| Being a man | | | | Nice huh ... |
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| If you're a typical nice guy, considerate, | | | | The good news and strangely enough the most |
| genuine, likes to talk and have intelligent | | | | effective strategy for having more success |
| conversations with women then you MAY have | | | | from the date to the bedroom is to break |
| been in this situation before. | | | | social norms and follow your inhibitions. |
| | | | Women respond to this more and appreciate |
| Â | | | | this more than the "nice guy" approach. Nice |
| | | | guys finish last didn't you know? : ) |
| Do you ever find that the more you talk to | | | | |
| her (without escalating physically) you end | | | | Â |
| up talking yourself out of closing the deal. | | | | |
| Suddenly you realise her body shift, the | | | | Stop watching chick flicks, where nervous |
| conversation die out to some neutral and | | | | "sensitive" actors are making a sissy fool of |
| boring topic, and she starts looking around | | | | themselves courting and being gentleman like. |
| the room at other couples possibly thinking | | | | Forget hiding behind these social ideals of |
| "man why isn't this guy making any moves on | | | | how dates should go and create the date how |
| me, does he like me?". | | | | YOU want it to go. |
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| If you know what I'm talking about here then | | | | The fact is most of us get our knowledge on |
| keep reading as you're not alone, in fact | | | | the dating scene and the "how to" on dates |
| this used to happen to me ALOT. This I | | | | from movies. |
| consider also a HOT topic when it comes | | | | |
| especially to dates. | | | | Â |
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| Â | | | | Answer this honestly do you ever consult your |
| | | | male friends and ask them what to do on a |
| You're sitting there at the table, opposite | | | | date? Do you ask your siblings, parents or |
| each other face to face, had a great meal and | | | | other family what normally goes down? no |
| a bottle of wine, and you're thinking "How do | | | | probably not. |
| I kiss this girl from all the way over here" | | | | |
| and my old favorite "I haven't touched this | | | | Â |
| girl all night and it's going to seem awkward | | | | |
| if I touch her now" suddenly this distance | | | | You get the ideals from movies, film, tv and |
| between you seems to be drawing out and it | | | | the MEDIA. Yes, that evil media that |
| seems she's further and further away from | | | | manipulates men into buying gifts, expensive |
| you. | | | | diamond rings, working 50 hours weeks to get |
| | | | a good car and an expensive apartment so |
| Â | | | | women will be more responsive to them. The |
| | | | fact is women aren't much more responsive to |
| What eventually happens is you call it a | | | | this as much as you think, I know of guys who |
| night and you're outside the restaurant ready | | | | take girls back to their hostels (where they |
| to part ways, and you touch her hand poised | | | | share a room with 20 other people) and they |
| to strike her a kiss on the lips ... and she | | | | close the deal on a bunk bed. They do this |
| flinches .... then she looks down at your | | | | consistently too with beautiful glamour |
| hand like to question you "What are you | | | | girls. |
| doing" or "It's too early for hand holding | | | | |
| buddy" and all of a sudden a drip of cold | | | | Â |
| sweat lines your neck and your pulse starts | | | | |
| racing, palms get sweaty and all you hear is | | | | Women want men pure and simple. |
| your heartbeat thumping away like the Swazi | | | | |
| bongos. pum pum ... pum pum ..pum pum pum ... | | | | Â |
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| Â | | | | What women want is an un-apologetic man who |
| | | | believes in honesty, being genuine and is |
| Okay ... | | | | unashamed of his desire as a man. If the girl |
| | | | says "let's just be friends" which is the |
| Â | | | | dreaded friends zone line he would say "I |
| | | | have enough friends" and walk away or convey |
| Getting a little dramatic here, well this | | | | he's willing to walk away. Powerful huh. |
| used to happen to me on MOST DATES and the | | | | |
| reason is I let it happen, I knew what to do | | | | Â |
| and how to prevent it from happening again | | | | |
| but I was scared to act. That was a long time | | | | Women RESPOND to men. Women want MASCULINE |
| ago, now this NEVER happens to me as I assert | | | | MEN to take them in every way possible. They |
| my inhibitions and I don't apologise for | | | | want the man to be most importantly: |
| being a man and thinking AND acting how a man | | | | |
| SHOULD act. | | | | Â |
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| Â | | | | -Unapologetic about their desires |
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| I no longer wait for the end of the date, | | | | -True to themselves (don't say things that |
| hell no, I kiss her when I feel like kissing, | | | | are meant to impress her) |
| or touching her, putting my arm around her | | | | |
| waist when I feel like it. I act on impulse | | | | -Genuine and sincere |
| and it's worked for me ever since I started | | | | |
| doing it. | | | | Â |
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| Â | | | | Don't be ashamed of what you're thinking and |
| | | | be open to touching her and kissing her when |
| In each of us there are two processes, the | | | | you feel like it (Don't plan it or do it just |
| first is what is socially acceptable in the | | | | because this is the moment when you "should" |
| circumstances. i.e. We have a great dinner | | | | touch/kiss her). |
| date, we take a long walk, I drive her home | | | | |
| and I get a kiss at the doorstep. May get | | | | Â |
| lucky 2nd or maybe even 3rd date, maybe. | | | | |
| | | | I hope you learn from this and start acting |
| Â | | | | out your desires as this is the only TRUE way |
| | | | to live. |
| Then there's our inhibitions of what we WANT | | | | |
| to do, have a quick dinner, foreplay in the | | | | Â |
| car on the way back to her place, "Make her | | | | |
| surrender and submit" to you in the bedroom, | | | | To find out how to meet, attract and seduce |
| the kitchen, the lounge room and on the | | | | women then subscribe yourself to the "5 Step |
| balcony and then you kiss her good night and | | | | System". A FREE Audio ebook is sent directly |
| tell her to call you. | | | | to your email. |
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