| Deep inside every man is the desire to love, care for | | | | passions or interests. Keeping her isolated will destroy |
| and protect his woman. But between this healthy | | | | the spark inside and cause resentment. |
| desire and reality of many marriages, there is often a | | | | - Expect them to do everything in the house. In the |
| giant canyon of frustration. That is why the best | | | | past, when families were large and people lived on the |
| relationship advice for men is to stop beating your | | | | farm, it made perfect sense for the woman to keep |
| wife! Not literally, unless you are one of the miserable | | | | house while the man toiled in the fields. But these days |
| men who actually physically abuses your wife. | | | | most wives work outside the home and it is only fair |
| What does it mean to beat your wife, if not literally? It | | | | to work together doing housework, laundry, meals, etc. |
| means that you hurt her in other ways, mostly | | | | It can be highly demeaning to demand that she do |
| because you just don't know any better. Most of us | | | | everything simply because she is female. |
| did not grow up observing a very good example of | | | | - Mismanage the finances. Men often feel privileged |
| how a husband should cherish and honor his wife. We | | | | when it comes to buying big toys, like guns, boats, |
| see the results all around us: relationship problems, | | | | trucks, tools and so on. This can sometimes lead to |
| abusive relationships, etc. Our fathers probably didn't | | | | overspending and bring a lot of stress into the |
| offer much relationship advice for men either! | | | | relationship. Men usually want to lead the family, so |
| Many men have little understanding of what a woman | | | | lead responsibly. Most women will gladly follow, if only |
| wants and needs, and so they bumble along, making | | | | you learn to lead in a good way! |
| occasional attempts at romance and kindness. Usually | | | | - Neglect romance. This is more than token flowers or |
| this leads to relationship problems. The sad thing is that | | | | a nice card. Take some time to learn the art of |
| marriage can be so much more fulfilling and happy, if | | | | romance. You will be very, very glad you did. She will |
| only we knew what to do! Here are some ways men | | | | naturally respond to your interest and affection, much |
| mistreat their wives | | | | to your delight. This does not need to be expensive or |
| - Are unable to open up and communicate from the | | | | fancy, be creative and make her feel special. There is |
| heart. This leaves their wives guessing at what the | | | | a lot of good romance advice available. |
| man is really thinking and feeling. She needs this | | | | - Somebody once said that A man looks to satisfy his |
| connection, and she will find it someplace else if you | | | | one need with every woman, and a woman looks to |
| cannot meet this need. It is good marriage advice is to | | | | satisfy her every need with one man. Learn to be that |
| open up! | | | | man and satisfy her needs. The book below is a very |
| - Take them for granted. Ask any single dad or | | | | good source of relationship advice for men. It really |
| widower about this one. All the things that she does | | | | works. Learning the art of loving your wife will give you |
| and is can be unappreciated. A sincere compliment | | | | the deep satisfaction and security you long for. |
| and thank you goes a long way, especially if they are | | | | Everyone knows that marriage should be fulfilling and |
| frequent and genuine. | | | | happy, but so few men actually take an active interest |
| - Do not give them space to grow and develop. | | | | in learning how. If you find yourself asking How do I |
| People change over time. Some men are so insecure | | | | save my marriage you should find some real help here. |
| that they will not allow their woman to pursue her | | | | |