| Being a man | | | | tell her to call you. |
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| If you're a typical nice guy, considerate, genuine, likes to | | | | Â |
| talk and have intelligent conversations with women | | | | The good news and strangely enough the most |
| then you MAY have been in this situation before. | | | | effective strategy for having more success from the |
| Â | | | | date to the bedroom is to break social norms and |
| Do you ever find that the more you talk to her (without | | | | follow your inhibitions. Women respond to this more |
| escalating physically) you end up talking yourself out of | | | | and appreciate this more than the "nice guy" approach. |
| closing the deal. Suddenly you realise her body shift, | | | | Nice guys finish last didn't you know? : ) |
| the conversation die out to some neutral and boring | | | | Â |
| topic, and she starts looking around the room at other | | | | Stop watching chick flicks, where nervous "sensitive" |
| couples possibly thinking "man why isn't this guy making | | | | actors are making a sissy fool of themselves courting |
| any moves on me, does he like me?". | | | | and being gentleman like. Forget hiding behind these |
| Â | | | | social ideals of how dates should go and create the |
| If you know what I'm talking about here then keep | | | | date how YOU want it to go. |
| reading as you're not alone, in fact this used to happen | | | | Â |
| to me ALOT. This I consider also a HOT topic when it | | | | The fact is most of us get our knowledge on the |
| comes especially to dates. | | | | dating scene and the "how to" on dates from movies. |
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| You're sitting there at the table, opposite each other | | | | Answer this honestly do you ever consult your male |
| face to face, had a great meal and a bottle of wine, | | | | friends and ask them what to do on a date? Do you |
| and you're thinking "How do I kiss this girl from all the | | | | ask your siblings, parents or other family what normally |
| way over here" and my old favorite "I haven't touched | | | | goes down? no probably not. |
| this girl all night and it's going to seem awkward if I | | | | Â |
| touch her now" suddenly this distance between you | | | | You get the ideals from movies, film, tv and the |
| seems to be drawing out and it seems she's further | | | | MEDIA. Yes, that evil media that manipulates men into |
| and further away from you. | | | | buying gifts, expensive diamond rings, working 50 hours |
| Â | | | | weeks to get a good car and an expensive apartment |
| What eventually happens is you call it a night and | | | | so women will be more responsive to them. The fact |
| you're outside the restaurant ready to part ways, and | | | | is women aren't much more responsive to this as |
| you touch her hand poised to strike her a kiss on the | | | | much as you think, I know of guys who take girls back |
| lips ... and she flinches .... then she looks down at your | | | | to their hostels (where they share a room with 20 |
| hand like to question you "What are you doing" or "It's | | | | other people) and they close the deal on a bunk bed. |
| too early for hand holding buddy" and all of a sudden a | | | | They do this consistently too with beautiful glamour |
| drip of cold sweat lines your neck and your pulse | | | | girls. |
| starts racing, palms get sweaty and all you hear is | | | | Â |
| your heartbeat thumping away like the Swazi bongos. | | | | Women want men pure and simple. |
| pum pum ... pum pum ..pum pum pum ... | | | | Â |
| Â | | | | What women want is an un-apologetic man who |
| Okay ... | | | | believes in honesty, being genuine and is unashamed of |
| Â | | | | his desire as a man. If the girl says "let's just be friends" |
| Getting a little dramatic here, well this used to happen | | | | which is the dreaded friends zone line he would say "I |
| to me on MOST DATES and the reason is I let it | | | | have enough friends" and walk away or convey he's |
| happen, I knew what to do and how to prevent it from | | | | willing to walk away. Powerful huh. |
| happening again but I was scared to act. That was a | | | | Â |
| long time ago, now this NEVER happens to me as I | | | | Women RESPOND to men. Women want |
| assert my inhibitions and I don't apologise for being a | | | | MASCULINE MEN to take them in every way possible. |
| man and thinking AND acting how a man SHOULD | | | | They want the man to be most importantly: |
| act. | | | | Â |
| Â | | | | -Unapologetic about their desires |
| I no longer wait for the end of the date, hell no, I kiss | | | | -True to themselves (don't say things that are meant |
| her when I feel like kissing, or touching her, putting my | | | | to impress her) |
| arm around her waist when I feel like it. I act on impulse | | | | -Genuine and sincere |
| and it's worked for me ever since I started doing it. | | | | Â |
| Â | | | | Don't be ashamed of what you're thinking and be open |
| In each of us there are two processes, the first is | | | | to touching her and kissing her when you feel like it |
| what is socially acceptable in the circumstances. i.e. | | | | (Don't plan it or do it just because this is the moment |
| We have a great dinner date, we take a long walk, I | | | | when you "should" touch/kiss her). |
| drive her home and I get a kiss at the doorstep. May | | | | Â |
| get lucky 2nd or maybe even 3rd date, maybe. | | | | I hope you learn from this and start acting out your |
| Â | | | | desires as this is the only TRUE way to live. |
| Then there's our inhibitions of what we WANT to do, | | | | Â |
| have a quick dinner, foreplay in the car on the way | | | | To find out how to meet, attract and seduce women |
| back to her place, "Make her surrender and submit" to | | | | then subscribe yourself to the "5 Step System". A |
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| on the balcony and then you kiss her good night and | | | | |