Attention Adults with ADD: What To Do When Hyperfocus Works Against You

Adults with ADD are both blessed and cursed with theprogress but your frustration in the situation has you
ability to hyperfocus.feeling unable to move on. You become determined to
Hyperfocus is a unique ability that we have to focussodo what you set out to do at any cost. (Perfectionism
intensely that the rest of the world temporarilyoften causes negative hyperfocus.)
disappears. It's the the opposite of boredom. Instead ofIn this state, you keep telling yourself, "Just two more
having difficulty concentrating or getting started, theminutes. I've got to get this." But it's never just two
hyperfocused ADDer has trouble shifting focus awaymore minutes. Your thoughts and actions are stuck.
from the interesting subject at hand.You don't feel good about making progress. You feel
Hyperfocus can be a really good thing. If you're highlycompelled to finish what you set out to do at all
interested in what you're concentrating on, then thecosts--including losing sleep, skipping meals, and
ability to hyperfocus is an asset. It can help you getcompromising your mental health.
through a difficult task, like a report for work or aIn short, positive hyperfocus feels good and makes
household problem that needs to be fixed. It can alsoyou happy. Negative hyperfocus feels bad and makes
help tremendously during creative periods in which youryou stressed.
juices are flowing and you're having fun writing, painting,Negative hyperfocus is very difficult to break out of. It
crafting, or expressing yourself in an artistic outlet.takes a lot of awareness and a healthy dose of
This positive hyperfocus is what I call being in the flow.rationalizing self-talk. Forcing yourself (yes, forcing
You enjoy what you're doing--whether it's work,yourself) to get unstuck by stopping and de-stressing
problem-solving, or being creative. You're productiveis essential to breaking the pattern.
and you enjoy not only what you're doing, but also theIt helps to remember that in that stressed out and
fact that you're making progress. Your thoughts andfrantic state, the things you actually accomplish are
actions are flowing.often inferior to what you would accomplish in a
However, hyperfocus can also be a bad thing. Adultsrelaxed state. Operating from a calm and centered
with ADD often go into hyperfocus mode when aplace is sure to produce better results than operating
stressful problem or situation presents itself, and thefrom a stressed and frantic place.
inability to tear yourself away results in more stress.So the next time you find yourself hyperfocusing, stop
This can happen when writing a paper for school,and check in with yourself to determine if you're
trying to solve a problem at work, attempting to fix afantastically flowing, or stressfully sticking.
broken gadget, or even surfing the Internet.Ask yourself: Do I feel good about what I'm
Negative hyperfocus is what I call being in the stick. It'saccomplishing, or am I just stressed out? If the answer
really about an inability to shift focus, and the frustrationis "I'm just stressed," then take a step to break the
that results. You want to finish a task or makepattern. Walk away.