| Popular imagery can make us all feel
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| | to reach orgasm, during intercourse or
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| inferior and inadequate when it comes to
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| | not. Whether or not a woman can come from
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| getting into bed and making love. Men
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| | vaginal thrusting alone may have more to
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| "should" be studs who thrust away for
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| | do with the mystery of the G-spot and the
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| hours until their lover collapses in a
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| | reality - or otherwise - of the vaginal
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| moaning exhausted heap, after of course
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| | orgasm.
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| she's had five mind-blowing orgasms in a
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| | The idea here is to offer ideas about
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| row. Women "should" be moaning goddesses
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| | some sex positions that can help a woman
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| who come as their man thrusts deep into
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| | reach orgasm during intercourse, one way
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| them while he holds them firmly and takes
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| | or another.
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| them to ecstasy. At least, that's what
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| | First then, is the good old man on top or
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| you might think if you get your ideas of
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| | missionary position. You'll have noticed,
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| lovemaking from most romantic movies.
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| | no doubt, that normally the penis doesn't
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| (If you get your ideas about sex from
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| | go anywhere near the clitoris during
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| porn films, then you might have an even
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| | intercourse. But the "normal" man on top
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| more unrealistic view of sex. Men with
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| | position can be modified so that there's
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| nine inch erections dispassionately using
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| | more clitoral stimulation, using what's
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| women for their own pleasure is
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| | called the Coital Alignment Technique.
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| definitely not normal.)
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| | After the man enters his partner, face to
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| The truth, of course, as many of us
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| | face, him on top, he shifts his body
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| suspect from our own experience of sex,
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| | higher up, so that his penis is entering
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| is that most men come quite quickly, and
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| | her vagina from a sharper angle. The base
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| many don't know how to control their
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| | of his penis will then be pressed against
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| ejaculation - or they've long since given
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| | the area of her clitoris. The thing is,
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| up trying to - while most women never
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| | he doesn't thrust. In fact, he pretty
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| come at all during vaginal intercourse.
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| | much lies on his partner with his body
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| That may be hard to believe; maybe you
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| | shifted up hers, and the couple rock
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| even think there's something wrong with
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| | their pelvises against each other until
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| you if you're a man who can't make love
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| | they both come.
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| for ages or you're a woman who can't come
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| | This can also be tried with the woman on
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| during intercourse, but the research
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| | top, which is likely to be more
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| confirms these things are normal.
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| | successful if the man is heavy.
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| One survey, by revealed that less than
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| | The next likely candidate for a
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| 20% of women (i.e. 1 woman in 5) always
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| | magnificent orgasm is the woman on top
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| expects to come during intercourse
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| | position. The reason this can be good for
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| without any additonal clitoral
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| | her is that she can move at the pace, and
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| stimulation. Other surveys have produced
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| | adjust the angle and depth of penetration
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| similar results: about 20 years ago,
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| | so that she gets the stimulation on her
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| Shere Hite's research showed that only
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| | clitoris and vagina most likely to bring
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| 26% of women were able to reach orgasm
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| | her to orgasm.
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| during intercourse without clitoral
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| | The same idea but with the woman facing
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| stimulation. Most of the rest never did,
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| | away from the man is a position called
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| and then only if they had a helping hand
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| | the "Reverse Cowgirl". You can work that
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| on their clitoris. And nothing seems to
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| | name out for yourselves, I'm sure!
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| have changed as time has gone by!
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| | There are another two positions to
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| However, maybe this is missing the point.
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| | consider if you're into orgasmic
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| Maybe we should be asking, "Does this
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| | intercourse. First off, if rear entry
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| matter?" I guess the answer depends on
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| | does it for you, there's ample
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| what each woman wants. If what she
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| | opportunity in this position for either
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| actually wants is to have sex last
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| | partner to play with her clitoris during
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| longer, for it to involve more touching,
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| | sex. Timing it so that she comes before
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| carressing, oral sex and intimacy before
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| | he does is crucial, and he may need to
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| penetration, and to have one or more
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| | slow down or stop thrusting during sex to
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| orgasms during this time, then the
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| | allow her to get near her orgasm. If you
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| solution lies in her man taking a
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| | time it right, you may even be able to
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| different approach to sex. If, however,
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| | reach your orgasms at the same time.
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| what she wants is to have an orgasm
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| | And finally, in this roll call of
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| during vaginal intercourse, then she
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| | positions for orgasm, is the side by
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| needs a sex position that is more likely
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| | side, facing each other position. It's
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| to deliver it - and a man who can last
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| | much more romantic than the rear entry
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| long enough to make sure it happens.
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| | position, which some women think is a bit
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| Hmm...now that begins to sound a bit more
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| | impersonal, and it allows for both
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| challenging.
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| | gentle, slow lovemaking and faster
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| So, here are some ideas that may help.
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| | thrusting. Either he or she can easily
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| I'm going to assume that most women need
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| | reach down and play with her clitoris,
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| a finger or hand on their clitoris, or
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| | keeping the pace right until it's time to
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| some other kind of clitoral stimulation,
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| | climax.
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