| DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Initial Conversations With | | | | first place is meeting an EXCEPTIONAL woman and |
| Women, Not Being A Wussy, And Other Gems... | | | | then LOSING her because you're a jackass. |
| By David DeAngelo | | | | You do her and yourself a favor, and save your |
| ***SUCCESS STORY: | | | | pennies for my ADVANCED SERIES. |
| Hey Dave, | | | | Hell, she'll probably buy it for you if you can't. |
| Just wanted to drop you a line on how my personal | | | | Even though I don't talk about "relationships" very often, |
| story has been going since I started doing things "your | | | | I will say that the REAL challenge begins when you |
| way". I have checked every "girl strategy" out there, | | | | have one. |
| you know the ones, and have to say that your system | | | | Keeping a relationship fresh, fun, and interesting is quite |
| is the most simple, and most effective one out there. | | | | a challenge... and you're not going to do it if you turn |
| Your system gives men the start, and allows them to | | | | into a Wussy as time goes on. |
| put their own personal touches on it. Then, after some | | | | Good job, man. Keep it up. |
| success, (and some failures, of course, he he) we can | | | | ***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN*** |
| come back and get even more out of it. Awesome, | | | | Dear David: You sad, misbegotten, hopeless fool. No |
| man. | | | | wonder you have such hideous luck with women. |
| I'm 27, and have tried your way starting 2 years ago. It | | | | With your philosophy, it's an absolute guarantee that will |
| took me a long time to get "it", but the journey has | | | | continue. |
| been incredible. My friends can't believe the change in | | | | Good luck with the sad, misbegotten, hopeless women |
| me, and I am now helping friends who I once thought | | | | you are guaranteed to attract, and that you doom |
| were so much better than me. My relationships with | | | | your pathetic, clueless subscribers to attract. |
| women are so much more fulfilling now than they ever | | | | Omigod. |
| were when I was just trying to "get laid". | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| I think the one fundamental issue you push, which is so | | | | Wow, your sad, hopeless, misbegotten... and |
| overlooked, is the idea that a man can be absolutely | | | | REDUNDANT email really put me in my place. |
| honest, know what he wants, and get it. There are no | | | | And what are you talking about "hideous luck" with |
| tricks here, this is about being absolutely true to | | | | women? I date the smartest, hottest, and most |
| yourself. That is what attracts women to us, our | | | | interesting women running around on the planet. |
| unfaltering honesty, even when we are afraid that that | | | | Get a life, and call up the Redundancy Department Of |
| honesty will push them away. The exact opposite is | | | | Redundancy for some tips on how to not sound like a |
| true. | | | | dumbass. |
| Buying dinner, flowers, kissing ass, all of that crap is, at | | | | DAMMIT! I just broke my own rule again of not |
| its core element, dishonest. Being cocky and funny, | | | | allowing any letters from people who prove beyond |
| being true to yourself, and acting like a man, is, at core | | | | the shadow of a doubt that they are a JACKASS |
| element, totally honest. I think women really appreciate | | | | within the first three sentences of their email. |
| that, and I think it turns them on in a way that even | | | | When will I ever learn? |
| they don't understand. I am really starting to get this, | | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| and it gets better every day. | | | | Hi, I have a quick question. I started playing bass |
| Please put out more products, we want them, and | | | | because I thought women liked musicians. that was six |
| have no problem paying a reasonable price for this | | | | years ago. It's true, I do get a lot of attention because |
| information. My several different girl "friends" each | | | | of my skill at the instrument, but I can't seem to hang |
| hotter than the next, appreciate this as well. My life has | | | | on to a girlfriend. What are your views on women and |
| never been so good. Thanks for making it that way, I | | | | musicians? |
| owe you way more than the price of your products, | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| of which I have purchased all. God bless you man, you | | | | I think you need the answer to a DIFFERENT question. |
| rock. | | | | The question that YOU need the answer to is: |
| Your friend, M | | | | "What are my views on women and WUSSIES?" |
| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | ...because I'll bet you a dollar that the problem is you |
| Yea, it really is amazing that there is a way to have | | | | turning INTO A WUSSY. |
| success with women... while still being an honest, | | | | When a guy can't seem to hold on to a woman, the |
| straight-shooting guy. | | | | problem is ALMOST ALWAYS one of the following: |
| Whodathunkit, huh? | | | | 1) He turns into a clingy, needy Wuss at some point |
| A few more comments... | | | | during the relationship. |
| Yes, I know how frustrating it is to go searching for | | | | 2) He becomes PREDICTABLE and BORING at some |
| good information on how to be more successful with | | | | point during the relationship. |
| women and dating... only to find half-baked ideas from | | | | So stop doing those things. |
| people who have no clue what they're doing. | | | | And instead learn how to keep the ATTRACTION |
| And you're observation that buying women gifts, food, | | | | building and growing. |
| and flower is, at its core, DISHONEST is pretty | | | | It's possible, but you must LEARN how. |
