| In any group of girls, there's usually
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| | woman dying to be at your side. This is a
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| one who's getting all the attention. You
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| | little devious, but what's the harm? Try
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| know, she's really animated, talking a
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| | this: Go up to a woman and ask her,
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| lot, outgoing, a lot of guys are hitting
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| | "How's work, Susan?" She'll tell you
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| on her. You can bet some of the other
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| | she's not Susan. "Oh, you're not Susan
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| girls in the group are kind of shy and
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| | Moore who works at the Citizens' Bank?"
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| are feeling left out and a bit jealous -
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| | She'll say something like, "No, I'm Karen
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| and they're dying for their share of
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| | Miller that works at Landover Real
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| attention! Give it to them, and it will
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| | Estate." Then just say, "Oh, well I'm
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| be like throwing them a lifeline -
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| | Doug Jones (offer to shake hands), and
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| they'll cling on to you to save them from
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| | I'm sorry for the mistake." Smile and
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| the horror of being a chick in the shadow
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| | walk away.In two or three days, send
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| of some other woman!TIP 1
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| | flowers to her at her work place. Include
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| Here's what you do: Scope out the girl
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| | a card saying, "We just met for a moment,
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| in the group who seems kind of shy, who's
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| | but I can't stop thinking about you. Meet
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| looking around for attention but can't
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| | me for a drink after work? Doug." Include
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| seem to get any because her girlfriend is
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| | your phone number, too, just in case she
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| dancing on the tabletops or just being
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| | wants to call and thank you before you
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| really loud and boisterous - and being
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| | get in touch with her. And believe me,
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| hit on by every guy in the place. Go up
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| | she'll want to thank you. And you'll
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| to your shy girl and say, "I just can't
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| | score major brownie points because she'll
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| believe it." She'll say, "What?" "I can't
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| | be thrilled to get flowers at work - all
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| believe why everyone is making such a
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| | the other women in the office will be
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| fuss over your friend when there's such a
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| | buzzing around wondering who sent them,
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| beautiful woman sitting over here in the
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| | and the object of your desire will be
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| corner. We need to do something about
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| | excited by the surprise and by the
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| that. Can I join you?" She'll be very
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| | attention from her co-workers. Give her a
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| flattered, and thankful someone noticed
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| | call later that day after you know the
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| her! Ask her name, give her yours, and
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| | flowers have arrived, and say, "Hi, this
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| offer to buy a drink. Make sure you don't
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| | is Doug. Remember me, I'm the one at the
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| say anything negative about her loud,
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| | dry cleaners (or wherever you met her)
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| flirty friend - this will turn her off.
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| | who mistook you for Susan from the bank?
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| Give her the attention she's been
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| | Did you get the flowers?" She'll say yes,
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| craving, tell her she's got beautiful
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| | tell you they're beautiful and
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| eyes. Ask her about herself, what she
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| | unexpected. Say, "I know this is a little
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| does for a living, where she lives -
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| | crazy, out of the blue and all, but you
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| women love to talk as much as they love
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| | just seemed so nice, and I was kicking
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| compliments, and they love it when
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| | myself that I didn't ask you out before.
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| someone takes an interest. And after
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| | I know we don't really know each other,
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| seeing her friend be the one to get the
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| | but I'd like to change that. How about
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| spotlight all night, she'll lap up the
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| | going for that drink later?"She may not
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| attention like crazy. Tell her you
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| | remember you well, after all, she only
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| enjoyed meeting her and would like to
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| | met you for a minute, but man oh man is
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| take her out sometime, then get her
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| | she ever going to be flattered! Someone
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| number. She'll be all too happy to give
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| | is telling her she's so hot that after a
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| it - handing over a phone number will
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| | few seconds in her presence, he can't
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| show her friends that she's getting male
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| | stop thinking about her and is sending
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| attention, too! She'll be thankful you
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| | flowers?! Women eat that stuff up, they
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| saved her from sitting unnoticed, and
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| | think flowers are so thoughtful and
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| you'll be on your way to one very hot
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| | romantic! How could she turn down a drink
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| date with a very grateful gal!TIP 2
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| | with someone so thoughtful, someone who
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| Grocery stores are great places to meet
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| | made her feel gorgeous? She can't!
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| women - they gotta buy food, right? And
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| | Besides, she'd feel ungrateful if she
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| it offers a great opportunity for you to
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| | didn't at least give you a shot. This is
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| seem like a helpless male who needs a
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| | a piece of cake pick-up technique, and it
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| little feminine wisdom to get him
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| | makes you seem like Prince Charming! Like
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| through.Here's the plan: Go up to a woman
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| | taking candy from a baby, fellas, trust
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| who's browsing meat (or looking at fruit
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| | me.TIP 5
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| or reading labels on laundry detergent or
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| | Check this out - You want hot babes
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| whatever). For instance, if it's meat,
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| | dying to give you their number? Hell,
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| look over the meat, too, picking some up
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| | yeah, you do! Tired of always having to
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| and reading the labels then setting it
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| | chase after them? Of course you are! So
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| back. Turn to her and say, "I'm hopeless
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| | why not get them to come to you?
