Failure to launch: how to date men who live at home

Many men still live with their parents and are actuallyexcuses are: "I was living on my own for a while but
interested in developing long-term relationships.I've come back for a year to save for a home
When dating a guy who lives at home, here are fivedeposit". Or "'I'm staying with my parents until I
important dos and dont's to remember:complete my demanding law degree." Unacceptable
In the film, Failure to Launch, Matthew McConaugheyexcuses are: "Mum does my cooking and washing" or
dates women, they start talking marriage, and he gets"Mum and Dad are the only friends I've got."
cold feet.
He decides she should break up with him. His2. Silence is a virtue. While normally you would convey
strategy? Invite the girl to his place - only it's not hisyour date's kissing prowess by letting out little sighs, at
place. It's his parents' family home. The girl's dreams ofhis parents' place you must learn to love in silence.
an independent man are shattered. She dumps him
and he's off the hook.3. Listen to directions. It's one thing to visit your date's
In real life, however, many men still live with theirplace for the first time, it's quite another when it's also
parents and are actually interested in developinghome to his parents. If your date gives you a quick
long-term relationships.tour of the house, be sure to listen up. My friend Sarah
When dating a guy who lives at home, here are fiveonce had the horrifying experience of entering what
important dos and don'ts to remember:she thought was the bathroom, only to find her date's
parents sitting up in bed. "I'd accidentally walked straight
1. Assess the situation. His reason for staying atinto their bedroom!" she says.
Mummy's and Daddy's better be good. Acceptable