| interesting, too. | | | | Stay tuned for more good info. |
| Most of the guys who look at my stuff and say "I don't | | | | Oh, and stop committing the two sins that I mentioned |
| like your ideas because I don't like to MANIPULATE | | | | above in the meantime. |
| women" will turn right around and have no problem | | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| buying a woman dinner in hopes that she'll sleep with | | | | I've been reading your emails for about two months |
| them. | | | | now, and I love your stuff! Very interesting and |
| Go figure. | | | | enlightening. But I have a conundrum that brings up a |
| Well congrats on sticking with it and getting this part of | | | | good question. |
| your life handled. It feels good, and I have a lot of | | | | I'm 32 years old, married for 10 years, three kids, |
| respect for guys who take the initiative to go DO | | | | suburban house, white picket fence, 3.2 pets in the |
| SOMETHING. | | | | house, yadda yadda (The .2 pet is just a pitiful thing, |
| Thanks for your email. | | | | hobbling around on two legs ...) Kidding. Anyway, I read |
| ***SUCCESS STORY*** | | | | in an earlier email that your ideas and methods work |
| Here's one for the history books: David DeAngelo, the | | | | even in a marriage relationship, and that you can still |
| Man who made Dating Scientific. | | | | build attraction even with someone you've been with |
| It's amazing how turned off women are by eager | | | | forever. Now, if what I am reading is correct, your core |
| guys working hard to impress, and how much they | | | | concept of attraction has to do with mystery and |
| love the composed bad boys who refuse to kiss ass. | | | | anticipation, rather than chivalry and "niceness." Now, |
| At a party I overheard a nearby conversation where a | | | | this lady has seen me with my pants down around my |
| guy was talking to a hot girl, basically kissing up to her | | | | ankles with a fly swatter and a jar of peanut butter |
| with the infinitely boring "yeah, I see what you mean" | | | | (figuratively speaking); how can I build anticipation and |
| and "I really identify with that" type responses. I just sat | | | | mystery when she knows me so well? If I try the |
| there with a kind of crooked half-smile, and in a minute | | | | three minute kiss test thing, she gonna slap my hand |
| the girl started talking to me. I used one of your best | | | | and say "Stop playing with my hair; I just had it colored! |
| rules, Never Give a Woman a Direct Answer Unless | | | | Go take out the garbage! And stop playing with the |
| it's No. Before long, this girl was telling me I acted like a | | | | peanut butter!" Any insight would be a help! |
| "stone cold psycho" who could "bury somebody in a | | | | Thanks! D.C. Northern CA |
| field somewhere and never think twice". Next thing I | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| know she's handing me her number. Now I have no | | | | "...a conundrum that brings up a good question"? |
| interest at all in killing people, but it cracks me up that | | | | She's gonna SLAP YOUR HAND? |
| this chick jokes about me being a psycho and then | | | | And tell you to go take out the garbage? |
| wants to go out. | | | | Dude, you're in major trouble. I've heard of men in your |
| JC Knoxville, TN | | | | position waking up with a key part of their anatomy |
| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | missing. |
| Hey, I never said that women make sense.lol... | | | | It's not pretty. |
| You know, several serial killers have all kinds of female | | | | From the sounds of it, you may already be missing |
| "worshippers". | | | | some of this aforementioned equipment. |
| And have you ever noticed how when some crazy | | | | Better check. |
| dude escapes from jail, they always find him shackin' | | | | I'll tell you what... |
| up with his old girlfriend? | | | | You have two basic choices: |
| Now, fortunately it's not necessary to be a serial killer | | | | 1) Buy your wife some new pants and yourself a new |
| or felon to attract women (but it doesn't seem to hurt | | | | skirt, because it's obvious that this is what she's |
| if you are). | | | | expecting. |
| Women DEFINITELY don't feel that powerful "Gut | | | | 2) Remove your high-heels, your apron, and your |
| Level Attraction" for "nice, sweet, needy guys". | | | | WUSSY ATTITUDE, and HE-BITCH-MAN-SLAP |
| ATTRACTION is a process that has developed over | | | | yourself IMMEDIATELY! |
| a LOOOOOOONG time. It's not something that | | | | Man, WAKE UP. |
| women think about and "work up to". It's not something | | | | I know, I know... I don't like to talk about marriage and |
| that women PLAN. | | | | relationships. Again, I just couldn't help myself. |
| ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and | | | | Look, Mystery and Anticipation don't have anything to |
| you can't CONVINCE a woman to feel it. | | | | do with you walking around with your pants down |
| You've obviously found success using these "illogical" | | | | carrying a fly swatter and a jar of peanut butter. |
| techniques that I teach. Good for you, and keep it up. | | | | It has to do with how you communicate with her... how |
| ***COMMENT*** | | | | you touch her... how you kiss her... and how you |
| Hi I ordered your double dating series and read through | | | | behave. You obviously need to learn this stuff. |
| it this weekend... | | | | And by they way, what the hell are you doing walking |
| After reading the material it struck me that this just isn't | | | | around in front of your wife with your pants down |
| related to attracting the opposite sex.. it relates to | | | | carrying, OF ALL THINGS, a fly swatter and PEANUT |
