| For most of us the first sexual kiss is a
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| | Initial kisses are gentle and attentive,
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| great event, full of strange and exciting
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| | so the pressure of your lips is at first
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| emotion. Many people remember when and
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| | featherlight. Repeat these kisses for a
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| where and how they had their first kiss.
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| | while, explore the lips with your lips
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| Some were six or seven, others had to
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| | and very lightly with the tip of your
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| wait until after their twenties. Most
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| | tongue. Feel the response of the other
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| people have good memories of their first
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| | lips, do they open up or remain closed?
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| kiss. Even if they felt clumsy or shy or
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| | That is important for taking the next
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| awkward, the excitement of touching
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| | step. If the other's lips remain closed,
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| someone else's lips was enough to make
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| | while they still enjoy the kissing,
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| them feel on top of the world.
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| | refrain from going any further. Do not
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| There are exceptions, of course. Some
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| | force anything, do not worm your tonue
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| people remember their first kiss as being
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| | between the other's lips, do not open you
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| without any pleasure or thrill. Some
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| | mouth all wide and wet in passionate and
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| remember having kisses forced upon them
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| | swooning surrender.
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| against their will. Kissing can be so
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| | The kiss step 3: tongue kissing
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| clumsy and awkward that it gives pain or
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| | There comes a moment, if not now then
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| boredom or irritaion rather than
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| | later, when the lips kiss half open and
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| pleasure. The expression for this
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| | the tongues touch. This is sometimes
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| phenomenon is 'Sweet sixteen and never
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| | called French kissing, not because the
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| been kissed, only slobbered over.'
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| | French invented it but because people
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| So maybe quite a few young people (and
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| | used to think it very naughty or even
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| some older ones as well) may benefit from
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| | dirty and disgusting. For the same
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| a few lessons in kissing. For it remains
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| | reason, a condom was called a French
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| a fact that sexual kissing is not on any
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| | letter and oral sex is still called
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| curriculum. It is not taught at home or
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| | 'French'.
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| in school or in mail courses. Kissing is
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| | The tongue kiss is another heartstopping
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| supposed to come naturally and not to
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| | event when you first experience it. When
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| need any instruction or help. This is
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| | the tongues touch each other, it is again
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| only partly true. Swimming comes
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| | important to let them move gently and,
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| naturally, too, yet we need instruction
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| | you might say, curiously, exploring the
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| and guidance to do it well and feel
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| | other tongue, playing around it,
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| confident in the water. And even if you
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| | withdrawing and approaching, like a slow
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| are a natural talent, a perfect kisser,
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| | dance. So do not force your tongue into
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| you may find that your partner is not so
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| | the other mouth, or allow the other
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| good at it, and can use a little
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| | tongue to fill yours without response.
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| instruction.
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| | Very important also is to keep your teeth
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| So here goes.
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| | from touching the other's teeth. One of
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| The kiss step 1: location and time
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| | the most typical put-downers in kissing
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| You can kiss anywhere and at any time,
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| | is when people forget themselves in what
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| but experience teaches that in the
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| | they think is a passionate embrace and
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| beginning a quiet and safe place works
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| | hit each other's teeth hard and
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| best. So that may be your room, provided
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| | painfully.
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| there is no chance of intrusion, or a
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| | For this reason it is also handy to
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| secluded place in the country or by the
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| | remove spectacles before tongue kissing
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| sea. The city, too, offers places of
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| | starts. Taking off glasses gently can be
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| seclusion in the daytime, such as parks
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| | a great introduction to kissing anyway.
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| and porticos, but is mostly too crowded.
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| | The kiss: arousal
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| After dark, the city can be a wonderful
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| | Kissing expresses and intensifies sexual
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| place for going out, but it is not the
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| | feeling. Boys will experience a hardening
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| best environment for practising the art
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| | of the penis, girls will become wet. The
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| of kissing. We don't recommend movies,
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| | heart beats faster and breathing will
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| discos, pubs, department stores, taxis,
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| | quicken. You feel a warm glow all through
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| lavatories, restaurants, buses, pavements
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| | your body: you are getting 'hot'. It is
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| or underground trains, for the simple
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| | wonderful to keep this state of pleasure
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| reason that there are too many
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| | going for a while. Keep up the quality of
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| distractions, noise, and other people. It
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| | your kissing by not losing yourself
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| is better not to kiss intimately in the
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| | altogether, so don't forget to breathe or
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| presence of other people. It makes them
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| | to swallow. Keep or move your partner and
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| feel excluded (they would like to be
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| | yourself in comfortable positions, so
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| doing what you are doing) or embarrassed.
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| | that arms or necks do not become
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| The kiss step 2: good kissing
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| | strained.
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| The most important characteristic of good
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| | As experience grows, so does your
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| kissing -of good lovemaking in general-
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| | repertoire. Kisses will go anywhere. Ear
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| is gentleness and attention. Touch your
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| | kisses are very exciting, as long as they
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| partner with your hands on the hair or
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| | are very light touches of the tongue tip
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| face and look them in the eye. As you
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| | against the inside of the ear shell. Do
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| approach with your lips do not be too
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| | not go in deeply and take care to hold
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| hasty, but check the response. If your
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| | your breath or breathe very very lightly,
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| partner is willing, they show it by
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| | otherwise it will hurt. A whisper into
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| moving their lips in your direction. When
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| | the ear is very stimulating indeed. Lots
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| the lips touch, keep them relaxed, but
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| | of different kisses can be distinguished:
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| not too much. Lips should be neither
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| tight or pinched nor limp or flabby. The
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| | underwater kisses are very suitable for
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| touch of loving lips is an exquisite
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| | beginning swimmers at play
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| experience and should be savoured. Let
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| | musical kisses are rhythmic dances of the
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| your partner feel the pleasure you feel.
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| | tongue in the half dark
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| You can close your eyes (you naturally
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| | counterkisses are different responses,
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| tend to do that anyway), but it can be a
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| | wet against dry, quick agains slow
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| pretty good idea to open them at least a
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| | exchange kisses swap drink or food
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| little now and then. Half open eyes show
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| | (icecream, a strand of spaghetti).
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| that you are enjoying the intimacy and
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| | Kissing gives pleasure in itself and can
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| are communicating that enjoyment. Kissing
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| | be all that you do, for a time at least.
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| is best when you are giving as well as
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| | If you move from kissing to the next
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| receiving pleasure and are both aware of
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| | stage you can have great sex without
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| that.
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| | intercourse.
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