| Think about the title of this article for just a moment | | | | For instance, if you are used to living by your feelings |
| and how corny it sounds. I don't love you anymore. | | | | and doing whatever you want then that is the lifestyle |
| Actually when a spouse says, "I don't love you | | | | you have made for yourself. If you are used to |
| anymore" it means they don't want to love you | | | | showing love by sharing yourself and working at being |
| anymore. Selfishness has taken precedent in this | | | | a loving person in your marriage then you have made |
| person's life and they are simply tired of doing things | | | | that your lifestyle. Your commitment level shows in |
| that show love, such as sacrifice, respect and | | | | your lifestyle; it shows in what you do for your |
| responsibility. Because all three of these are what love | | | | marriage. |
| is! | | | | The "I don't love you anymore" attitude is based upon |
| There is so much of the "I don't love you anymore" | | | | feelings only, and that's all. The person who says they |
| between couples in marriage that marriage gurus have | | | | "don't love anymore" may actually believe it because |
| to come up with more and more articles and books on | | | | they have been taught that love is a feeling. When you |
| "how to win your ex back" and "how to make your ex | | | | first think you are "in love" with someone, that is only a |
| fall back in love with you". What kind of love are these | | | | mixture of desire and lust. That's all it is. This is why |
| articles referring to? You can't just "fall out of love" | | | | two or three years later when these feelings are gone, |
| with your spouse or significant other if you weren't | | | | you believe you aren't "in love" anymore. |
| really loving them in the first place. | | | | If you want to save your marriage you have to "be |
| You shouldn't have to try and win your ex spouse | | | | committed"! You have to "show your love" through |
| back if he or she belongs to you. Didn't God bless you | | | | your commitment. It doesn't matter how you feel about |
| with the person you are married to? Of course He did. | | | | each other as much as what you are going to do to |
| Couples should be reading articles on how to bring | | | | stay married. You can live an uncommitted lifestyle for |
| God into their marriage so they may learn how to love | | | | your marriage or you can take responsibility for "your |
| one another with real love. What is real love? When | | | | part in the marriage" and be happy with what God has |
| you sacrifice a part of your self for your spouse that | | | | blessed you with. It's all up to you. You make your own |
| is love. When you try to understand your spouse that | | | | happiness! |
| is love. When you do things that show love, even | | | | Remember, love is not how your feel, but what you |
| when you don't feel like it that is love. | | | | do. Have you shown your love to your spouse today? |
| So you see, when all is said and done, it won't matter | | | | Love is a choice. You choose to love or not to love. |
| what worldly tactics you use to try and "be loved" or | | | | You choose to take responsibility for your marriage, or |
| "win back love" or "love others" unless you are | | | | not. You choose to sacrifice your happiness for the |
| committed to the relationship. Marriage commitment is | | | | sake of your spouse, or not. You choose to love |
| a lifestyle and marriage non-commitment is a lifestyle. | | | | because it is what Jesus Christ has taught us to do. |