| Do you think it is really possible for one spouse to | | | | do the opposite of that and start looking and behaving |
| save a failing marriage? Many people will tell you that it | | | | like the person you were when you first got married. |
| absolutely has to be both parties who are trying to | | | | Change back into the person your spouse fell totally in |
| save their marriage. These same people will also tell | | | | love with. It is understandable and natural to be |
| you that if you are the only one interested in saving it, | | | | depressed when your marriage is failing. However, you |
| then you should get over it and move on. However, if | | | | should not expect that your spouse would want to |
| something inside is telling you that there is more left in | | | | stay with a depressed partner, so you must try to |
| your marriage, then you at least owe it to yourself and | | | | keep your spirits up. |
| your spouse to at least try to retrieve it. I was in that | | | | In your mind, is it possible for one spouse to save a |
| crossroads type of situation before and ended up | | | | marriage without putting extra effort and love into it? |
| saving the marriage myself even though my spouse | | | | Definitely not! And when you are trying to save your |
| definitely wanted a divorce. | | | | marriage on your own, you better put in all the hard |
| For anyone who wants to know how to | | | | work yourself, or at least until your spouse comes to |
| single-handedly save a marriage with a spouse who | | | | his or her senses. |
| no longer has interest in trying, there are some very | | | | You basically just have to be ready to give much |
| useful and effective strategies that you can use. But, | | | | more than you will be receiving. If your spouse decides |
| when you are trying to save your marriage you need | | | | that they want a divorce, then it is up to you to make |
| to make up your mind to start focusing on yourself. | | | | extra efforts to change their mind. This is exactly what |
| At all costs, try to be the best person you can be for | | | | it takes to save a marriage on your own. You |
| both yours spouse and yourself. Too often when | | | | absolutely need to put in endless effort to make your |
| people are in a bad marriage, they get depressed and | | | | marriage and yourself much better. |
| start to neglect how they look and feel. You need to | | | | |