| Are you in a marriage where you're second guessing | | | | person that can change your spouse is your spouse. |
| whether or not your vows meant anything? | | | | So the best marriage advice I could give you right now |
| The reason you're wondering right now is likely | | | | is to stop trying to change your spouse. |
| because your marriage is falling on some tough times | | | | Instead you need to realize that you're not innocent in |
| and you're thinking that the 'til death do us part' might | | | | your marriage problems. No matter what you might |
| be a lot longer than you thought. | | | | think now, and no matter how much it seems as |
| If this is you, and you're marriage is in turmoil, then you | | | | though your spouse is totally to blame, you play a |
| may need some very quick and effective marriage | | | | significant role as well. So the only thing that you can |
| advice. I'm going to give it to you now... | | | | do and the only person in the relationship that you can |
| Why Saving a Marriage Takes More Than Hope... | | | | change is YOU. |
| You know, a lot of marriages rely on a losing strategy | | | | How to Fix a Marriage and Live 'Til Death Do Us Part |
| called hope to get them through the rough patches. | | | | Without Going Insane... |
| Hope is something we all need but it's not a good | | | | Now that you realize that trying to change your |
| strategy for fixing a bad marriage. | | | | spouse is useless it's time to get to work on fixing your |
| In fact it's not much of a strategy for anything except | | | | marriage. Even if you're doing it all alone. That's right, |
| for motivation. Hope is something we all need in our | | | | alone. Your spouse may not care to fix it. Heck they |
| marriages, and the reason that when giving marriage | | | | may not even think that anything is wrong. Or maybe |
| advice or any sort of self development advice it | | | | things are so wrong that they're burned out. |
| should never be left out. | | | | So therefore the work comes in for you. You need to |
| But it's action that will help you fix a marriage. I know | | | | begin doing the things that you have control over. You |
| because my own marriage was in dire straights for a | | | | need to begin to work on becoming the best you that |
| few years and hope played the role of keeping me | | | | can possibly. This doesn't mean giving up who you are |
| fighting. But action played the role of getting my | | | | and getting stepped on, but it does mean being selfless |
| marriage to a place that I never thought it could get. | | | | and thoughtful. It means doing what everyone should |
| What Kind of Action to Take When Saving a | | | | do, and what you do to a best friend which is treating |
| Marriage... | | | | your spouse the way that you would want to be |
| So what type of action is one to take when they | | | | treated. |
| want to fix a marriage that's falling on hard times, and | | | | And another huge piece of marriage advice, take the |
| making us second guess our wedding vows? What | | | | D word of the table. Take divorce off the table as an |
| do we do when we can't change our spouse and so | | | | option. Burn that bridge and then begin the work. |
| the trouble keeps flying in our face no matter what. | | | | Because the work will only succeed and be fruitful if |
| Well the first mistake is trying to change anybody. You | | | | there's no escape route. |
| can't change your spouse. It can't be done. The only | | | | |