| Sure you're nice - most people are. So what? | | | | to take some initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT |
| This quality is one that reflects your | | | | (but not really cocky) and show some honest |
| feeling that you're a man worth knowing and | | | | interest in something about a woman. 4. The |
| you deserve women's attention. But do you | | | | best selling genre of books in the world is |
| really believe that women pay attention to | | | | romance novels... because women LOVE romance. |
| what you think you deserve? Being nice is not | | | | So don't talk about sport for God seek! If |
| enough. Okay, fine, you're nice, but you also | | | | you are not the type of man that reads poetry |
| need to be interesting. Unfortunately, "nice | | | | or is able to talk about moon or about the |
| guy" equates to wimp/dweeb in too many | | | | smell of burned tree leafs, don't do it. |
| people's minds. Believe me: you don't have to | | | | You'll look unnatural. But taking your date |
| be a jerk to attract women! As a matter of | | | | in a romantic place, offering her a nice |
| fact, women did not like jerks or aggressive | | | | flower, enjoying some good music or even |
| men. They are attracted by challenging, | | | | touching her hand in a delicate way is very |
| interesting guys. That's all. You can be | | | | romantic. 5. And don't talk only about you. |
| interesting, challenging and still a nice | | | | You want her to listen to you? Then first |
| man. Be yourself but keep in mind these | | | | listen carefully to her when she needs to be |
| significant things that can make the | | | | heard. The most effective way to be |
| difference between a regular nice guy and a | | | | interesting is asking questions and… |
| successful one: 1. Women LOVE a man who is a | | | | listens. Only try and you'll see. :) Keep in |
| CHALLENGE... the quickest and easiest way | | | | mind that often (not always, but very often) |
| I've ever heard to let a woman know that YOU | | | | when a woman tells you about a problem she's |
| are the guy she should be pursuing is to let | | | | having, she's not looking to you for the |
| women know you are successful with women. Be | | | | solution. What? That doesn't make sense? What |
| a nice guy, but one that is desirable. :) 2. | | | | she's often looking for is comfort and |
| The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman | | | | reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE. 6. |
| and spark her attraction for you is giving | | | | One of the most important things in dating is |
| her a COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be | | | | to approach women that are interested in |
| suicidal if done wrong... but just find | | | | dating and women that seem to be interested |
| something at her what you really think is | | | | in you. Don't try to sell candies to someone |
| special, different about her. You give | | | | that is looking for peanuts and don't waste |
| attention, and you will get attention in | | | | your time with women that are still affected |
| return! 3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean | | | | by their ex long term relationships. You |
| that you have to wait for madam perfection to | | | | don't want to be just a shoulder to cry? You |
| drop into your lap (which you as a "nice guy" | | | | only live once, so live your life well! |
| deserve by definition, of course). You have | | | | |