| Deep inside every man is the desire to love, care for | | | | when families were large and people lived on the farm, |
| and protect his woman. But between this healthy | | | | it made perfect sense for the woman to keep house |
| desire and reality of many marriages, there is often a | | | | while the man toiled in the fields. But these days most |
| giant canyon of frustration. That is why the best | | | | wives work outside the home and it is only fair to |
| relationship advice for men is to stop beating your | | | | work together doing housework, laundry, meals, etc. It |
| wife! Not literally, unless you are one of the miserable | | | | can be highly demeaning to demand that she do |
| men who actually physically abuse your wife. | | | | everything simply because she is female. |
| What does it mean to beat your wife, if not literally? It | | | | Mismanage the finances. Men often feel privileged |
| means that you hurt her in other ways, mostly | | | | when it comes to buying big toys, like guns, boats, |
| because you just don't know any better. Most of us | | | | trucks, tools and so on. This can sometimes lead to |
| did not grow up observing a very good example of | | | | overspending and bring a lot of stress into the |
| how a husband should cherish and honor his wife. | | | | relationship. Men usually want to lead the family, so |
| Many men have little understanding of what a woman | | | | lead responsibly. Most women will gladly follow, if only |
| wants and needs, and so they bumble along, making | | | | you learn to lead in a good way! |
| occasional attempts at romance and kindness. Usually | | | | Neglect romance. This is more than token flowers or a |
| this leads to relationship problems. The sad thing is that | | | | nice card. Take some time to learn the art of romance. |
| marriage can be so much more fulfilling and happy, if | | | | You will be very, very glad you did. She will naturally |
| only we knew what to do! | | | | respond to your interest and affection, much to your |
| Here are some ways men mistreat their wives | | | | delight. This does not need to be expensive or fancy, |
| Are unable to open up and communicate from the | | | | be creative and make her feel special. There is a lot of |
| heart. This leaves their wives guessing at what the | | | | good romance advice available. |
| man is really thinking and feeling. She needs this | | | | Somebody once said that A man looks to satisfy his |
| connection, and she will find it someplace else if you | | | | one need with every woman, and a woman looks to |
| cannot meet this need. It is good marriage advice is to | | | | satisfy her every need with one man. Learn to be that |
| open up! | | | | man and satisfy her needs. |
| Take them for granted. Ask any single dad or | | | | Learning the art of loving your wife will give you the |
| widower about this one. All the things that she does | | | | deep satisfaction and security you long for. Everyone |
| and is can be unappreciated. A sincere compliment | | | | knows that marriage should be fulfilling and happy, but |
| and thank you goes a long way, especially if they are | | | | so few men actually take an active interest in learning |
| frequent and genuine. | | | | how. We are a group of parents and professionals |
| Do not give them space to grow and develop. People | | | | who are passionate about helping families manage the |
| change over time. Some men are so insecure that | | | | stress of modern life. Check out our site: |
| they will not allow their woman to pursue her passions | | | | We offer advice and resources on some of the more |
| or interests. Keeping her isolated will destroy the spark | | | | difficult aspects of raising a family. Stress at work, |
| inside and cause resentment. | | | | how to get pregnant, parenting advice for single |
| Expect them to do everything in the house. In the past, | | | | fathers and single mothers are some of our topics. |