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| at this, I can never pick good steaks.
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| | There's a simple trick that has the
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| It's always too tough or too fatty or
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| | babes flocking to you. It's as easy as a
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| just not fresh. Can you help me out?"
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| | walk in the park - if you bring a dog
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| Women love giving advice, and you just
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| | along for the stroll, that is.Yeah,
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| gave her a golden opportunity she can't
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| | you've heard about dogs being a babe
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| refuse. She'll give some tips. Ask her
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| | magnet - because it's true! Time to start
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| questions, like what color to look for,
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| | believing it and try it out for yourself.
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| if you should buy leaner cuts, etc. When
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| | And if you don't have a dog, be the nice
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| she's done and you've selected some
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| | guy and offer to take a friend's pooch
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| steaks or a package of hamburger or
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| | for a walk once in a while. The dog
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| whatever, say, "Thanks so much, I really
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| | doesn't have to belong to you to have
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| appreciate this. This may be the first
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| | that same magnetic effect on women.It
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| good meal I've had in ages. Let me repay
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| | works like this: Woman sees man with
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| you - let me make you dinner. You already
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| | cute, furry dog. Woman can't resist going
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| know I've got good steak." She'll be a
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| | up to pet and talk to dog. Woman is
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| little taken by surprise, but very
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| | feeling all warm and fuzzy and friendly
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| pleased with the attention. Say, "By the
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| | and starts asking man about dog. "He's so
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| way, I'm Doug. And what can I call you?"
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| | cute! What's his name? What kind is he?
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| She may accept the dinner invitation and
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| | Can I pet him?" All you have to do is be
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| if so, great, get the number and start
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| | ready with the basic info. Like, "Thanks,
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| planning that menu! But since she doesn't
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| | his name's Butch. He's no kind, just a
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| really know you well, she may hesitate to
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| | mutt, aren't ya boy? But he's a sweet
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| go to your house for a meal. So if she
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| | mutt. Go ahead; he loves to be petted by
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| seems a bit reluctant, say, "You know, I
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| | beautiful women."From here, ask if she
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| know you really don't know me and might
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| | has pets, learn about them, what kind,
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| be shy about coming to my place for
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| | their names. If she doesn't have a dog
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| dinner so soon. So how about I take you
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| | now, ask if she ever did. Find out about
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| out for a nice meal, and then you can see
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| | it, then ask her advice on your dog.
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| what a harmless guy I am, and maybe later
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| | Like, "Since you used to have a dog,
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| I'll cook you that dinner. Come on,
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| | maybe you'll know this, but Butch wants
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| you've got nothing to lose and you'll
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| | to bark all night long. Any idea what I
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| gain a free dinner at the restaurant of
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| | should do?" This doesn't have to be the
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| your choice. Besides, I owe you. Your
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| | exact question, just pick something where
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| advice has saved me from a lifetime of
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| | she can give advice and an opinion.
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| eating bad cuts of meat. You've got to
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| | She'll feel needed, and you just have to
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| let me pay you back." She'll be flattered
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| | act interested and impressed with the
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| and laughing at this point, and most
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| | advice. If she never had a dog, share a
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| likely writing down those digits for
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| | fuzzy story about the dog and why they
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| you!If you met talking over fruit or
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| | make good pets. Then say, "Ya know, Butch
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| laundry detergent, you obviously can't
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| | is really digging you. He never takes to
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| offer to cook that up for her (well, you
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| | strangers like this. I think he'd be
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| could, but you'll score crazy points
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| | really disappointed if he didn't get to
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| instead of brownie points). But you can
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| | see you again. Care to join us here for a
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| still thank her and offer to pay her back
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| | picnic tomorrow?" Now you've been sweet
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| by going for a cup of coffee or dinner
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| | and flattering and funny in one fell
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| sometime. Play up how she's saved you
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| | stroke, and the woman will be eating out
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| from wearing horribly dingy clothes by
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| | of the palm of your hand. Get her number,
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| helping with that detergent or saved you
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| | set a date. Just pack some wine and a
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| from catching God knows what kind of rare
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| | blanket with that picnic basket, and
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| tropical disease imparted by eating
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| | you'll be ready to rock!TIP 5
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| squishy, bad fruit. Make a joke, get her
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| | Ok dudes, if you want to meet the
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| laughing, and get those digits!
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| | ladies, sometimes it helps to get a
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| Supermarket scores are great, because
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| | little extreme. Unique can be a good
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| women love it when they think a man who
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| | thing.Go to a clothing store, like a
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| was just minding his business, doing
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| | department store that sells clothes for
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| shopping, saw her and was so taken that
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| | men and women. Find a spot in the men's
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| he couldn't help but make a move. Female
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| | section that's nearest to the women's
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| vanity has its uses, fellas!TIP 3
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| | clothes. Look through the racks, grabbing
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| Some women are just out there waiting to
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| | a few things you'd like to try on. When
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| be hit on, and they're sending signals.
