| A lot of marriage failed because couples do not take | | | | come to a mutual agreement on how you can divide |
| responsibility for the role that they play in a relationship. | | | | out the burden of financial responsibility. |
| Very often, blaming the other instead of oneself | | | | 2. Never go to bed angry |
| become the favourite pastime of couples and when | | | | I strongly believe that this is very sound advice to |
| there are conflicts, they choose the most convenient | | | | building a lasting relationship because you and your |
| mean - walking away instead of trying to save the | | | | spouse are two very different individuals so there are |
| marriage! | | | | bound to be conflicts. The important point is that you |
| Apparently these couples have short term memories | | | | must find ways to resolve those conflicts. By all |
| because they are the same individuals who have | | | | means take time off to cool down but after a storm, |
| vowed to support and to love each other through thick | | | | both of you have to sit down and discuss the issue |
| and thin! However, divorce has now become an easy | | | | together. You have to listen to each other and find a |
| way out for people who do not have the courage to | | | | solution or come to a compromise but never leave the |
| salvage what deserves to be salvaged. When couples | | | | fight overnight. |
| go through a divorce, they channel all their energies into | | | | It is very unhealthy to go to bed angry and you will only |
| accusing each other of causing hurt and disharmony in | | | | cause a drift in the relationship if you do not try to |
| the marriage. They forget that in the process, their | | | | resolve your problem first. After which, you should |
| children are the ones most deeply hurt! If they have | | | | forget about the fight and make up for it in bed. It is |
| channeled their energies to save the marriage, more | | | | vital to forget about the problem after the fight had |
| than one human being is saved! | | | | been resolved if you want to save your marriage. |
| So is it possible to save your marriage? Yes, if you | | | | 3. Plan time for romance |
| had loved each other in the first place, you will | | | | Many married couples forget to plan a time for |
| definitely be able to rekindle the love and here are 3 | | | | romance, especially if they have children. In order for a |
| ways in which you can save your marriage. | | | | marriage to last long, it is important not to forget to |
| 1. Share financial responsibilities | | | | spend time to be intimate. Marriage is not the end of |
| Many married couples forget that it takes two hands | | | | romance, it is the start of a whole new life together. If |
| to clap so now that they are married, both party | | | | you sense that something is not right in your |
| should be responsible for the family financially. Being | | | | relationship, you need to make time for each other so |
| married means you are united as one so you should | | | | that you can save your marriage. |
| shoulder the burden of raising a family together. | | | | People are constantly busy nowadays so if you do |
| Find out each others' spending style and come to a | | | | not find time for your spouse so as to rekindle the love |
| compromise on how best you can save and at the | | | | in your relationship, it will hit trouble. It is definitely not |
| same time not have to sting on yourself. Spend some | | | | worthwhile to spend all your time carving out a career |
| time to prioritize what is important to you and to your | | | | for your family only to discover that you have lost |
| family, especially if you have children. You need to | | | | your marriage in the end! |