| Marriage advice for men is too commonly given as | | | | When you are feeling upset or sad, don't be afraid to |
| advice for both men and women at the same time. | | | | talk to your wife. She may me wondering why the |
| Men and women think very differently, so why is | | | | problems aren't troubling you - your actions may very |
| advice given NOT differently for men than it is for | | | | well be showing her that you don't care about the |
| women? | | | | marriage. I know this isn't how you FEEL, but it is what |
| The decision to start or end marriage is an easy one. | | | | she is seeing. While it may be difficult to show her, you |
| The decision to SAVE a marriage is difficult. Making | | | | absolutely must open up to her. Just between the two |
| that decision means that you are ready to work hard, | | | | of you. Let her know what you are feeling. Let her |
| and invest alot of time into. Although my opinion may | | | | know how very much she really means to you. If you |
| be different than yours, I think that your marriage IS | | | | can't tell her, then you are definitely going to have to |
| worth saving. And I think that you do feel the same | | | | work within yourself to find the strength. You DO have |
| way, or else you wouldn't be taking the time to read | | | | it in you! |
| this right now. So, let's get down to business, and get | | | | More than being told, women need to be SHOWN that |
| your marriage back on the right track! | | | | they are loved, and appreciated. But how are you |
| A marriage is a very special thing. It is a partnership of | | | | supposed to do that? Actually, it's quite simple. Start |
| two different lives, joined as one. This means that, | | | | small. Do something that you know needs done around |
| although you are two different people, you should try | | | | the house. A simple thing like taking the garbage out |
| to live as one - you should be one the same | | | | will show your wife that you know she works hard, |
| wavelength, so to speak. | | | | and you want to try to help her. |
| Today's marriages are faced with some very difficult | | | | When she does the dishes, don't say anything - just go |
| situations. Money struggles and affairs are at the top | | | | and help her. Dry them and put them away for her. By |
| of the list for reasons of divorce. Even if you are | | | | doing this, you are showing her - not telling her - that |
| faced with these problems, you CAN save your | | | | you really love her. While these things may not seem |
| marriage! | | | | important to a man, they are extremely important to a |
| Men were raised to hide their emotions, and women | | | | woman. When a marriage is in trouble, words seldom |
| were raised to show them. Society somehow made | | | | get heard. Actions will show her that she means the |
| this a rule. You do NOT have to hide your emotions - | | | | world to you, and that you are willing to do whatever it |
| in fact, by doing so, you may very well be hurting your | | | | takes to keep her in your life. |
| marriage! | | | | |