| DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Initial Conversations | | | | "relationships" very often, I will say that |
| With Women, Not Being A Wussy, And Other | | | | the REAL challenge begins when you have one. |
| Gems... | | | | |
| | | | Keeping a relationship fresh, fun, and |
| By David DeAngelo | | | | interesting is quite a challenge... and |
| | | | you're not going to do it if you turn into a |
| ***SUCCESS STORY: | | | | Wussy as time goes on. |
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| Hey Dave, | | | | Good job, man. Keep it up. |
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| Just wanted to drop you a line on how my | | | | ***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN*** |
| personal story has been going since I | | | | |
| started doing things "your way". I have | | | | Dear David: You sad, misbegotten, hopeless |
| checked every "girl strategy" out there, you | | | | fool. No wonder you have such hideous luck |
| know the ones, and have to say that your | | | | with women. |
| system is the most simple, and most effective | | | | |
| one out there. Your system gives men the | | | | With your philosophy, it's an absolute |
| start, and allows them to put their own | | | | guarantee that will continue. |
| personal touches on it. Then, after some | | | | |
| success, (and some failures, of course, he | | | | Good luck with the sad, misbegotten, hopeless |
| he) we can come back and get even more out | | | | women you are guaranteed to attract, and |
| of it. Awesome, man. | | | | that you doom your pathetic, clueless |
| | | | subscribers to attract. |
| I'm 27, and have tried your way starting 2 | | | | |
| years ago. It took me a long time to get | | | | Omigod. |
| "it", but the journey has been incredible. | | | | |
| My friends can't believe the change in me, | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| and I am now helping friends who I once | | | | |
| thought were so much better than me. My | | | | Wow, your sad, hopeless, misbegotten... and |
| relationships with women are so much more | | | | REDUNDANT email really put me in my place. |
| fulfilling now than they ever were when I was | | | | |
| just trying to "get laid". | | | | And what are you talking about "hideous luck" |
| | | | with women? I date the smartest, hottest, |
| I think the one fundamental issue you push, | | | | and most interesting women running around on |
| which is so overlooked, is the idea that a | | | | the planet. |
| man can be absolutely honest, know what he | | | | |
| wants, and get it. There are no tricks here, | | | | Get a life, and call up the Redundancy |
| this is about being absolutely true to | | | | Department Of Redundancy for some tips on how |
| yourself. That is what attracts women to us, | | | | to not sound like a dumbass. |
| our unfaltering honesty, even when we are | | | | |
| afraid that that honesty will push them away. | | | | DAMMIT! I just broke my own rule again of not |
| The exact opposite is true. | | | | allowing any letters from people who prove |
| | | | beyond the shadow of a doubt that they are a |
| Buying dinner, flowers, kissing ass, all of | | | | JACKASS within the first three sentences of |
| that crap is, at its core element, | | | | their email. |
| dishonest. Being cocky and funny, being | | | | |
| true to yourself, and acting like a man, is, | | | | When will I ever learn? |
| at core element, totally honest. I think | | | | |
| women really appreciate that, and I think it | | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| turns them on in a way that even they don't | | | | |
| understand. I am really starting to get this, | | | | Hi, I have a quick question. I started |
| and it gets better every day. | | | | playing bass because I thought women liked |
| | | | musicians. that was six years ago. It's |
| Please put out more products, we want them, | | | | true, I do get a lot of attention because of |
| and have no problem paying a reasonable | | | | my skill at the instrument, but I can't seem |
| price for this information. My several | | | | to hang on to a girlfriend. What are your |
| different girl "friends" each hotter than | | | | views on women and musicians? |
| the next, appreciate this as well. My life | | | | |
| has never been so good. Thanks for making | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| it that way, I owe you way more than the | | | | |
| price of your products, of which I have | | | | I think you need the answer to a DIFFERENT |
| purchased all. God bless you man, you rock. | | | | question. |
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| Your friend, M | | | | The question that YOU need the answer to is: |
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| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | "What are my views on women and WUSSIES?" |
