |
| then kiss her again slowly | | | | her neck hard... and she was |
| | | | |
| and gently... you'll start a fire inside of | | | | pulling on you with force, then there's a |
| her that will build (if | | | | good chance that she's going |
| | | | |
| you do everything else correctly as well).I | | | | to like to be more `physical' when it comes |
| also mentioned romance. To me, romance is | | | | to sex.So pay attention.At first, you'll want |
| simply demonstrating to a | | | | to go very slowly. Only insert the very tip |
| | | | of |
| woman that this whole encounter and | | | | |
| `relationship' with her is | | | | your throbbing manhood, cowboy. Then pull it |
| | | | out. Then the tip. Then |
| meaningful. It's a way of saying "I want to | | | | |
| create a great experience | | | | pull it out. Anticipation. Anticipation. |
| | | | Anticipation. Repeat "I can |
| for you" to her. If you play up the romance | | | | |
| too much, you'll push a | | | | wait" 1,000 times. It definitely helps if |
| | | | you've made her have a great |
| button inside of a woman called "He loves me | | | | |
| and wants to marry me." | | | | orgasm moments before... as she'll be |
| | | | wetter. In any event, notice |
| So be careful. I recommend sticking to the | | | | |
| kinds of romance that | | | | what makes her feel good, and do more of it |
| | | | during sex.Here's a list (did you notice that |
| involve the senses, and not the kind that | | | | I like lists?) of other ideas for you:1. Try |
| involve money, gifts, and | | | | variations, like 9 fast shallow thrusts then |
| | | | one slow deep |
| love letters. There's nothing wrong with | | | | |
| these... it's just that they | | | | one. This will make her gasp every time you |
| | | | go deep. |
| lead to the M word. If you want a wife, | | | | |
| great. If not, use care and | | | | 2. Look into her eyes while you're having |
| | | | sex. |
| stick to the senses.AnticipationI believe | | | | |
| that anticipation, excitement, and tension | | | | 3. Caress her body, kiss her and touch her, |
| are some of the | | | | and remember the rest of her. |
| | | | |
| biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. | | | | 4. This is when it's OK to switch into "I |
| Women LOVE to wonder what's | | | | haven't had sex in 47 years |
| | | | |
| coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. They | | | | and I'm going to take it out on you" mode. |
| LOVE to be waiting on the | | | | At this point it's OK to be |
| | | | |
| edge of their seats.Here are a few ways to | | | | a wild man. |
| do it:1. Say "I have a surprise for you." | | | | |
| Then say "But I'm not going to | | | | 5. Find combinations of things that she |
| | | | likes. She might like to be |
| give it to you yet... it's for later." The | | | | |
| surprise can be anything | | | | kissed at the same time... or have her |
| | | | nipples pinched. Try things. |
| from a piece of chocolate to some | | | | |
| melon-scented massage oil that you | | | | Keep what works. |
| | | | |
| bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn't | | | | 6. If you need to stop because you're going |
| matter. The key is to pique | | | | to blow like Mt. |
| | | | |
| her curiosity and make her want to know what | | | | Vesuvius, just stop. It's OK to pause if you |
| it is.2. When you're doing something that's | | | | need to. It builds my |
| turning her on, STOP. This | | | | |
| | | | favorite thing: Anticipation. You don't have |
| seems counter-intuitive, but it's the | | | | to say "I'm going to |
| promise land. Guys like to find | | | | |
| | | | ejaculate prematurely, therefore I'm going |
| what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY. | | | | to take a break." Just do |
| Women like to have what feels | | | | |
| | | | it. Leave her thinking that you're just so |
| good taken away... so they can feel some | | | | in control that you like to |
| more anticipation! Do you get | | | | |
| | | | pause to enjoy kissing her. Same goes for if |
| it? Come up with your own ways to build | | | | you get anxiety or just |
| anticipation. Tell her a story | | | | |
| | | | turned off. Take a break and kiss her for |
| about someone that felt anticipation. Tell | | | | awhile... then get back to it. |
| her you're feeling it. | | | | |
| | | | 7. Another technique is to slow down (which |
| Whatever. Just make her anticipate what's | | | | women love) and imagine |
| coming next.Stimulating Her SensesSo how do | | | | |
| you best stimulate these other four senses in | | | | yourself somewhere else in order to prevent |
| a way that | | | | the premature EJ. Just |
| | | | |
| will turn her on? Now that's a GREAT | | | | imagine that you're swimming in the ocean. |
| question.1. Touch her very very gently and | | | | Hear the waves, feel the |
| slowly. Use the very tips of your | | | | |
| | | | water on your body, and taste the salt. This |
| fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, | | | | will distract your mind |
| shoulders, lips, hands, legs, | | | | |
| | | | enough to get control. The theme here is to |
| feet... everywhere. If you avoid her | | | | do things that are |
| breasts, crotch, and ass, you'll | | | | |
