Helping children deal with bullies

A new computer program may give children theIn the game, children are asked to come up with
confidence they need to stand up to bullies at schooldifferent strategies for dealing with a bully. The virtual
by allowing them to try out different strategies in acharacters will remember the suggestions that don't
virtual world.work and ask for better ideas. The research team
The project, which was funded by the European Union,tested the program on 1,000 school children in 30
began in 2006 and was titled eCIRCUS (Educationschools across Germany and the UK and said the
through Characters with emotional-Intelligence andresults were encouraging, "even at this low exposure."
Role-playing Capabilities that Understand SocialThough the game isn't currently available for
interaction).consumers, the idea of role-playing certain situations
The team, made up of educators, psychologists and ITwith bullies can be a helpful one for fathers who are
specialists, set out to create an interactive setting fortrying to help their children overcome a bullying problem
children to try out what they called "emotionallyat school.
compelling interventions."Fathers should use their parenting skills to talk to their
One of the programs that has emerged from theson or daughter about what's going on at school and
project is FearNot! (Fun with Empathic Agents tohow they've reacted to the bully. 
Achieve Novel Outcomes in Teaching) and focuses onOne idea is to take a cue from the FearNot! program
younger school children who are victims of bullying.and role play certain situations, allowing the child to
"Knowledge-based interventions don't necessarilypractice certain strategies with their bully. This may
succeed," says Ruth Aylett, coordinator of the project.also help build the child's confidence and could help
"If we're able to reduce victimization, we're givingthem say exactly what they want to when they are
people a way to get out of a very painful situation andconfronted in the future.
improve the quality of their lives."