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| Yea, it really is amazing that there is a way | | | | ...because I'll bet you a dollar that the |
| to have success with women... while still | | | | problem is you turning INTO A WUSSY. |
| being an honest, straight-shooting guy. | | | | |
| | | | When a guy can't seem to hold on to a woman, |
| Whodathunkit, huh? | | | | the problem is ALMOST ALWAYS one of the |
| | | | following: |
| A few more comments... | | | | |
| | | | 1) He turns into a clingy, needy Wuss at some |
| Yes, I know how frustrating it is to go | | | | point during the relationship. |
| searching for good information on how to be | | | | |
| more successful with women and dating... only | | | | 2) He becomes PREDICTABLE and BORING at some |
| to find half-baked ideas from people who have | | | | point during the relationship. |
| no clue what they're doing. | | | | |
| | | | So stop doing those things. |
| And you're observation that buying women | | | | |
| gifts, food, and flower is, at its core, | | | | And instead learn how to keep the ATTRACTION |
| DISHONEST is pretty interesting, too. | | | | building and growing. |
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| Most of the guys who look at my stuff and say | | | | It's possible, but you must LEARN how. |
| "I don't like your ideas because I don't like | | | | |
| to MANIPULATE women" will turn right around | | | | Stay tuned for more good info. |
| and have no problem buying a woman dinner in | | | | |
| hopes that she'll sleep with them. | | | | Oh, and stop committing the two sins that I |
| | | | mentioned above in the meantime. |
| Go figure. | | | | |
| | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| Well congrats on sticking with it and getting | | | | |
| this part of your life handled. It feels | | | | I've been reading your emails for about two |
| good, and I have a lot of respect for guys | | | | months now, and I love your stuff! Very |
| who take the initiative to go DO SOMETHING. | | | | interesting and enlightening. But I have a |
| | | | conundrum that brings up a good question. |
| Thanks for your email. | | | | |
| | | | I'm 32 years old, married for 10 years, three |
| ***SUCCESS STORY*** | | | | kids, suburban house, white picket fence, |
| | | | 3.2 pets in the house, yadda yadda (The .2 |
| Here's one for the history books: David | | | | pet is just a pitiful thing, hobbling around |
| DeAngelo, the Man who made Dating | | | | on two legs ...) Kidding. Anyway, I read in |
| Scientific. | | | | an earlier email that your ideas and methods |
| | | | work even in a marriage relationship, and |
| It's amazing how turned off women are by | | | | that you can still build attraction even |
| eager guys working hard to impress, and how | | | | with someone you've been with forever. Now, |
| much they love the composed bad boys who | | | | if what I am reading is correct, your core |
| refuse to kiss ass. At a party I overheard a | | | | concept of attraction has to do with mystery |
| nearby conversation where a guy was talking | | | | and anticipation, rather than chivalry and |
| to a hot girl, basically kissing up to her | | | | "niceness." Now, this lady has seen me with |
| with the infinitely boring "yeah, I see what | | | | my pants down around my ankles with a fly |
| you mean" and "I really identify with that" | | | | swatter and a jar of peanut butter |
| type responses. I just sat there with a kind | | | | (figuratively speaking); how can I build |
| of crooked half-smile, and in a minute the | | | | anticipation and mystery when she knows me |
| girl started talking to me. I used one of | | | | so well? If I try the three minute kiss |
| your best rules, Never Give a Woman a Direct | | | | test thing, she gonna slap my hand and say |
| Answer Unless it's No. Before long, this | | | | "Stop playing with my hair; I just had it |
| girl was telling me I acted like a "stone | | | | colored! Go take out the garbage! And stop |
| cold psycho" who could "bury somebody in a | | | | playing with the peanut butter!" Any |
| field somewhere and never think twice". Next | | | | insight would be a help! |
| thing I know she's handing me her number. | | | | |
| Now I have no interest at all in killing | | | | Thanks! D.C. Northern CA |
| people, but it cracks me up that this chick | | | | |
| jokes about me being a psycho and then wants | | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| to go out. | | | | |
| | | | "...a conundrum that brings up a good |
| JC Knoxville, TN | | | | question"? |
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| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | She's gonna SLAP YOUR HAND? |
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| Hey, I never said that women make | | | | And tell you to go take out the garbage? |
| sense.lol... | | | | |
