| Sure you're nice - most people are. So what? This | | | | have to take some initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT |
| quality is one that reflects your feeling that you're a | | | | (but not really cocky) and show some honest interest |
| man worth knowing and you deserve women's | | | | in something about a woman. 4. The best selling genre |
| attention. But do you really believe that women pay | | | | of books in the world is romance novels... because |
| attention to what you think you deserve? Being nice is | | | | women LOVE romance. So don't talk about sport for |
| not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice, but you also need | | | | God seek! If you are not the type of man that reads |
| to be interesting. Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to | | | | poetry or is able to talk about moon or about the smell |
| wimp/dweeb in too many people's minds. Believe me: | | | | of burned tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look unnatural. But |
| you don't have to be a jerk to attract women! As a | | | | taking your date in a romantic place, offering her a nice |
| matter of fact, women did not like jerks or aggressive | | | | flower, enjoying some good music or even touching |
| men. They are attracted by challenging, interesting | | | | her hand in a delicate way is very romantic. 5. And |
| guys. That's all. You can be interesting, challenging and | | | | don't talk only about you. You want her to listen to |
| still a nice man. Be yourself but keep in mind these | | | | you? Then first listen carefully to her when she needs |
| significant things that can make the difference | | | | to be heard. The most effective way to be interesting |
| between a regular nice guy and a successful one: 1. | | | | is asking questions and… listens. Only try and |
| Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the | | | | you'll see. :) Keep in mind that often (not always, but |
| quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to let a | | | | very often) when a woman tells you about a problem |
| woman know that YOU are the guy she should be | | | | she's having, she's not looking to you for the solution. |
| pursuing is to let women know you are successful | | | | What? That doesn't make sense? What she's often |
| with women. Be a nice guy, but one that is desirable. :) | | | | looking for is comfort and reassurance and knowing |
| 2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a | | | | that YOU'RE THERE. 6. One of the most important |
| woman and spark her attraction for you is giving her a | | | | things in dating is to approach women that are |
| COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal if | | | | interested in dating and women that seem to be |
| done wrong... but just find something at her what you | | | | interested in you. Don't try to sell candies to someone |
| really think is special, different about her. You give | | | | that is looking for peanuts and don't waste your time |
| attention, and you will get attention in return! 3. Not | | | | with women that are still affected by their ex long |
| being aggressive doesn't mean that you have to wait | | | | term relationships. You don't want to be just a shoulder |
| for madam perfection to drop into your lap (which you | | | | to cry? You only live once, so live your life well! |
| as a "nice guy" deserve by definition, of course). You | | | | |