| "everything"....like my career, how other men respect | | | | BUTTER? |
| me, etc, etc.. | | | | Sounds to me like there's something you're not sharing |
| Their is only one thing I really want first and that is self | | | | with us. |
| respect, and after that have the guts to be tough, | | | | And I'm not going even speculate. |
| honest, funny and take a chance.. | | | | I'm scared. |
| I have been angry with woman for a long time (and I | | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| don't mean in violent way) but more like afraid to go | | | | I just started the DVD series, and I can't say enough |
| out with them, or blaming them for not being interested | | | | good things about it. I can already feel my confidence |
| in me.... | | | | and self-image improving. |
| Its been more like confusion about what do they want,, | | | | I realized something recently that I'm sure you and a lot |
| (and then I don't understand) which ends up in anger,, | | | | of other guys have encountered. When I talk to my |
| and then the cycle continues.... I want this war to stop | | | | guy friends about girls I'm dating or interested in, they |
| with myself. (because its me being angry with myself). | | | | tend to encourage and push me to action. When I talk |
| I listen to men's pain all the time…and its this | | | | to my female friends about girls I'm dating or interested |
| confusion (that men don't understand what woman | | | | in, they tend to say negative things about the girl and |
| want), and also poor self esteem.. so they settle for | | | | plant doubts in my head. What do you think about |
| less and end up being bossed around and poorly | | | | that? Even though there's no romantic interest |
| treated.......which ends up as men exploding with | | | | between me and my female friends, are they acting |
| anger......... | | | | competitive on some subconscious level? |
| I want all men to have their manhood back (and I | | | | R.C, Dallas |
| mean in a good way) treat woman well and bust them | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| when they push our buttons.. | | | | THE ANSWER IS YES. |
| I think I may start having some fun too!!!! | | | | If you think MEN are competitive, just wait until you |
| Sincerely | | | | start dating more WOMEN. |
| SG | | | | You will not believe how competitive women are. |
| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | A friend of mine pointed something out to me a few |
| Yea, I feel ya, dog. | | | | years ago. |
| Here's the scenario: | | | | He said "You know when you go out to a nice bar or |
| You're talking to your hot female co-worker, and she | | | | club, and all the women are dressed up, have their hair |
| starts talking about her abusive jerk boyfriend who is | | | | done, and their makeup perfect? Well they're not fixed |
| constantly treating her poorly. | | | | up like that for the men... it's for the other WOMEN." |
| You sit and listen for an hour, hoping that she'll realize | | | | Now, at first that made no sense to me. |
| what a great guy you are... and then consider you | | | | But the more I've paid close attention, the more I |
| instead of him. | | | | realize that it's RIGHT ON. |
| At the end of the conversation, she stands up, says | | | | Women are VERY competitive. |
| "Thanks for being such a GREAT FRIEND", and kisses | | | | In fact, one of the best ways to meet women is to |
| you on the cheek. | | | | GO OUT with a cute female friend (or more than one). |
| A week later, she's crying because her jerk BF is at it | | | | Women are always more interested in a guy who |
| again. | | | | already has women around him than a guy who |
| It's not too hard to get mad at women for this type of | | | | doesn't. |
| thing. | | | | This is one of the reasons why so many married guys |
| I've been there. | | | | talk about how much more often they're approached |
| I've had girlfriends who basically broke up with me or | | | | by women now that they're married... |
| never got together with me in the first place... and | | | | Female psychology is VERY interesting. |
| instead chose to be with guys who didn't treat them | | | | You will learn a TON as you go through my DVD |
| well. | | | | program. It's going to blow your mind. |
| But you're on the right track here. | | | | If you think you're feeling confident now, just wait until |
| Stop blaming women. | | | | you get further into it... and then go out and try some |
| Instead, start learning how to make them feel that | | | | of the things you're learning... and then come back and |
| powerful ATTRACTION for YOU. | | | | watch it again. |
| Sure, it takes a little effort. But I cannot imagine a | | | | That program is like a treasure map, with all the clues |
| greater investment in yourself and your personal life. | | | | you need to find the gold. |
| Nice! | | | | It has taken me YEARS to really put all of the pieces |
| I'm looking forward to hearing a Success Story from | | | | together... from female behavior and psychology, to |
| you very soon. | | | | ATTRACTION, to the things you need to do to |
| ***SUCCESS STORY*** | | | | change your self-image and shyness around women |
| Dave, | | | | into comfort and success. |
| I have received your emails for quite sometime now | | | | Thanks for the comments. ...and if you're reading this |
| and never did buy the book but after this weekend I | | | | right now and you're thinking "Yea, that's what I need... |
| have to get the whole nine yards. You have said not | | | | to get this part of my life handled", then guess what? |
| to be needy and to treat the women like little sister | | | | YOU'RE RIGHT. |
| brats. Believe you me it works amazingly. I am | | | | You do. |
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