| Well youve finally worked up your courage and asked | | | | or even using your surroundings (although you will have |
| that hot girl out on an official date. As if learning how to | | | | to be spontaneous with this, and dont start picking on |
| approach a woman was not difficult enough - now, as | | | | people, keep your comments light and be sure to |
| the man, you are expected to also plan the date and | | | | spark CONVERSATION, not just make observations). |
| bear the brunt of keeping the conversation going and | | | | You can use things like history - telling the woman |
| keeping the date fun and interesting. But alas - this IS | | | | about he history of the part of town you are in, which |
| the lot of men - at least - the strong man, the alpha | | | | will demonstrate that you are intelligent and well read |
| male that gets the girls and sparks the attraction in | | | | without seeming like it is a ploy to impress her. Use |
| single women. | | | | things like historical scandals or ghost stories to intrigue |
| The first rule of thumb when going on date number | | | | her. Or make conjectures about he current state of |
| one is that the first date is NOT AN INTERVIEW! You | | | | the country - something like the price of gas is so high |
| are not applying for a job, presenting a resume or | | | | not because of the war in Iraq but because the |
| otherwise trying to impress her. If you are TRYING to | | | | daughter of the oil tycoon T. Boone Pickins has started |
| IMPRESS her, you will fail, because that kind of | | | | text messaging all her friends non-stop and the crisis is |
| behavior denotes lesser status, and women are not | | | | really due to his Verizon Wireless bill. |
| attracted to men who are of lesser status. Period. | | | | Use conversation to create opportunities to be cocky |
| Only talk about the boring, run of the mill stuff if you | | | | and funny while talking about the misfortunes and |
| have run out of every other option. The idea is to go | | | | neurotic behavior of others. Remember, and act like |
| somewhere fun and interesting so that the | | | | you are not there to impress her. You are there to |
| conversation (and attraction) will flow naturally, no to a | | | | have fun - not get her approval. As she is able to |
| fancy restaurant where you are both pressured to | | | | sense this attitude, it will intensify her attraction to you |
| make "fantastic conversation" and instead end up | | | | as she realizes that SHE has to impress YOU. |
| squirming in the uncomfortable silence between two | | | | And keep in mind - "busting on her" in a playful manner |
| strangers. | | | | is also great for attraction. So - if SHE starts in on the |
| Attraction happens between two people when there is | | | | usual mundane date talk wanting to know about your |
| energy, spice, humor, mystery, generally fun and saucy | | | | family, job etc, take the opportunity to turn the tables |
| conversation. David Deangelo would call this Cocky | | | | on her and say something to the effect of, "What is |
| Funny. So if you want to create attraction instead of | | | | this, a job interview?" |
| boredom, youre going to have to learn how to make | | | | So the bottom line? If you want to keep her interest, |
| your conversation interesting. | | | | then you have to be interesting from the beginning. |
| You do this by coming up with an arsenal of unusual, | | | | The old-fashioned act-like-youre-on-a-job interview rap |
| controversial or funny topics - topics like Britney | | | | just doesnt cut it when it comes to keeping the flame |
| Spears and Justin Timberlake, Reality TV, Paris Hilton | | | | of attraction alive on a first date. |