| Divorce is not longer a background issue for people | | | | be a miserable thing is you are not compatible and |
| getting married or who are married with the rates of | | | | compatibility without commitment leads to infidelity or a |
| splitting up skyrocketing due to many factors in our | | | | slide into a situation you feel like friends but not partner |
| changing culture and social structures. Instead it is | | | | and lovers. It is my belief that all the good things in a |
| something always there as a shadow in their thoughts | | | | marriage come from one concept and one word that |
| as they are bombarded with celebrities divorcing and | | | | can be greatly misunderstood: Love. |
| media statistics that sow doubt and fear but do make | | | | Now most people DO love their spouse but the |
| people think how can I save my marriage before it | | | | commitment to love and making it grow day by day |
| becomes too late as they know where the road of | | | | can be forgotten or taken for granted. This leads to |
| marital problems can lead for half of married couples. | | | | the real issues of happiness, contentment and passion |
| Another problem you may face trying to save your | | | | being obscured by petty issues that become a |
| marriage is the belief that you are the only one trying | | | | surrogate method of releasing frustration in a marriage. |
| and that no matter what you do it is being sabotaged | | | | Not that all arguments are about petty things but with |
| by your partner who does not put the effort in or | | | | an attitude of being in love even the difficult situations |
| seems to deliberately make things worse. The strain | | | | can be overcome together and this then becomes an |
| on your life, health, work and happiness because of | | | | issue very closely tied to love which is communication. |
| this can be devastating making the task harder and | | | | When you ask 'can I save my marriage' what you |
| harder and many people simply give up and go with | | | | really mean is can I communicate my love to my |
| the flow without thinking or trying anymore perhaps | | | | partner and solve the problems that inhibit a loving |
| also thinking it is a foregone conclusion; this is not | | | | relationship. This is all about methods of communication |
| always the case as you can save your marriage! | | | | which are skills that can be very difficult to develop but |
| When you look at the strongest happiest marriages | | | | when put in place can provide amazing results in |
| what is it you see? Commitment, compatibility, stability? | | | | defusing hostility, getting the core of a problem and |
| All these things and more may be true but none of | | | | then solving it which then solves the surface issues as |
| them can exist in a vacuum because commitment can | | | | well. |