| Suffering through a break up is almost always the | | | | These are the things you need to be focused on now |
| hardest thing you will do. This is especially true if you | | | | if you want to get over him and get on with your life. |
| still love your ex boyfriend. If he tells you that he | | | | What many women find helpful is to make a list of the |
| doesn’t love you anymore and he wants the | | | | qualities about your ex that you don’t like. You can |
| relationship to be over, it can literally feel as though | | | | do this on your computer or in a notepad and make it |
| your heart is breaking. Trying to move forward without | | | | easily accessible so you can add to it as needed. |
| him is not an easy thing to do. You need to though. | | | | After a break up it’s very easy to only focus on |
| Learning how to deal with being dumped by your | | | | the things about him that you miss, those are the |
| boyfriend is essential if you want to start living your life | | | | positive things. You may lose sight of the qualities that |
| again, feeling happy and hopeful. | | | | you didn’t find attractive. If you think about those |
| Knowing how to deal with being dumped by your | | | | things you’ll find it much easier to emotionally |
| boyfriend includes recognizing the fact that he was not | | | | detach from him and move on with your life in a |
| perfect. As much as you loved him there were likely | | | | positive way. |
| things about him that you just didn’t find appealing. | | | | |