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The Psychology of Quitting Smoking - Now How to Quit Smoking

Many experts believe smoking is only about 10
hysical addiction and a whopping 90- My feet are always cold. This could be due
sychological addiction. Your body willto high blood pressure and poor circulation
recover fairly quickly from nicotineassociated  with  smoking.
withdrawals (the worst symptoms usually abate
in three days or less), but your- I have a nasty wet cough and I have to blow
psychological dependency on cigarettes can bemy nose way too often. Mucus build-up is the
much  more  difficult  to  defeat.body's reaction to all the toxins and
chemicals in cigarette smoke and could be a
One way to combat this is to do a bit ofprecursor to serious respiratory disease.
self-analysis  before  giving  up cigarettes.Even if I don't get cancer, I don't want to
be one of those people who has to tote oxygen
Make a list with two columns. Label columnbottles  around  everywhere.
one "Why I Started Smoking" and label column
two  "Why  I  Want  To  Quit  Smoking."- I'm always tired. Could it be that my body
is using up all its energy trying to
In column one, list all the reasons you caneliminate the toxins and chemicals from
remember as to why you started smoking in thecigarettes?
first place. Was it peer pressure? Rebellion?
Did you think it made you look cool? Did it2.  Vanity  Reasons
make you feel like a grown-up? Really try to
remember the exact reasons why you started- Smoking causes premature aging and drying
smoking  and  write  them  all  down.of the skin. I don't want to look like a
wrinkled  up  old  prune!
Now look over that list. Do any of those
reasons still apply in your life today?- My fingers, fingernails and teeth are all
Probably  not.tobacco stained. Disgusting! How
embarrassing.
If you're like most people, you will see that
your reasons for becoming a smoker are no- When I get on the elevator after a smoke
longer valid, are often just silly, and arebreak at work, everyone wrinkles their nose
easily outweighed by the risks to your healthand tries to edge away from me because I reek
and  your  family's  well-being.of cigarette smoke. I feel like a pariah.
It's embarrassing to always be the big
So let's move on to column two... Why do you"stinker" on the elevator. I feel like I have
want  to  quit  smoking?no  self-control.
This one may seem obvious, but it can be a- My breath is awful. Kissing me must be like
bit tricky. You really need to take some timekissing an ashtray. I spend a fortune on
and think hard about this. Don't just listbreath  mints.
the obvious health reasons. You've been
reading the Surgeon General's warnings for3.  Financial  Reasons
years with little effect, so you need to come
up with reasons that truly have meaning for- If I save all the money I used to spend on
you.cigarettes, I'll have enough to take a
vacation in Cancun (or some other warm
The things most people write down will NOTtropical  place)  every  winter!
help  you  quit  smoking...
- I could use the money to pay off my credit
-  I  don't  want  to  get  lung  cancer.cards!
- I don't want to have a heart attack or a- I could donate money to my favorite charity
stroke.or sponsor a child. My cigarette money could
make  the  world  a  better  place!
- I'd like to live long enough to see my
grandchildren  grow  up.4.  Family  Reasons
Those are all good reasons to quit smoking,-  My  family  can  stop  worrying  about me.
certainly... but they deal in "possibilities"
rather  than  in  specifics.- My spouse will have to find something new
to  nag  me  about.  Just  kidding,  honey!
Sure you MIGHT get lung cancer, you MIGHT
have a heart attack or a stroke, you MIGHT- My children will be proud of me and
die young and miss out on seeing your(hopefully) they'll never start smoking
grandchildren  grow  up...themselves, having seen firsthand what a
nasty  destructive  habit  it  is.
...or you MIGHT NOT! You're not likely to
break a strong psychological addiction based5.  Cleanliness  Reasons
on what MIGHT happen. Your mind will work
hard to convince you that it won't happen to- The walls used to be white. Now they're a
you! Instead, list health problems that younasty dirty-looking brown. I need to
are  already  experiencing.repaint...  again!
Your list should point out things in your- I stink, my car stinks, my house stinks,
life that you are actively unhappy about andeverything I own reeks of cigarette smoke. I
are STRONGLY MOTIVATED to change. In order tocan't even lend a book to a non-smoking
break your psychological addiction, you needfriend because they can't stand the smell of
an arsenal of new thoughts and desires thatsmoke  permeating  the  pages!
are  stronger  than  your  desire  to  smoke!
Do you see yourself in any of the items
Here are the types of things you want to putlisted? You may have many more reasons of
in  column  two...your own. Find as many compelling and emotion
reasons to quit smoking as you can think of
Why  Do  I  Want  To  Quit  Smoking?and  write  them  all  down.
1.  Health  ReasonsIf you can re-train your mind to think of
smoking as a silly and self-destructive thing
- I get so out of breath when I exert myselfto do, then you're almost sure to succeed.
even a little bit. Just vacuuming the houseAnd if you need something to do with your
makes  me  pant  and  gasp.hands... try knitting!



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