| One way to help save your marriage is to use | | | | irreconcilable differences. That is of course unless one |
| Christian Counseling. Although there are many | | | | of the partners is abusing the other one. If that’s |
| marriage counselors available to you, using a local | | | | the case, you don’t want to stay in an abusive |
| pastor can help you resolve you and your partner’s | | | | situation. Get out fast! If there’s no abuse, then |
| differences. | | | | there is nothing that the two of you can’t face |
| Why use a Christian counseling to help save your | | | | together and over come it—even infidelity. |
| marriage? First of all, you may find that they are less | | | | To help save your marriage, a good Christian |
| expensive. Usually, a local pastor may offer all the | | | | counselor will usually meet with you once a week for |
| advice you’ll need to mend your relationship, but he | | | | one-and-a-half hours: ½ hour with you, ½ hour with |
| could do it much more inexpensively. | | | | your partner, and then ½ hour with both of you. As |
| If both of you are willing to seek marriage counseling | | | | he listens to you, he will begin to formulate a plan to |
| most likely then, you can make your marriage work. | | | | help the both of you succeed. Both of you will have |
| However, both must be willing to make it work and | | | | differences, likes and dislikes that must be addressed |
| both must want the relationship to be healed. If both | | | | in order to put your relationship back together. |
| are willing, then a local pastor will be able to put your | | | | That’s right, both of you have found little things that |
| relationship back together. | | | | you don’t like in the other. It happens all the time |
| When looking for a local pastor to help your marriage, | | | | whenever two people spend lots of time together. |
| find one who is himself a good role model in the field | | | | More than likely he will try to get the two of you to find |
| of marriage. He should have been married only one | | | | one thing you like to do together. Then he will suggest |
| time. It would be a good thing if he has been married | | | | that you go do the one thing together. He’ll probably |
| for more than ten years to the same woman. By then | | | | ask you to plan a date night, and he’ll probably |
| he has learned how to work out differences in a | | | | suggest that you begin petting on the couch before |
| relationship, and he should be able to give you and | | | | you retire for the night. You know like you did when |
| your partner some good advice. | | | | you were younger and first met. |
| You know going in that a local pastor will use religious | | | | Help save your marriage by considering a Christian |
| doctrine to help save your marriage. You don’t | | | | marriage counselor. You can put your relationship back |
| necessarily have to accept the religious part, but you | | | | together. The pastor will offer suggestions whereby |
| must play along with him. However, he will give you | | | | each partner can improve the relationship. He’ll |
| excellent advice about putting your relationship back | | | | probably suggest that you read a book or two. It will |
| together. He might help save your marriage without | | | | work if you want it to, and you will save money and |
| you paying the $150 plus for a marriage counselor. | | | | not wreck your budget. |
| No marriage should be to the point where there are | | | | |