Free Play Versus Learning - Why Has This Become Such A Dilemma Today?

Today the question of free play versus learning hasdistracted by the constancy of their busy lifestyles and
become problematic because so many workinghave marked difficulty sitting still or applying themselves
parents are just so short of quality family time. Manyto anything for longer than a few minutes. This creates
parents feel they owe it to their children to be usinga constant cry of boredom which then creates an
this valuable time for their further education. Yearseven faster cycle of bewildering, often expensive,
back, the need to discuss the notion of play time forentertainment.
children just wasn't raised. Why?In hindsight, these years of child raising pass by more
Children just did it! They played.quickly than can ever be imagined. Many parents feel
Parents just expected it!that the time they have to spend with their children is
The order to Go outside and play, constantly rang inso short that they better use it facilitating their
children's ears.education rather than play time.
Without the busy pace of life that we seem toHowever, it is during free play time that children learn
assume is normal for today, children were often left toso much about themselves, about others, and the
their own devices. This provided numerousworld around them. They are learning about
opportunities to discover personal boundaries ofconcentration, self control, self image, self esteem,
physical skill, and also provided for lengthy periods ofexploration, mastery of new ideas, time and space,
concentrated, creative activity.peace and creativity - all while they play. They learn
Presently, there is a trend, nationwide, to focus evenhow to use imagination, how to apply imaginative play
more on the fundamentals of learning reading andto the world around them, how to master observed
math, requiring further lessons outside of school. It'sconcepts of everyday life through mimicry.
difficult for parents to resist trends which make themIn a free play environment, learning is usually
feel they are inadequate as parents for not providinganxiety-free for the child and mostly unobserved by
this. Working parents often find themselves providingadults. Play for a child, is about learning the importance
class after class for their children outside of schoolof who he is, rather than placing importance on what
hours, in the fervent hope that they are being 'good'he can do. Childhood lasts only a short time. Because
parents.of the constant pressure of expectations each day,
However, when opportunities for learning through freeplay is an important recovery time also.
play are replaced with even more school work,Play for children is giving them the downtime to repair
childhood becomes a constant 'working' environment,emotionally after a busy working day at school. Just
and opportunities for childrens' personal developmentas we cannot drive a car with out petrol, we cannot
are replaced by educational advancement.expect children to run on empty.
Sadly, many children become anxious and easily