| Are you unhappily married, and feel like your marriage | | | | your marriage. |
| is headed to the point of no return. | | | | 2) Get to Know Your Spouse... Too many marriages |
| If you've been thinking a lot about divorce because of | | | | these days just fade away, and the big problem is that |
| this then it's important that you read ever word of this | | | | the two spouses who went in front of all of their |
| article. | | | | friends and family, and God if you're religious, and |
| This is marriage advice that you can't pass up if you | | | | vowed to love each other forever. |
| want to save your marriage... | | | | And then it's not long until the two people basically |
| 3 Steps to Go From Unhappily Married to Happily Ever | | | | become roommates. Your spouse should be your best |
| After...Even if Your Marriage is a Mess... | | | | friend and not just your spouse. There's a good |
| I've seen too many marriages end abruptly when they | | | | chance that your spouse isn't even your friend, so it's |
| could have been saved with just a little bit of work. | | | | time to start dealing with that because it is a major |
| Unless you're in a Sandra Bullock or Tiger Woods | | | | problem. |
| situation, then your marriage is likely salvageable, and | | | | 3) Realize Now, and Forever That You Will Never |
| more easily than you think. | | | | Change Your Spouse... Some people get married |
| Just as well, if need be, it's likely that you can save | | | | thinking that they're signing up for a life long project of |
| your marriage even if your spouse isn't really into | | | | changing their spouse. The fact is that this is a fruitless |
| saving it. I was able to save my marriage despite the | | | | project and one that you won't achieve. |
| fact that my wife had no care to put effort into saving | | | | And even if you did achieve that then what good |
| it. I can't blame her, it was pretty awful for a while. | | | | have you done. You didn't marry this person for the |
| But so you don't have to go through what I had to go | | | | person that you want them to become, you married |
| through here are... | | | | them for the person that they are. |
| 3 Steps to Getting Out of the Unhappily Married | | | | Instead of trying to change your spouse, you're better |
| Category... | | | | off taking that time to embrace their differences and |
| 1) Stop Thinking About Divorce... Nothing is more | | | | unique traits. And if you really need a project for |
| troublesome than when I hear people constantly talking | | | | change then you should start with yourself. Surely |
| and thinking about divorce. Why in the world did you | | | | there are some things that you could be working on |
| even get married. | | | | for the YOU project that will get you much further in |
| One of the greatest pieces of marriage advice that I | | | | life. People often don't like that marriage advice but the |
| can give is to take divorce off the table completely. As | | | | ones who realize the truth are the ones who usually |
| long as you have that resting in your mind as an option, | | | | turn their marriages around for the better. |
| you're brain won't start thinking of new ways to repair | | | | |