| | | | creative, but at the same time wonderful to |
| even get her more turned on for later | | | | her. By paying attention, |
| (Remember anticipation? It will | | | | |
| | | | you can learn what she likes, and at the |
| drive her crazy... "When is he going to | | | | same time, by trying new |
| touch my tits?").2. Kiss her sensually. Let | | | | |
| the first kiss be very light... almost a | | | | things, surprise her.Other IdeasHere's a |
| | | | good one for you: Most women like sex in the |
| brush. Then wait (anticipation). Kiss her | | | | missionary |
| 100 times on the neck and | | | | |
| | | | position or woman on top. Most men love |
| shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick her | | | | doggy-style. In the surveys, |
| just a tad on the neck, | | | | |
| | | | women say that they feel "less intimate" |
| shoulders, and lips. Think eating an | | | | when they do it doggy style. |
| ice-cream cone, then tone it back | | | | |
| | | | So how do you get a woman to enjoy sex in |
| a bit. Like you're tasting her a little each | | | | the freaky positions that |
| time.4. Smell her. Smell her neck and | | | | |
| shoulders for about 5-10 minutes | | | | you love and fantasize about? Another good |
| | | | question.Here's the short answer: Transition |
| STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just | | | | smoothly, and pay attention. If |
| smelling for 5-10 minutes. | | | | |
| | | | you want to try doggy-style because you |
| Gently run your nose and lips over her | | | | think she's got a sexy ass and |
| shoulders and neck smelling | | | | |
| | | | you want to look at it, don't just flip her |
| her. Say "Mmmmm... you smell good. I'm just | | | | on her stomach...You need to transition |
| going to smell you for | | | | smoothly.Here's the how to:1. Let's say that |
| | | | you're on top, and you want to switch to |
| awhile." You're going to love how she reacts | | | | doggy. |
| to this.5. Talk sexy to her. Men like to hear | | | | |
| "I want it harder big boy"... | | | | 2. First, lift up her legs and thrust deep |
| | | | inside of her. This will be |
| women like to hear "Your lips feel so soft | | | | |
| and sexy. I love the way | | | | more of an `animalistic' feel for the |
| | | | moment. |
| your lower lip feels when I kiss it... And I | | | | |
| could just kiss you for | | | | 3. Next, push her legs over to the side so |
| | | | she's still on her back, |
| hours... it feels so nice." Women love to | | | | |
| hear about the DETAILS, | | | | but her legs are slightly to the side. |
| | | | |
| remember?6. Tell her stories, and describe | | | | 4. Now, lean down and kiss her, pushing her |
| what you're going to do to her. If | | | | legs even further over to |
| | | | |
| she's getting turned on, take a few minutes | | | | the side. |
| to whisper in her ear | | | | |
| | | | 5. As you're kissing her, lean down and lay |
| exactly what you're going to do to her. "You | | | | behind her in the |
| know what I'm going to do | | | | |
| | | | `spooning' position while you're still |
| next? First, I'm going to slowly and gently | | | | inside her. |
| kiss your shoulders... and | | | | |
| | | | 6. Hold her and kiss her neck for a bit so |
| then work my way up to your neck... smelling | | | | she gets accustomed to this |
| your sexy perfume... | | | | |
| | | | position. |
| mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I'm | | | | |
| going to kiss you deeply..." | | | | 7. Start your thrusting again slowly. |
| | | | |
| Get it? Also tell her what feels good in the | | | | 8. As you're going at it, turn her onto her |
| same detailed way. Use a | | | | stomach and continue. |
| | | | |
| soft, slow, deep tone of voice.The | | | | 9. Finally, stop and pull her hips up to you |
| Transition Into Sex (Also Known As | | | | and lean down to kiss her |
| `Foreplay')I have a lot of guys ask me things | | | | |
| like "How to I make my move?" and | | | | neck and lips... this maintains some of the |
| | | | `intimacy.' |
| "How do I get her to actually have sex with | | | | |
| me?" My answer: Remember | | | | 10. Finally, lean back and grab on. Viola! |
| | | | You've done it! |
| the old saying... "The hungry don't get | | | | |
| fed." I know that this sounds | | | | The key to getting into new and wonderful |
| | | | positions that you love it |
| paradoxical, but you have to ACT LIKE YOU | | | | |
| DON'T NEED IT. You have to | | | | to TRANSITION smoothly. Later on, after |
| | | | she's used to the new |
| have an "I can take it or leave it" attitude | | | | |
| at the beginning. Later, | | | | positions, you can move quicker. But this is |
| | | | how to do it the first time!I hope you've |
| after things are rolling, you can bang her | | | | enjoyed this material.If you have any |
| brains out like it's your | | | | questions or |
| | | | |
| last chance to have sex this lifetime | | | | comments, or there's something that I need |
| (interestingly, if you set it up | | | | to explain better or |
| | | | |
| correctly, she'll love it if you do, too). | | | | correct, please email meOne more thing,I am |
| So to begin with, start | | | | doing internet marketing for some years now. |
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