| Life is good or so it seemed, until you wake one day | | | | they are trying to convey your failure to meet their |
| to discover that your relationship has been nuked! Like | | | | emotional needs. Now, let me make something crystal |
| most, you were completely blindsided by the shock | | | | clear; this is not about who's right or wrong. If you want |
| and emotional paralysis of having your partner say the | | | | to debate that point, then you may as well sign the |
| following: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you | | | | divorce settlement agreement or waive goodbye as |
| anymore!" Most women would agree that this is not | | | | your partner walks out the door! |
| only a devastating statement, but it's also one of the | | | | If you want to save your relationship, you must |
| most bewildering! What exactly can you extrapolate | | | | uncover the emotional needs that have gone unmet. |
| from such a confusing statement? Does he love me | | | | More often than not, fears, insecurities, and low |
| or doesn't he? Why would he say such a thing when I | | | | self-esteem are at the root of these issues. Think |
| thought our relationship was fine? What does this | | | | about it for a moment! Has your behavior exhibited |
| mean? Is our relationship over? | | | | patterns of jealousy, lack of trust, fear of |
| First, let me give you a bit of good news; your | | | | abandonment, or low self-confidence? Plain and simple, |
| relationship isn't over! However, taking the right course | | | | you can't force your partner to fall in love you again, |
| of action to save it is crucial to a positive outcome. | | | | but you can entice him to by correcting the negative |
| One of the worst things you can do when faced with | | | | patterns responsible for the crisis and by employing the |
| such a crisis is to let your negative emotions drive your | | | | power of attraction. Change your side of the |
| actions! So, step back and take a deep breath before | | | | relationship, and I guarantee your partner will fall |
| you do anything that will exacerbate the crisis. | | | | hopelessly in love with you all over again! |
| OK, now that you are thinking more clearly lets talk | | | | Best wishes, |
| about the underpinning reason behind your partner's | | | | The Relationship Rehab Coach |
| statement. Generally speaking, when someone drops | | | | For more information on how to save your relationship |
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