| | | | Dude, you're in major trouble. I've heard of |
| You know, several serial killers have all | | | | men in your position waking up with a key |
| kinds of female "worshippers". | | | | part of their anatomy missing. |
| | | | |
| And have you ever noticed how when some crazy | | | | It's not pretty. |
| dude escapes from jail, they always find him | | | | |
| shackin' up with his old girlfriend? | | | | From the sounds of it, you may already be |
| | | | missing some of this aforementioned |
| Now, fortunately it's not necessary to be a | | | | equipment. |
| serial killer or felon to attract women (but | | | | |
| it doesn't seem to hurt if you are). | | | | Better check. |
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| Women DEFINITELY don't feel that powerful | | | | I'll tell you what... |
| "Gut Level Attraction" for "nice, sweet, | | | | |
| needy guys". | | | | You have two basic choices: |
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| ATTRACTION is a process that has developed | | | | 1) Buy your wife some new pants and yourself |
| over a LOOOOOOONG time. It's not something | | | | a new skirt, because it's obvious that this |
| that women think about and "work up to". It's | | | | is what she's expecting. |
| not something that women PLAN. | | | | |
| | | | 2) Remove your high-heels, your apron, and |
| ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, | | | | your WUSSY ATTITUDE, and HE-BITCH-MAN-SLAP |
| and you can't CONVINCE a woman to feel it. | | | | yourself IMMEDIATELY! |
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| You've obviously found success using these | | | | Man, WAKE UP. |
| "illogical" techniques that I teach. Good for | | | | |
| you, and keep it up. | | | | I know, I know... I don't like to talk about |
| | | | marriage and relationships. Again, I just |
| ***COMMENT*** | | | | couldn't help myself. |
| | | | |
| Hi I ordered your double dating series and | | | | Look, Mystery and Anticipation don't have |
| read through it this weekend... | | | | anything to do with you walking around with |
| | | | your pants down carrying a fly swatter and a |
| After reading the material it struck me that | | | | jar of peanut butter. |
| this just isn't related to attracting the | | | | |
| opposite sex.. it relates to | | | | It has to do with how you communicate with |
| "everything"....like my career, how other | | | | her... how you touch her... how you kiss |
| men respect me, etc, etc.. | | | | her... and how you behave. You obviously need |
| | | | to learn this stuff. |
| Their is only one thing I really want first | | | | |
| and that is self respect, and after that | | | | And by they way, what the hell are you doing |
| have the guts to be tough, honest, funny and | | | | walking around in front of your wife with |
| take a chance.. | | | | your pants down carrying, OF ALL THINGS, a |
| | | | fly swatter and PEANUT BUTTER? |
| I have been angry with woman for a long time | | | | |
| (and I don't mean in violent way) but more | | | | Sounds to me like there's something you're |
| like afraid to go out with them, or blaming | | | | not sharing with us. |
| them for not being interested in me.... | | | | |
| | | | And I'm not going even speculate. |
| Its been more like confusion about what do | | | | |
| they want,, (and then I don't understand) | | | | I'm scared. |
| which ends up in anger,, and then the cycle | | | | |
| continues.... I want this war to stop with | | | | ***QUESTION*** |
| myself. (because its me being angry with | | | | |
| myself). | | | | I just started the DVD series, and I can't |
| | | | say enough good things about it. I can |
| I listen to men's pain all the time…and | | | | already feel my confidence and self-image |
| its this confusion (that men don't | | | | improving. |
| understand what woman want), and also poor | | | | |
| self esteem.. so they settle for less and | | | | I realized something recently that I'm sure |
| end up being bossed around and poorly | | | | you and a lot of other guys have |
| treated.......which ends up as men exploding | | | | encountered. When I talk to my guy friends |
| with anger......... | | | | about girls I'm dating or interested in, |
| | | | they tend to encourage and push me to |
| I want all men to have their manhood back | | | | action. When I talk to my female friends |
| (and I mean in a good way) treat woman well | | | | about girls I'm dating or interested in, |
| and bust them when they push our buttons.. | | | | they tend to say negative things about the |
| | | | girl and plant doubts in my head. What do |
| I think I may start having some fun too!!!! | | | | you think about that? Even though there's |
| | | | no romantic interest between me and my |
| Sincerely | | | | female friends, are they acting competitive |
| | | | on some subconscious level? |
