| I have been utterly useless with women in the past. | | | | Dating Advice 4: |
| Having spent many years of my youthful life failing | | | | Not knowing you are the MAN and she is the |
| with women, I decided to make a change. Now after | | | | WOMAN. As the man you will take the lead. Being the |
| years of learning, trial and error, reading books, and | | | | leader has many attractive qualities. Back in tribal times, |
| development I have become successful in becoming | | | | the leader takes the choice of all the females. This has |
| attractive with women and dating. In fact I even coach | | | | not changed and still in our subconscious programming. |
| men one on one in the "field" like the real life version of | | | | These days women are still looking for those qualities |
| Hitch. | | | | in a man. So how do you take the lead? Decide |
| What follows is dating advice that works: | | | | where you are going in advance, and take the lead in |
| Dating Advice 1: | | | | decisions. |
| The first 3-4 dates are very important. Dating is like a | | | | Dating Advice 5: |
| game. If you play it right, you should have been able to | | | | When a woman dates a man she is thinking "he |
| escalate to kissing and more. You see within this time | | | | seems nice, let's find out more about each other". Too |
| frame, the girl decides whether or not you're worth it. If | | | | many guys view a woman they are dating as their |
| you have not escalated during these dates, you will | | | | potential WIFE. As you can imagine this puts a lot of |
| very likely get into the LJBF (Lets Just Be Friends) | | | | pressure on the guy. They become frigid and cannot |
| category and getting out of this my friends is near to | | | | BE THEMSELVES. My advice is DON'T DO IT. Have |
| impossible. | | | | the same view as the woman. You are screening her |
| Dating Advice 2: | | | | to see if she is worth it. So relax, be laid back and |
| Make the dates interesting. Avoid the usual dating | | | | enjoy yourself. |
| scenes like cinemas, clubs and bars. Be unpredictable. | | | | Dating Advice 6: |
| Go for ACTION dates - these are dates with a lot of | | | | STOP with the needy COMPLIMENTS. |
| activity. The key word here is VENUE CHANGE. | | | | "Oh, you're so beautiful today" |
| There are reasons for this. You see when we change | | | | "Wow so gorgeous" |
| scenes during a date; subconsciously we feel we | | | | These kinds of compliments send shivers down a |
| have spent a lot more time with the other person, | | | | woman SPINE people. You are there to find out more |
| hence building familiarity and comfort. This also has the | | | | about each other and have fun. Dating her just |
| benefit of making it more interesting. | | | | because she is beautiful lowers your standards and |
| Dating Advice 3: | | | | intelligent women consider it an insult. They think you |
| For crying out load, STOP with the gifts such as | | | | are shallow! DON'T DO THAT. If you want to give a |
| flowers and chocolates. Why? You have only known | | | | compliment, give something sincere and genuine. |
| each other briefly, and doing things like that comes off | | | | Always include a reason for doing so. For example, "I |
| as APPROVAL SEEKING, and suspicious. You could | | | | like your top; it goes very well with the color of your |
| do these things after you're in the relationship, and | | | | dress". |
| want to show your appreciation, but too early, and you | | | | I could go on and on about things to do and not to do |
| will KILL the ATTRACTION. | | | | when dating women. |