| So your pick up lines have paid off, a hot | | | | |
| chick's been dazzled by your smile, and the | | | | Keep close to her. Glance at her lips now and |
| pair of you have been flirting so long that | | | | then - it will make her think about kissing |
| your friends have got bored of watching you. | | | | you. But don't make a move just yet - leave |
| It's time to start thinking about what | | | | it long enough and you'll find she does it |
| happens next. | | | | for you! |
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| You already know she likes you - she's been | | | | Don't put her under any pressure. Holding |
| chatting to you for more than ten minutes | | | | back and leaving her to take the lead lets |
| without making her excuses. So now you're | | | | her feel daring, seductive and in control of |
| faced with two options: you can arrange to | | | | the situation. She'll feel sexier as a |
| meet at a later date, or you can decide to | | | | result, and that means a whole lot more fun |
| spend the night together. And, for the sake | | | | later on. |
| of this article, I'm going to assume you'd | | | | |
| prefer the latter. | | | | It also means you're more likely to end up |
| | | | back at her place, and this is definitely a |
| Convincing a girl to spend the night with you | | | | good thing. Being her guest lets you control |
| is not as difficult as you might believe, but | | | | exactly how and when the night ends, and |
| it is a game and you need to know the rules. | | | | allows you to make a sharp exit should you |
| | | | deem it necessary. It also means that she'll |
| Luckily, I'm here to share them with you. | | | | feel more relaxed, which makes for a better |
| | | | night for both of you. |
| The main thing you need to remember is that | | | | |
| girls hate to be seen as easy. She'd love to | | | | Of course, if you do need to head back to |
| take you home with her, but she doesn't want | | | | yours, don't despair. Have a handy excuse |
| you to think that she's slutty - a grown up | | | | ready for the morning after, and deliver it |
| game of kiss chase lets her pretend she's not | | | | politely and apologetically. Sure, it's a |
| the sort of girl who does this kind of thing. | | | | little bit time consuming, but there's no |
| | | | harm in letting word get round the girls that |
| Girls love to feel special, so treat her like | | | | you acted like a proper gentleman. |
| she is. When you're talking to her focus on | | | | |
| her face, listen to what she's saying, find | | | | By closing time she'll be looking for an |
| excuses to touch her arms. Make her feel | | | | excuse to invite you home. Help her out by |
| irresistible and she'll quickly crave even | | | | telling her, "I'm really enjoying getting to |
| more attention. | | | | know you; it's a shame the night's almost |
| | | | over..." She's bound to suggest you continue |
| Avoid dropping obvious hints about sex - you | | | | it over coffee. |
| both know it's on your mind, so there's no | | | | |
| need to elaborate. Keep compliments about her | | | | If she's still feeling shy, she may offer you |
| appearance to a minimum, and don't turn the | | | | her number. Don't try to force her to take it |
| conversation dirty unless she's leading you | | | | any further, but do ask, "How do I know that |
| that way - girls find what's left unsaid more | | | | if I use it, you'll answer?" Her response |
| exciting than you laying your cards on the | | | | will be a kiss, and once you've started |
| table, so leave her guessing about what's on | | | | touching, that girl won't want to stop. |
| your mind. | | | | |