| The more eye contact you establish with the target | | | | balled in tight fists are all bad signs. Finger tapping, |
| the better. Start with some sidelong glances. Then, | | | | drumming, pointing or wagging are also signals to move |
| begin with direct eye contact. Once he turns to meet | | | | on. |
| your gaze, immediately lower your eyes and smile to | | | | Stand Out |
| yourself. This will tell him that you were watching him | | | | Your posture is one of the most telling signals you |
| and are embarrassed that he caught you -- a sure | | | | transmit. An open posture is evidence of an open |
| sign of interest. Next, be bold and try holding his stare | | | | person. Turning your body toward the man you're |
| and flash a smile. | | | | conversing with, keeping your feet flat on the floor and |
| If there is a man that is giving you the eye and you are | | | | leaning forward are actions that show interest. Also, |
| not interested, look away from him and don't look back | | | | slightly tilting your head, crossing and uncrossing your |
| at him again. While having a conversation, looking at | | | | legs and thrusting your chest forward give the |
| the ceiling and around the room also shows a definite | | | | message that you are interested. |
| lack of interest. | | | | Crossing your arms, holding a drink high in front of you, |
| First Impressions Count | | | | turning your body away or resting your feet on their |
| You leave your home ready to go to a party when | | | | toes will tell a person you are not interested. |
| you spot your gorgeous neighbor and he doesn't give | | | | A Few Extra Tips |
| you a second glance. Why? Because you aren't | | | | Hopefully by now you have an attack plan for when |
| dressed your best. When you enter a room, most | | | | it's time to get down and dirty, or when it's best just to |
| people look to see who has come in. This is when you | | | | wave the white flag. Here are just a few more tips |
| have to make an impression. Looking your best will | | | | when trying to perfect your body language skills: |
| make you feel your best. So make sure that before | | | | - You'll know things are going really well when you |
| you leave your front door, look your best. You never | | | | begin "mirroring" one another's body language and |
| know. You just might just attract the attention of that | | | | gestures. |
| gorgeous neighbor. | | | | - Don't tease him by offering more than you plan to |
| The Hand Job (no, not what you are thinking!) | | | | follow through with. This can lead to very ugly |
| Even without direct contact, your hands can send very | | | | circumstances. |
| powerful messages. There are a number of ways to | | | | - Chain smoking, being extremely intoxicated, or having |
| convey that you want to get to know someone. | | | | eyes only for your plate of food will not put you in the |
| Keeping your hands unclenched shows you're open to | | | | best standingfor the body language game. |
| him. Using your hands to caress objects, such as the | | | | - If you try your hand at it, and he's not responding, |
| rim of your glass, locks of your hair, or the sleeve of | | | | abort the mission immediately. |
| your blouse in a rhythmic (as opposed to fidgety) | | | | - Following him around all night will only serve in making |
| manner, can be a sensual act. And for the brave, try | | | | you look needy and desperate. |
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| Hands jammed in pockets, cleaning eyeglasses or | | | | |