| As wives we sometimes allow our tongues to destroy | | | | affairs which in many cases also lead to physical |
| our marriages. We say things that come to our | | | | affairs. |
| mouths and could not care less if our husbands are | | | | Another way of pushing away your husband is by |
| offended. However, what many wives fail to realize is | | | | nagging him. Some wives have mastered the art of |
| that words can sometimes cut deeper and hurt more | | | | nagging in order to get their own way. But although |
| severely than any weapon that causes a physical | | | | they get their own way today, this is causing |
| wound. | | | | resentment on their husbands' part and eventually this |
| Maybe your tongue is destroying your marriage and | | | | can lead to a lack of love, affection and intimacy. |
| you are not even aware of it. You blame everything | | | | Using Your Tongue to Heal Your Marriage |
| and everyone else while you need to pay attention to | | | | In order to heal your marriage you may need to bite |
| what you say and how you say it. The remainder of | | | | your tongue at times. Biting your tongue means to take |
| this article will look at two ways your tongue can | | | | control of it, being careful of what you say. However, |
| destroy your marriage and how to use it to save your | | | | for some wives who have no self control, you may |
| marriage. | | | | need to literally bite it in order to stop you from talking |
| Using Your Tongue as a Weapon | | | | without thinking. |
| Compared to most men, women seem to have the | | | | Let us now look at some positive ways to use your |
| gift of converting words to weapons. We know | | | | tongue to heal your marriage, especially if you have |
| exactly what to say to pierce our husbands and | | | | been using it as a weapon or to push away your |
| cause them to feel hurt or guilty about something they | | | | husband. |
| did or said. However, in the same way that a weapon | | | | - Use it to show your husband much love and |
| can kill, your words can also kill your marriage. | | | | affection |
| - Do you deliberately use disrespectful words to your | | | | - Use it to encourage and build him up |
| husband? | | | | - Use it to cultivate passion and romance in your |
| - Do you put him down in front of your girlfriends? | | | | marriage |
| - Do you use curse words when having an argument? | | | | - Use it to keep your husband faithful |
| - Do you use words to get him to shut up so that you | | | | - Use it to have a peaceful marriage |
| can have your own way? | | | | - Use it to be an accommodating and respectful wife |
| Proverbs chapter twenty one and verse nineteen tells | | | | |
| us that, "better to live in a dessert than with a | | | | Conclusion |
| quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife". I think this passage | | | | Never underestimate the power of your tongue and |
| is so true for many husbands. They would prefer to | | | | ensure that your husband sees it as a loving tool and |
| be uncomfortable somewhere else than to be around | | | | not a destructive weapon. Watching what you say is |
| you. | | | | one of the fastest ways to save your marriage and |
| Take some time to analyze your marriage to ensure | | | | encourage your husband to be more communicative |
| that this is not happening in your marriage. | | | | and loving. |
| Using Your Tongue to Push Away Your Husband | | | | Do you want to learn more about being a great wife? |
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| uncommunicative because they are afraid of what will | | | | When you go there, do not forget to get your |
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| So instead of talking to them about issues that | | | | Life is too short to spend it wishing you had a happy |
| concern them, they find other women. | | | | and steaming hot marriage when you can do |
| Sadly but true these relationships can lead to emotional | | | | something about it. |