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| | you spot a babe you'd like to meet, make
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| You just have to pick up on the signals,
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| | your move.Go over to her, and say,
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| then striking up a conversation is a
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| | "Excuse me, but you look like you really
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| piece of cake because that's what the
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| | know how to dress. I've been shopping all
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| woman was waiting for from anybody. It
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| | day, and I just can't find anything. You
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| might as well be you!Go someplace where
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| | obviously know about clothes, could you
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| people hang out, like a bar or bookstore.
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| | give me an opinion?" You can say you're
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| If there's a woman at the bar who's just
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| | trying to find something for work, like
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| sort of looking bored, who keeps looking
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| | dressy casual, or just say you're
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| around the room or even getting up to
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| | terrible at picking out clothes and ask
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| walk around the room, that woman is
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| | her to help you find the right shirts and
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| looking for action. Go up to her and
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| | jeans or suit or whatever it is that you
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| comment on something about the place,
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| | really are interested in buying. Just
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| like "Hi. It sure is quiet in here
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| | pick the type of clothes that you would
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| tonight." Or "Hi, I can't believe how
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| | want to wear with this woman on your
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| packed this place is." She was just
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| | first date - if you want to go to a
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| waiting for someone to talk to, and this
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| | movie, nice jeans and shirt would do, or
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| is all she'll need to be off and running.
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| | if you want to impress her with a nice
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| Let her lead and follow along! Maybe
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| | restaurant or the theater, be shopping
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| throw in a comment like, "What's a
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| | for this kind of outfit. Because a date
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| beautiful woman like you doing sitting
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| | is what you're really going to need the
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| here all alone?" Don't say that at first,
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| | clothes for, but she doesn't know it
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| because women hear cheesy lines like that
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| | yet!So you've complimented her taste in
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| all the time. But if you say it a few
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| | clothes - score brownie points! - and
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| minutes after conversation has started,
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| | you've asked her advice - score more
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| it erases any doubt from her mind as to
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| | points, because women love to give
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| whether you're hitting on her or you're
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| | advice! Women also love to shop, and now
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| just someone who's making idle
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| | they get to help you shop. That's an
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| conversation but not looking to meet.
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| | offer too good to refuse.So show her what
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| Give her the cheesy pick-up line that
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| | you've picked out, ask what she thinks of
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| includes a compliment - and women love
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| | the styles and colors. Maybe she'll go
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| compliments! - and she'll know what
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| | and pick some different things from a
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| you're after.At a bookstore, check out
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| | rack. Then say, "This is so great, would
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| the chicks over by the magazine racks. If
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| | you mind if I tried these on so you could
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| there's one who just keeps browsing
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| | tell me what you think?" Women love that,
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| titles, idly picking up a mag and
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| | too! Why do you think they go to stores
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| flipping through the pages, all the while
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| | in groups? They want to try on clothes
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| looking around to check out the other
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| | and they want to help their friends pick
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| people there - that's a gal just waiting
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| | stuff out, too. It's like 2-for-1
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| for someone to take notice of HER. Do it,
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| | shopping, a double fix!So once she
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| and you'll find a woman ready and willing
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| | settles on what you look best in, thank
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| to talk to you - and probably hoping
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| | her. "Thanks so much, I really appreciate
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| you'll ask for her number!Just go up to
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| | it. I mean it, you've really helped me a
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| her, tell her the magazine she's reading
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| | lot. Let me make it up to you. How about
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| looks interesting, or that you already
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| | dinner next week? Come on, you already
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| read that and there's a great article in
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| | know I've got something decent to
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| there, or (if it's a woman's magazine)
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| | wear."She'll be flattered and laughing at
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| that you've been tempted to read "Cosmo"
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| | your joke. And she'll be thrilled she
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| or whatever it is just to see what kind
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| | found a man who let her pick out his
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| of stuff those mags tell women. Ask her
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| | clothes! You're in, and you won't have
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| if she thinks men would find any useful
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| | the added stress of figuring out what to
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| information about women in there. She'll
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| | wear on the first date! This is a 2-for-1
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| be off and running with stories of how
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| | special for you, too!And one last thing,
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| silly the articles are, or how they might
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| | be ready with an explanation of why
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| be interesting to men. Talk a while, and
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| | you're using this particular Laundromat
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| then ask her to sit down for coffee to
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| | if it's not in your neighborhood, just in
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| chat more. Then ask for her number. She
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| | case she asks. Make sure you pick one
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| was looking to meet, so she'll be more
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| | that's not too far from home, and just
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| than willing to hand over those
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| | say the one in your neighborhood was full
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| digits!TIP 4
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| | and you didn't want to wait for a
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| Think you've got to be great looking to
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| | machine. Now grab some change, a pile of
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| get a woman's attention? Wrong! If you
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| | dirty clothes, and get ready to bag that
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| know what to say and do, you can have any
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| | babe!
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