| Some women have never really felt settled when | | | | change is possible. You may have followed some |
| they are in relationships. They always have deep | | | | "rules" in the past that got you some things BUT didn't |
| feelings of insecurity because all they have known is | | | | get you everything you want. |
| how to chase love down. | | | | Your boyfriend will never give you what you want until |
| If you are this kind of woman, you feel that you have | | | | you learn the secret to making him give you want you |
| to struggle. You often complain because you usually | | | | want. |
| don't get what you want and never really feel | | | | Next Valentine's Day, you'll probably sit in total |
| complete. | | | | disappointment again because you were expecting him |
| You may have had tons of relationships or boyfriends | | | | to pop the question. Remember what happened last |
| but there is a pattern that lingers and you're often left | | | | year. You may have wanted him to go with you on a |
| wondering why you don't feel completely happy. | | | | trip or have a special romantic evening because you |
| Maybe you've never really been vulnerable enough to | | | | were looking forward to him taking the relationship |
| share your deep feelings that your relationships never | | | | further. But you're still in a stalling pattern. |
| really feel that they are ok. This is because you don't | | | | The thing is, you're doing everything on the outside to |
| really feel secure in your relationships even when it | | | | make him commit to you. You don't realize that you |
| appears that you're having tons of fun. | | | | need an inner shift and that when you have this inner |
| This monkey on the back feeling is far from over if | | | | shift, he will also shift in the direction you are going. You |
| you don't know how to fix it. You may have thought | | | | are used to being ruled by externals so you look for |
| that once you got into a relationship that you'd feel fine | | | | what he's doing then you respond from that position. |
| only to realize that you end up with the short end of | | | | You are used to reacting to him instead of "acting" - |
| the stick. | | | | you don't know how to rule yourself from the inside. |
| Patterns don't lie. It's no use resenting other people | | | | You can claim that you've tried everything and it |
| who've developed good patterns in their relationships. If | | | | doesn't work but you are not being the kind of leader |
| you are secretly afraid that you're not getting what | | | | who will inspire him IF you complain that what you've |
| you want and your boyfriend isn't responding the way | | | | tried doesn't work. Sadly, there are many guys who |
| you want, I've got good news and bad news. | | | | leave one relationship only to go on quickly to another |
| Let's start with the bad news. If you've developed a | | | | relationship and the new woman can get the guy to |
| pattern of failure in your relationships or it just being | | | | do virtually anything. This is because she knows |
| good enough, you will not be successful if you don't | | | | something the old girlfriend doesn't know. |
| look at changing your inner game. | | | | The new girlfriend knows how to get what she wants |
| The good news is, you don't have to continue with | | | | and you can learn how to finally succeed if you are |
| feelings of exasperation. It's useless always feeling | | | | woman enough to want to change. |
| powerless that you can't get him to change. Because | | | | |