| You know it's unfortunate that the subject of | | | | Most churches I know of have marriage ministries, |
| separation, and possible divorce has to come up in a | | | | they will definitely help you get back on track, and give |
| Christian marriage. Considering the fact that we | | | | you some wonderful Bible based marriage advice. |
| married Christians should be setting a great example | | | | Many churches now have marriage, and family |
| for everyone else. It is sad, but true, that the Heavenly | | | | counselors on staff. They will not just try and help you |
| Father has made provisions in the Bible for divorce. | | | | solve problems in your marriage but will help you make |
| The stipulation is for just cause. Which is immorality. | | | | your marriage strong in God. |
| The Word says that for any other reason we would | | | | It is really important that you do not hesitate to seek |
| be committing adultery. This suggests, that someone | | | | out assistance. The longer you wait, the harder it will |
| would have gone astray from Gods' will. If you are | | | | be to get back on one accord. This is no time to be in |
| Christians then it very well may be that you need to | | | | doubt, or denial. Take it to God first, then a good |
| get advice on marriage from fellow Christians. They | | | | Christian marriage counselor. You need to get things |
| will understand the dynamics of a Christian marriage, | | | | together. Another thing you may have a problem with, |
| and be better able to advise you. | | | | is getting your spouse to accept going to a counselor. |
| If you are going to have a good marriage as Christians | | | | Go anyway, and do your part. The Heavenly Father |
| you must be on one accord. I am not saying that we | | | | will bless you for it. |
| don't have disagreements, but we must disagree in | | | | Remember now, some real ugly things may come out, |
| love. Now, about what I said earlier, about one of you, | | | | but you know that the truth shall make you free. You |
| or both of you having backslid, that can mess your | | | | are there to get Godly marital advice. Don't be afraid, |
| relationship up. Other than that divorce should not be in | | | | and intimidated. He did not give us the spirit of fear. |
| your vocabulary. Whatever the reason, it is extremely | | | | Humble yourselves, and learn how you can get back in |
| important that you seek a counselor to help you save | | | | Gods' will in your marriage. It takes three on one |
| the marriage. | | | | accord to have a marriage, the way it was meant to |
| The advice that you may get from secular marriage | | | | be. The husband, wife, and God. One last thing, |
| counselors can be good, but get guidance from a | | | | domestic violence is a despicable act. The Heavenly |
| Christian counselor.That would be a better choice to | | | | Father did not say we were to beat each other up. |
| help keep from getting a divorce. | | | | Take that up with law enforcement, enough said. |