| When a long relationship turns into a marriage all bets | | | | You need to realize that when you bring your deck of |
| are off. And that house of cards you've been building | | | | cards together with your spouse's deck that what you |
| all your life, year by year - well, it's left to the whim of | | | | bring together and spur is the biggest gamble of all - |
| your spouse and the huffs of wind you two blast at | | | | marriage. And it's a game of chance. Even if you act |
| each other. Easily, all your cards could tumble and be | | | | rightly and respectfully to one another, things can fall a |
| strewn about the room, just by a passing breeze of a | | | | part. |
| dispute with your wife or husband. Or, on the other | | | | House of Cards Tumbles Down |
| hand, all your cards can stay constructed, withstanding | | | | When the house weakens through disputes, lack of |
| any level of relationship wind. That house of cards can | | | | compromising or other marital hardship circumstances, |
| even be added to by your significant other. You can | | | | it's not over completely. Just as with anything else, it's a |
| combine decks and build one large house of cards. | | | | matter of picking up and rebuilding. Especially in the |
| Either are possible. Whether or not the former or the | | | | scenario where this house of cards was put together |
| latter outcome occurs is really a simple matter of how | | | | in a joint effort between a married couple, it can easily |
| well your marriage transpires. | | | | be gathered, stacked as a new deck and then taken |
| Sadly though, the former happens for often than not. | | | | one card at a time to make a new house of cards. |
| And the scene in any married couples kitchen is a | | | | And, sure, this may seem easier said than done. But, |
| table and floor smattered with spades, clubs, diamonds | | | | it's more than possible. And when going through the |
| and hearts of all numbers and card-faces. Visually, | | | | process of reshaping, replacing that house of cards, |
| card-faces satirically look up at you, laughing at your | | | | know that you should seek some advice while doing it |
| marital fall through. The King, Queen and Jack, in their | | | | all. |
| expressionlessness, get to you. But, it's a matter of not | | | | Marriage Advice As Rebuilding Glue |
| allowing them to pierce through you. | | | | There were reasons why your house of cards came |
| Marriage Is a Gamble, A Game of Chance | | | | tumbling down. You just weren't getting along together |
| And you have to know this before readying yourself | | | | anymore. She cheated. You cheated. Lies were flying |
| to commit to another. Yet, most couples are blissfully | | | | around. Anything, any reasoning is possible. Yet, no |
| ignorant and just feel their situation is too good to be | | | | matter the reason for your house of cards' demise, |
| true, one with no gambles or chances to worry or | | | | you need to learn from your mistakes and correct the |
| speak of. This is not the case. Married couples, listen | | | | reasons that got you to such a reconstructing place. |
| up. And let the truth settle in. Get this marital Utopia | | | | Get some outside advice, some perspectives on what |
| vision out of your head. Marriage is far from ideal. Far | | | | others feels you did wrong, both as a couple and |
| from perfect. There are arguments, airborne objects, | | | | individually. |
| unhappy moments and so on. | | | | |