| Sure you're nice - most people are. So | | | | have to take some initiative. BE |
| what? This quality is one that reflects | | | | SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really cocky) |
| your feeling that you're a man worth | | | | and show some honest interest in |
| knowing and you deserve women's | | | | something about a woman. 4. The best |
| attention. But do you really believe | | | | selling genre of books in the world is |
| that women pay attention to what you | | | | romance novels... because women LOVE |
| think you deserve? Being nice is not | | | | romance. So don't talk about sport for |
| enough. Okay, fine, you're nice, but you | | | | God seek! If you are not the type of man |
| also need to be interesting. | | | | that reads poetry or is able to talk |
| Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to | | | | about moon or about the smell of burned |
| wimp/dweeb in too many people's minds. | | | | tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look |
| Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk | | | | unnatural. But taking your date in a |
| to attract women! As a matter of fact, | | | | romantic place, offering her a nice |
| women did not like jerks or aggressive | | | | flower, enjoying some good music or even |
| men. They are attracted by challenging, | | | | touching her hand in a delicate way is |
| interesting guys. That's all. You can be | | | | very romantic. 5. And don't talk only |
| interesting, challenging and still a | | | | about you. You want her to listen to |
| nice man. Be yourself but keep in mind | | | | you? Then first listen carefully to her |
| these significant things that can make | | | | when she needs to be heard. The most |
| the difference between a regular nice | | | | effective way to be interesting is |
| guy and a successful one: 1. Women LOVE | | | | asking questions and… listens. Only |
| a man who is a CHALLENGE... the quickest | | | | try and you'll see. :) Keep in mind that |
| and easiest way I've ever heard to let a | | | | often (not always, but very often) when |
| woman know that YOU are the guy she | | | | a woman tells you about a problem she's |
| should be pursuing is to let women know | | | | having, she's not looking to you for the |
| you are successful with women. Be a nice | | | | solution. What? That doesn't make sense? |
| guy, but one that is desirable. :) 2. | | | | What she's often looking for is comfort |
| The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a | | | | and reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE |
| woman and spark her attraction for you | | | | THERE. 6. One of the most important |
| is giving her a COMPLIMENT on her looks. | | | | things in dating is to approach women |
| This can be suicidal if done wrong... | | | | that are interested in dating and women |
| but just find something at her what you | | | | that seem to be interested in you. Don't |
| really think is special, different about | | | | try to sell candies to someone that is |
| her. You give attention, and you will | | | | looking for peanuts and don't waste your |
| get attention in return! 3. Not being | | | | time with women that are still affected |
| aggressive doesn't mean that you have to | | | | by their ex long term relationships. You |
| wait for madam perfection to drop into | | | | don't want to be just a shoulder to cry? |
| your lap (which you as a "nice guy" | | | | You only live once, so live your life |
| deserve by definition, of course). You | | | | well! |