| Cheater websites have become commonplace on the | | | | who practices cyber-sex. Cyber-sex evolves into |
| Internet. Website such as and specialize in promoting | | | | phone sex slowly, but the chances of cheating are |
| discrete affairs between married and committed | | | | less probable as they need to travel to meet each |
| people. Make sure your partner is not frequenting | | | | other. Even more, experienced cheaters will contact |
| these sites by checking their computer history. Also, | | | | people in those places where they know that will be |
| watch for escort sites such as or bigdoggie.net to find | | | | traveling soon. Check this out |
| out whether your husband or boyfriend is paying for | | | | Married and committed people who utilize cheater |
| prostitutes. Studies which were conducted recently | | | | websites want to have their cake and to eat it too. |
| revealed that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% | | | | Unfortunately, this is always unbeknownst to the |
| of married men engage in extramarital sex at some | | | | unsuspecting partner. Sites like Ashley Madison tap into |
| time or another during their relationship (Atwood & | | | | a very profitable place within the online personals |
| Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship | | | | arena by bringing honesty to the dishonest practice of |
| Therapy) . | | | | cheating. They allow people an alternative to a |
| There are several ways for the cheater to cheat on | | | | traditional personals site where they may have to lie |
| the Internet and there are several degrees of cheating | | | | and say they are single, thus giving potential mates the |
| on the Internet as well. It is imperative to mention that | | | | wrong impression-yet they make light of lying to a |
| Internet is particularly successful in putting people in | | | | spouse or partner. Married people seem to seek other |
| contact as it provides a way to interact with less | | | | married people to give themselves a sense of added |
| inhibition and more caution when knowing somebody | | | | security in an inherently insecure position. Their |
| else than the real life. | | | | preference to cheat within their own camp is based on |
| The common places one finds themselves meeting on | | | | assumptions about people with spouses: They will not |
| the Internet are thousands, and they are can be | | | | demand too much of the other person's time; they will |
| classified into the following categories: Chat rooms. | | | | be less invested in the relationship since they already |
| (MSN and Yahoo are the most used); Friend networks. | | | | have one; they are more understanding about a |
| (Hi5 and Orkut are very popular); Direct contact | | | | last-minute cancellation because the wife is sick and |
| through chat profiles. (Looking through the profiles of | | | | the kids need to go to soccer practice. Ideally, all those |
| MSN members); Sites to match couples | | | | things are true, but in the real world, there are no |
| (Perfectmatch, match, etc) and Relationship sites | | | | guarantees and having everything out in the open |
| (Passion, Adult Friend Finder, etc). | | | | does not mean there won't be drama. These |
| It is important to know that not everyone who chats or | | | | assumptions make all married people out to be normal |
| even meet in real life is a cheater. Internet is a great | | | | and stable, and all single people end up looking like |
| and wonderful resource and we all are responsible on | | | | needy, unreasonable fools with no boundaries |
| how we are going to use it. Finally, there is another set | | | | desperate to fall in love and break up a marriage. |
| of people, especially those who live in different towns, | | | | |