| Being a man | | | | submit" to you in the bedroom, the |
| Â | | | | kitchen, the lounge room and on the |
| If you're a typical nice guy, | | | | balcony and then you kiss her good night |
| considerate, genuine, likes to talk and | | | | and tell her to call you. |
| have intelligent conversations with | | | | Nice huh ... |
| women then you MAY have been in this | | | | Â |
| situation before. | | | | The good news and strangely enough the |
| Â | | | | most effective strategy for having more |
| Do you ever find that the more you talk | | | | success from the date to the bedroom is |
| to her (without escalating physically) | | | | to break social norms and follow your |
| you end up talking yourself out of | | | | inhibitions. Women respond to this more |
| closing the deal. Suddenly you realise | | | | and appreciate this more than the "nice |
| her body shift, the conversation die out | | | | guy" approach. Nice guys finish last |
| to some neutral and boring topic, and | | | | didn't you know? : ) |
| she starts looking around the room at | | | | Â |
| other couples possibly thinking "man why | | | | Stop watching chick flicks, where |
| isn't this guy making any moves on me, | | | | nervous "sensitive" actors are making a |
| does he like me?". | | | | sissy fool of themselves courting and |
| Â | | | | being gentleman like. Forget hiding |
| If you know what I'm talking about here | | | | behind these social ideals of how dates |
| then keep reading as you're not alone, | | | | should go and create the date how YOU |
| in fact this used to happen to me ALOT. | | | | want it to go. |
| This I consider also a HOT topic when it | | | | Â |
| comes especially to dates. | | | | The fact is most of us get our knowledge |
| Â | | | | on the dating scene and the "how to" on |
| You're sitting there at the table, | | | | dates from movies. |
| opposite each other face to face, had a | | | | Â |
| great meal and a bottle of wine, and | | | | Answer this honestly do you ever consult |
| you're thinking "How do I kiss this girl | | | | your male friends and ask them what to |
| from all the way over here" and my old | | | | do on a date? Do you ask your siblings, |
| favorite "I haven't touched this girl | | | | parents or other family what normally |
| all night and it's going to seem awkward | | | | goes down? no probably not. |
| if I touch her now" suddenly this | | | | Â |
| distance between you seems to be drawing | | | | You get the ideals from movies, film, tv |
| out and it seems she's further and | | | | and the MEDIA. Yes, that evil media that |
| further away from you. | | | | manipulates men into buying gifts, |
| Â | | | | expensive diamond rings, working 50 |
| What eventually happens is you call it a | | | | hours weeks to get a good car and an |
| night and you're outside the restaurant | | | | expensive apartment so women will be |
| ready to part ways, and you touch her | | | | more responsive to them. The fact is |
| hand poised to strike her a kiss on the | | | | women aren't much more responsive to |
| lips ... and she flinches .... then she | | | | this as much as you think, I know of |
| looks down at your hand like to question | | | | guys who take girls back to their |
| you "What are you doing" or "It's too | | | | hostels (where they share a room with 20 |
| early for hand holding buddy" and all of | | | | other people) and they close the deal on |
| a sudden a drip of cold sweat lines your | | | | a bunk bed. They do this consistently |
| neck and your pulse starts racing, palms | | | | too with beautiful glamour girls. |
| get sweaty and all you hear is your | | | | Â |
| heartbeat thumping away like the Swazi | | | | Women want men pure and simple. |
| bongos. pum pum ... pum pum ..pum pum | | | | Â |
| pum ... | | | | What women want is an un-apologetic man |
| Â | | | | who believes in honesty, being genuine |
| Okay ... | | | | and is unashamed of his desire as a man. |
| Â | | | | If the girl says "let's just be friends" |
| Getting a little dramatic here, well | | | | which is the dreaded friends zone line |
| this used to happen to me on MOST DATES | | | | he would say "I have enough friends" and |
| and the reason is I let it happen, I | | | | walk away or convey he's willing to walk |
| knew what to do and how to prevent it | | | | away. Powerful huh. |
| from happening again but I was scared to | | | | Â |
| act. That was a long time ago, now this | | | | Women RESPOND to men. Women want |
| NEVER happens to me as I assert my | | | | MASCULINE MEN to take them in every way |
| inhibitions and I don't apologise for | | | | possible. They want the man to be most |
| being a man and thinking AND acting how | | | | importantly: |
| a man SHOULD act. | | | | Â |
| Â | | | | -Unapologetic about their desires |
| I no longer wait for the end of the | | | | -True to themselves (don't say things |
| date, hell no, I kiss her when I feel | | | | that are meant to impress her) |
| like kissing, or touching her, putting | | | | -Genuine and sincere |
| my arm around her waist when I feel like | | | | Â |
| it. I act on impulse and it's worked for | | | | Don't be ashamed of what you're thinking |
| me ever since I started doing it. | | | | and be open to touching her and kissing |
| Â | | | | her when you feel like it (Don't plan it |
| In each of us there are two processes, | | | | or do it just because this is the moment |
| the first is what is socially acceptable | | | | when you "should" touch/kiss her). |
| in the circumstances. i.e. We have a | | | | Â |
| great dinner date, we take a long walk, | | | | I hope you learn from this and start |
| I drive her home and I get a kiss at the | | | | acting out your desires as this is the |
| doorstep. May get lucky 2nd or maybe | | | | only TRUE way to live. |
| even 3rd date, maybe. | | | | Â |
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