| Once you've mastered casual conversation and built | | | | else but talk to her. But if you guys are comfortable of |
| some rapport with her, you got to bring in new twists | | | | being touchy, then it opens a lot of new doors to |
| and turns so your relationship with her won't turn stale. | | | | explore other physical actions like kissing. One final |
| When you've invited the women back to your place, | | | | way on flirting is to know when to elevate the |
| it's time to bring the intensity level up a step. You can | | | | anticipation. For example, if she is at her your house, tell |
| do this by being a "flirt" with women. Most guys have | | | | her that you have a surprise for her later that evening |
| no idea what flirting is and think that a "good | | | | and that you will reveal it to her if she is a good girl. |
| conversation" is considered flirting. Flirting is the act of | | | | The surprise can be something as simple as some |
| being playful in a romantic way that brings about | | | | fancy wrapped champagne or strawberries and |
| sexual interest. If you do flirting right, the women that | | | | cream later at dinner. The surprise is not really that big |
| you are seeing should already have sexual interest in | | | | of a deal. The point is there is mystery and anticipation |
| you. One way of heating things up is being playful by | | | | behind the surprise. Girls love excitement mixed in with |
| play fighting with her. Joke around an act like she's | | | | some mystery, as this will build her attraction towards |
| your little bratty niece that always wants attention. If | | | | you. Remember, don't try to think or force your way |
| she does something wrong, get a pillow and hit her | | | | into flirting with a woman. Just have fun with. Be a little |
| with it (not hard!). She'll most likely get the nearest | | | | more "sassy" than you usually are and play the |
| pillow by her and start smacking you and you guys will | | | | "wicked" side for a change. Be unpredictable and be |
| have a little duel. Playing around like this indicates that | | | | willing to try new things out of the ordinary like getting |
| you are fun and easygoing to be around instead of | | | | into a mini argument with her in a fun and playful way. |
| just being someone there to talk to. Another way of | | | | She'll love this and will try to argue her way back into |
| flirting is through touching. Unless you're a hugging type | | | | beating you and you guys will have an instant sparking |
| of person, touching others may feel foreign because a | | | | going on between each other. Once you feel |
| lot of people don't like to be touched and will feel weird | | | | comfortable sending out flirting signals, instead of being |
| if you touched them. However, touching women (not | | | | another regular guy, you'll turn into a guy full of fun and |
| improperly or in a creepy way!) will set off some | | | | excitement that girls will love. |
| romantic tension that will lead to sexual tension. If all | | | | Tristan Lee is passionate about helping guys with |
| you do is talk to her, then it will be hard to do anything | | | | dating. |