| No marriage can ever be an easy thing to maintain. It | | | | marriage! |
| doesn't matter how much you loved each other, and | | | | When you two have separated, the very wise saying |
| how committed you both were to the marriage when | | | | of "the grass is always greener on your neighbour's |
| it started - sooner or later, you are going to meet a | | | | side" comes into full force! Right now, your spouse has |
| challenge that will test how strong your marriage is. | | | | some sort of idea of how alone life will be after you |
| And when you seem to fail that test, you will think that | | | | two have separated. But when it actually happens, it is |
| your spouse doesn't love you anymore; and you will | | | | no way going to be like he or she dreamed. This will |
| consider divorce - after all, if your spouse doesn't love | | | | make a scenario in which your spouse is invariably |
| you anymore, can the marriage really continue? The | | | | going to miss you, which is exactly what you want |
| answer is not obvious. You can make your spouse | | | | right now. Also, some alone time will both give you |
| love you again and rebuild everything, this time to stand | | | | very important space and time to think. You need your |
| forever. Read the following! | | | | spouse to think things through when your spouse |
| The first step to rebuilding the marriage is to | | | | doesn't love you anymore, because he or she can't do |
| acknowledge that the relationship has changed and is | | | | this when you're both in the middle of all the fights and |
| not the way it used to be. I am saying this because | | | | quarrels. This is a golden opportunity to save your |
| when your spouse doesn't love you anymore, you | | | | marriage. |
| might be tempted to argue with him or her about this | | | | Even if both spouses love each other sincerely, at |
| and try to "prove" to your spouse that you two are still | | | | times they might find themselves getting more and |
| going as good as the first day. This is not how you | | | | more distant from each other and getting close to a |
| solve marriage problems. You have to acknowledge | | | | divorce. But like me, you too can take some steps into |
| the issue. And if your spouse talks about a trial | | | | saving your marriage and turning it into a satisfying |
| separation, don't panic - this is actually a very beneficial | | | | relationship. |
| thing that will be the very thing that has repaired your | | | | |