| SG | | | | |
| | | | R.C, Dallas |
| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | |
| | | | >>>MY COMMENTS: |
| Yea, I feel ya, dog. | | | | |
| | | | THE ANSWER IS YES. |
| Here's the scenario: | | | | |
| | | | If you think MEN are competitive, just wait |
| You're talking to your hot female co-worker, | | | | until you start dating more WOMEN. |
| and she starts talking about her abusive jerk | | | | |
| boyfriend who is constantly treating her | | | | You will not believe how competitive women |
| poorly. | | | | are. |
| | | | |
| You sit and listen for an hour, hoping that | | | | A friend of mine pointed something out to me |
| she'll realize what a great guy you are... | | | | a few years ago. |
| and then consider you instead of him. | | | | |
| | | | He said "You know when you go out to a nice |
| At the end of the conversation, she stands | | | | bar or club, and all the women are dressed |
| up, says "Thanks for being such a GREAT | | | | up, have their hair done, and their makeup |
| FRIEND", and kisses you on the cheek. | | | | perfect? Well they're not fixed up like that |
| | | | for the men... it's for the other WOMEN." |
| A week later, she's crying because her jerk | | | | |
| BF is at it again. | | | | Now, at first that made no sense to me. |
| | | | |
| It's not too hard to get mad at women for | | | | But the more I've paid close attention, the |
| this type of thing. | | | | more I realize that it's RIGHT ON. |
| | | | |
| I've been there. | | | | Women are VERY competitive. |
| | | | |
| I've had girlfriends who basically broke up | | | | In fact, one of the best ways to meet women |
| with me or never got together with me in the | | | | is to GO OUT with a cute female friend (or |
| first place... and instead chose to be with | | | | more than one). |
| guys who didn't treat them well. | | | | |
| | | | Women are always more interested in a guy who |
| But you're on the right track here. | | | | already has women around him than a guy who |
| | | | doesn't. |
| Stop blaming women. | | | | |
| | | | This is one of the reasons why so many |
| Instead, start learning how to make them feel | | | | married guys talk about how much more often |
| that powerful ATTRACTION for YOU. | | | | they're approached by women now that they're |
| | | | married... |
| Sure, it takes a little effort. But I cannot | | | | |
| imagine a greater investment in yourself and | | | | Female psychology is VERY interesting. |
| your personal life. | | | | |
| | | | You will learn a TON as you go through my DVD |
| Nice! | | | | program. It's going to blow your mind. |
| | | | |
| I'm looking forward to hearing a Success | | | | If you think you're feeling confident now, |
| Story from you very soon. | | | | just wait until you get further into it... |
| | | | and then go out and try some of the things |
| ***SUCCESS STORY*** | | | | you're learning... and then come back and |
| | | | watch it again. |
| Dave, | | | | |
| | | | That program is like a treasure map, with all |
| I have received your emails for quite | | | | the clues you need to find the gold. |
| sometime now and never did buy the book but | | | | |
| after this weekend I have to get the whole | | | | It has taken me YEARS to really put all of |
| nine yards. You have said not to be needy | | | | the pieces together... from female behavior |
| and to treat the women like little sister | | | | and psychology, to ATTRACTION, to the things |
| brats. Believe you me it works amazingly. | | | | you need to do to change your self-image and |
| I am engaged to a 9 and lately things seemed | | | | shyness around women into comfort and |
| to get a little boring. My girlfriend | | | | success. |
| started acting a little distant so I thought | | | | |
| why not. I didn't tell her I loved her as | | | | Thanks for the comments. ...and if you're |
| quickly and quit going for a little kiss | | | | reading this right now and you're thinking |
| when the feeling took hold. In other words | | | | "Yea, that's what I need... to get this part |
| I took two steps forward and one step back. | | | | of my life handled", then guess what? |
| She looked at me kinda funny a couple of | | | | |
| times and then just jumped my bones right on | | | | YOU'RE RIGHT. |
| the couch in the middle of the day when we | | | | |
| were expecting friends over for a bar-b-que. | | | | You do. |
| I kept the cocky and funny up all night and | | | | |
| through the rest of the weekend. By Sunday | | | | And if you'd prefer to save yourself a few |
| night things were going just as hot as when | | | | YEARS of trial and error (or more), and a lot |
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| | | | with women to a whole new level, whether |
| >>>MY COMMENTS: | | | | you're just starting out or you already have |
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