Is Love Important in Marriage?

Have you ever fallen in love? Do you wish that theyour marriage into the better. It is not that everything
person you are with right now is the same personwill always be easy and simple. There will be times
who will share the rest of your life with? Is there athat those good feeling is just around the corner and
reason a person to be in love?sometimes they are left unrecognized. However, your
Everybody wants to love and be loved in return. Fallingcontinuous commitment to love as you have promised
in love is one of the best feelings ever to feel by anwill make sure that the feeling will come up always.
individual. When in love, a person has all the reasons toLove must be a commitment. Most marriages failed
smile and be happy.because one of the couple falls in love to someone
But sometime love is misunderstood. Most people thinkelse. This is because of what people call the "feelings"
that love is merely an emotion. That it is something thatand lust. The feelings will always change.
you feel. Yes love gives you an emotion but you canMaking a comparison between your spouse and the
not feel it. In marriage, it something that fades whenother person is not right. It actually leads your attention
time passes by.out of your partner. Once this happen, it would be very
Love is how you decide to act and treat someone oneasy to look for third party and destroy your marriage
a particular way. It is more on the actions you intend torelationship. It will be easier for you to set aside your
show than you feel. Love is the promise and the vowcommitment and your promise to your marriage.
you and your partner had made on your wedding. It isTherefore it is necessary to keep love in mind always.
a pledge, a security.Do not forget the commitment you have for your
This is the reason why you promised to love andpartner. This is important since you two can help each
cherish each for all eternity. You both did not promiseother face difficult trials and solve problems the natural
to feel a certain way. Instead, the promise and theway.
vow was made and sealed for better or for worst.It is actually your decision to love your partner that will
.... Is love really important in marriage?help you get through. When you and your partner
Definitely it is important! It is because feelings usuallyremember the promise of love and be together
rise and fall, come and go. There may be times thatthrough thick and thin then, the marriage is secure.
you are upset or you have hurt the person you love.Without the commitment, the marriage will be weak to
Instances like this may happen, but it does not meanendure the problems that are unavoidably to come.
you have to give up easily. Actually, this is the bestLastly, keep in mind, love is not merely a feeling. It is a
time that love calls for your attention.decision to make and to perform a certain way with
Because you love your partner, chances are you willthe person you choose marry and be with forever.
learn to forgive, mend, encourage, cherish and improve