| Dating in today's world has changed
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| | embarrassment in answering questions
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| dramatically in the last half century.
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| | about one's past sexual experience, one's
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| The subject of sex, and even the act
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| | likes or dislikes, or even one's level of
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| itself, has become more recognized as an
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| | sexual expertise. Questions of this
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| acceptable part of a date in today's
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| | nature are neither embarrassing to the
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| world. In the 1950's and early 1960's the
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| | participants, nor, thought of to be
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| subject of sex was rarely discussed or
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| | intruding upon one's personal and private
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| considered in such an open manner, on a
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| | business. In fact, if the subject of sex
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| date, as it is today. This is not to say
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| | isn't brought up, the dater is often
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| that sex, or the subject of sex, has
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| | thought of as boring or inexperienced,
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| never made an 'appearance' on a date. On
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| | rather than respectful of one's privacy.
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| the contrary, sex, on many occasions, has
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| | Even more disturbing is the number of
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| indeed 'inserted' itself into a date.
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| | first time daters that engage in sex
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| The difference between then and now is
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| | after knowing one another for mere hours.
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| that those occurrences were the
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| | Many guys come right out and ask their
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| exception, rather than the rule.For the
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| | date if they have ever had a 'one night
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| broad majority of daters in those times,
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| | stand', and/or if they would be
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| the subject of sex was kept in the
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| | interested in having a 'one night stand'.
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| background. Sex was the unspoken of
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| | Few girls are insulted by this line of
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| 'elephant' in the room. As one might
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| | questioning, and answer as if they were
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| expect, in a situation where two healthy
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| | at a job interview. Worse still, some
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| young members of the opposite sex are
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| | girls consider the request, and some even
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| sharing close quarters, there was always
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| | agree to it. When it comes to sex, it
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| an undercurrent of sexual electricity in
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| | seems as though the thought process of
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| the air. It just was not openly, or
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| | some of these young women has become
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| crassly, acknowledged by the dating
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| | slightly warped. Point in fact, an
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| couple. Most of the dates back then,
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| | increasing number of young women today
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| followed along similar lines. During a
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| | insist that a certain type of sex, which
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| date, a guy could make suggestive jokes
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| | I will not describe here, is not, in
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| and/or comments, and sometimes, playfully
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| | fact, sex. They say sex only occurs when
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| hug and grab the girl, but he knew where
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| | two people lay together and have sexual
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| to draw the line - and had enough class
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| | intercourse. They say that any other sex
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| not to cross it. A girl flirted and
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| | act isn't a sex act at all, and such acts
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| looked knowingly at her date, and
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| | are no worse than kissing. With this
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| depending on the circumstances, might
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| | type of thinking, it's plain to see how
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| allow a certain degree of superficial
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| | easy it is for unscrupulous males to
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| physical contact. Still, she wouldn't go
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| | exploit these naive and ill-informed
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| so far as to put herself into a
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| | females. The level of self-respect and
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| compromising situation that she couldn't
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| | self-control, in many of today's dating
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| get out of. Most dates culminated in a
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| | couples, seems to have declined in direct
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| 'good night kiss'. Some went further, and
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| | ratio to the increase of their unabashed
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| included 'heavy petting', which included
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| | and unbridled lust. It would be wise, for
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| tongue kissing, fondling, etc. - but no
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| | the daters of today, to keep in mind that
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| 'skin' came out into the open. Finally,
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| | while it cannot be denied that having sex
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| a smaller group included those who went
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| | is a pleasurable experience, it can also
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| 'all the way'; but as previously
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| | be a costly one. The act of sex carries
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| mentioned, this group was the exception,
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| | consequences and responsibilities that
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| rather than the rule. It was rare that a
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| | are frequently underestimated, and often
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| dating couple would have sex during the
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| | overlooked. Pregnancy, sexually
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| early stages of 'courtship'. While there
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| | transmitted diseases, family crisis, and
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| is no question that sex was always in the
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| | a loss of standing in one's community are
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| background of a date, the daters had
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| | just some of the consequences of an
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| enough self-restraint, or, self-respect,
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| | 'uncontrolled libido'. Sexual choices
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| to prevent it from coming to the fore.
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| | made by daters must be fashioned with
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| In today's world of dating, sex has taken
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| | foresight, self-control, and a
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| a much more prominent role. On most
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| | willingness to accept responsibility for
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| dates, sex is openly discussed and talked
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| | one's actions. K.
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| about by both daters. There's little
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