| Well youve finally worked up your courage and | | | | have to be spontaneous with this, and dont |
| asked that hot girl out on an official date. | | | | start picking on people, keep your comments |
| As if learning how to approach a woman was | | | | light and be sure to spark CONVERSATION, not |
| not difficult enough - now, as the man, you | | | | just make observations). |
| are expected to also plan the date and bear | | | | |
| the brunt of keeping the conversation going | | | | You can use things like history - telling the |
| and keeping the date fun and interesting. | | | | woman about he history of the part of town |
| But alas - this IS the lot of men - at least | | | | you are in, which will demonstrate that you |
| - the strong man, the alpha male that gets | | | | are intelligent and well read without seeming |
| the girls and sparks the attraction in single | | | | like it is a ploy to impress her. Use things |
| women. | | | | like historical scandals or ghost stories to |
| | | | intrigue her. Or make conjectures about he |
| The first rule of thumb when going on date | | | | current state of the country - something like |
| number one is that the first date is NOT AN | | | | the price of gas is so high not because of |
| INTERVIEW! You are not applying for a job, | | | | the war in Iraq but because the daughter of |
| presenting a resume or otherwise trying to | | | | the oil tycoon T. Boone Pickins has started |
| impress her. If you are TRYING to IMPRESS | | | | text messaging all her friends non-stop and |
| her, you will fail, because that kind of | | | | the crisis is really due to his Verizon |
| behavior denotes lesser status, and women are | | | | Wireless bill. |
| not attracted to men who are of lesser | | | | |
| status. Period. | | | | Use conversation to create opportunities to |
| | | | be cocky and funny while talking about the |
| Only talk about the boring, run of the mill | | | | misfortunes and neurotic behavior of others. |
| stuff if you have run out of every other | | | | Remember, and act like you are not there to |
| option. The idea is to go somewhere fun and | | | | impress her. You are there to have fun - not |
| interesting so that the conversation (and | | | | get her approval. As she is able to sense |
| attraction) will flow naturally, no to a | | | | this attitude, it will intensify her |
| fancy restaurant where you are both pressured | | | | attraction to you as she realizes that SHE |
| to make "fantastic conversation" and instead | | | | has to impress YOU. |
| end up squirming in the uncomfortable silence | | | | |
| between two strangers. | | | | And keep in mind - "busting on her" in a |
| | | | playful manner is also great for attraction. |
| Attraction happens between two people when | | | | So - if SHE starts in on the usual mundane |
| there is energy, spice, humor, mystery, | | | | date talk wanting to know about your family, |
| generally fun and saucy conversation. David | | | | job etc, take the opportunity to turn the |
| Deangelo would call this Cocky Funny. So if | | | | tables on her and say something to the effect |
| you want to create attraction instead of | | | | of, "What is this, a job interview?" |
| boredom, youre going to have to learn how to | | | | |
| make your conversation interesting. | | | | So the bottom line? If you want to keep her |
| | | | interest, then you have to be interesting |
| You do this by coming up with an arsenal of | | | | from the beginning. The old-fashioned |
| unusual, controversial or funny topics - | | | | act-like-youre-on-a-job interview rap just |
| topics like Britney Spears and Justin | | | | doesnt cut it when it comes to keeping the |
| Timberlake, Reality TV, Paris Hilton or even | | | | flame of attraction alive on a first date. |
| using your surroundings (although you will | | | | |