Advice of Marriage Breakups

I've been married for 12 years now. Most of thealright because you know what? I've kept my family
people I've known have already separated. Some oftogether. I've kept the lives of our daughters secured in
my married friends have already gotten back theira family with a mom and dad.
single status.It takes the life out of me but I enjoy the benefits of a
Is it easy? Hell no. I've been through a pin hole in myfamily. Sure I can just walk away. In fact I'm not even
marriage. I've experienced every type of pain thatsure if these kids are mine, but then I love the kids and
there is to be experienced in a married life. I'veI enjoy each and everyday of my life with them.
suffered from humiliation, depression, being rejected byYou see the secret to be together in a family is
my wife, etc. etc. etc.sacrifice. You'll have to sacrifice your life. Even if it
But why are we still together? Is it true love? Well fortakes the best out of you like it did me.
one thing I've noticed that true love flies out theThat is what it takes to keep a family. It is not for the
window in times of troubles and financial problems.weak hearted specially these days that it's easier to
Is my wife loyal to me? Well no. I've learned throughoutbreak up than stay together.
the years of some of her affairs, in fact not just oneNow, I can't say that you should do the same. I'm just
but several.telling you that it takes that much sacrifice to keep a
What keeps us together? To be honest, it's me. Callfamily. If you are not ready for that sacrifice then a
me clingy, needy, crawling or anything you want. It'sfamily is not for you.